PacificBlue
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I don't think God ever intended us to feel shame, guilt, blah, blah, blah about sex.
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Calamity Jane
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I don't think God intended that either PB. I think feelings of shame about so many things are instilled by small minded men. God wouldn't have given you a body and yearnings and feelings and the ability to experience such pleasure if you were supposed to feel bad about it.
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Kitte
"I dont know about God in the Judeo Christian sense but someone once told me All acts of joy are worship unto the Goddess. So I don't feel any guilt about enjoying sex."
They lied.. The Goddess hates Scrabble and will punish you for playing it.
So moat it be!
"I dont know about God in the Judeo Christian sense but someone once told me All acts of joy are worship unto the Goddess. So I don't feel any guilt about enjoying sex."
They lied.. The Goddess hates Scrabble and will punish you for playing it.
So moat it be!
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Catholism is a repression of life. I believe that the act of joy is the best thing that life has given us. So whether there is a God, Godess or whatever you believe in, I believe that all sex in consenting adult is a celibration or worship of life.Never said:
Take Care and Lust Always,
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Never said:
I'm not catholic.
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God also gave us yearnings and feelings of greed, hate, jealousy. We naturally want to harm people. We naturally want to steal from people. We are naturally selfish and uncaring. All of these impulses are natural to us along with the good emotions.pagancowgirl said:
The need for sex is not a bad emotion/need - it is rather neutral compared to the need to love, care, hate and be harmful. It is like eating and breathing, but in certain situations sex is such a strong need that it can over-ride our better judgement, and get us into situations, cause us to do things that are harmful to ourselves and others. Our sex drive can cause us to catch STDs, it can cause unwanted pregnancies, cause people to rape, to molest children, to break marriage vows - and a whole raft of other things.
Just because it is natural and even neutral, does not mean we should always give in to the drive to have sex.
At the same time, given the right atmosphere and situation, as long as we are consenting adults, and no one is harmed, I do believe God wants us to enjoy our sexuality in most of its forms and not to feel guilty about it as many in various religions have tried to have us believe in the past (and some still in the present).
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Shy Tall Guy said:
I didn't say we should always give in to the drive. But even when we give in to it, when we perhaps shouldn't have, I don't think shame should be felt.
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PacificBlue
"I'm not catholic."
Oh no, you're a godless heathen Church of Englander, aren't you? No wonder you think sex is enjoyable. Sex is the most horrid act a woman can go through. Maybe, you're not doing it right.
You're lying straight on your back, staring at the ceiling and wishing it would be over, right?
"I'm not catholic."
Oh no, you're a godless heathen Church of Englander, aren't you? No wonder you think sex is enjoyable. Sex is the most horrid act a woman can go through. Maybe, you're not doing it right.
You're lying straight on your back, staring at the ceiling and wishing it would be over, right?
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Never said:
Whoops...that apparently is what I'm doing wrong.
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Never said:
Isn't there a rule somewhere that says lesbians can't talk about hetero sex that way?
I have to run get groceries now that it is cool enough to breathe outside, but I'll be back! I'm getting my Lit fix tonight to make up for vacation. Don't run away- it's been ages since you've updated us on what is happening in Neverland!
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Shame shouldn't be felt because it was sex, but shame maybe should be felt because we should have controlled ourselves. I have in the past had a bad temper and given in to it and later felt stupid and ashamed at what I did/said. I finally learned to control it most of the time. Same goes for sex; I have a very strong sex drive. I have used people in the past just as they used me - I was and still am ashamed of what I did. Not ashamed of the sex - it was great, but ashamed that I was so weak that I let my sex drive cause me to harm others (not physically, but rather emotionally).pagancowgirl said:
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Thanks for the fun read, WaxNWane.
Here's more of the same: And Adam Knew Eve - A Dictionary of Sex in the Bible
Here's more of the same: And Adam Knew Eve - A Dictionary of Sex in the Bible
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Ice Cold said:
I've always wondered about that...why is there this need to yell "Oh God" "Oh God" "Oh God" right at the peak of orgasm.
Oh wait...is that just me that does that? *heated blush*
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Ice Cold said:
LOL... I thought that was you I heard screaming, now I know.
Did I forget *on purpose* to close that window again?
