Is this the right forum for this topic? I’ve had three separate one night stands with women a long time ago, and now I’m a bit curious about this again. I’m a straight submissive 54F and the ¨long time ago¨ things were tasks my husband made for me. He set me up to flirt with girls and I enjoyed it, the shame was gone because of his commitment towards me, sometimes we were abroad and we were young. My real turn on at the time was when I was pleasing him with my actions and his reward when he was proud of me. A few days ago I was challenged to go for a flirt again, here on lit. Our lives are too much into regular reality now and i don’t know how to deal with this. I’m really just writing this post to get some feedback. Our relationship is built on love and we make a big difference between our play and our life, we have never really mixed the two. /J