GLBT - & M?

[Shankara20]

Years and years ago, when I was young I thought I was het – a breader. I married my high school sweetie and had kids. I lover having sex with her…

30 years later I noticed that I got a hard-on looking at hard-ons – guessed I was gay. I went looking for a cock to suck - it was yummy

I joined a BDSM pansexual community – I liked ‘im all – am I really a kinky Bi?

I liked that one – kinky Bi, thats me!

I moved away from San Francisco and back to Kansas – living alone after a string of really bad relationships (I seem to have been born with a mate-discrimination gene abnormality)

Now I live in Kansas
I flirt with a pretty man – he flirts back – he wants to be my boyfriend – he wants to have sex – I panic and run away….

A pretty woman flirts with me – I flirt back – she want me to be her boyfriend – she wants to have sex – I panic and run away.


I jack-off often - looking at lady porn and looking at guy porn

Aside from a huge fear of commitment –

Am I really a mono-sexual??

 

[Queersetti]

I don't think you can just say "aside from a huge fear of commitment", because that really seems to be the crux of the situation. If you don't want a commitment with anyone, does the other persons gender make any difference?

 

[Shankara20]

I don't think you can just say "aside from a huge fear of commitment", because that really seems to be the crux of the situation. If you don't want a commitment with anyone, does the other persons gender make any difference?

of course you are right – thanks

when the sex in the group setting was relatively safe from emotional enmeshment, it was great sex

now it is one-on-one and it just feels sticky – in a bad way.

Being someone’s “sweetie” has me on the run…

 

[Queersetti]

of course you are right – thanks

when the sex in the group setting was relatively safe from emotional enmeshment, it was great sex

now it is one-on-one and it just feels sticky – in a bad way.

Being someone’s “sweetie” has me on the run…

I think the question then becomes, do you think you need to be in a relationship? Do you feel that you need a partner to be fulfilled?

It seems that our society pushes that message on eberyone, but I don't believe it's true. many people are happier on their own, and shouldn't feel social pressure to be otherwise if they are not so inclined.