Giving women a chance to say "yes" instead of forcing them to say "no"

[sheablue]

Giving women a chance to say "yes" instead of forcing them to say "no"

Battling the "silence is sexy" date script. What an idea. I've definitely felt the effect of this on my dating life in the past.

I thought this essay was very interesting. And, though I don't think he covered it quite completely or correctly, I'm glad he mentioned Dominance and submission, too. How do you think this idea can apply to a submissive?



http://queerguesscode.wordpress.com/2013/03/22/un-memorizing-the-silence-is-sexy-date-script/

 

[Primalex]

I've definitely felt the effect of this on my dating life in the past.

In example?

 

[the captians wench]

I like this article.

I know Jounar prefers it when I will just come out and say, "May I have a spanking?" or "I want you to hurt me," or something along those lines. He says it's sexy as hell. I think part of that is that it takes some of the pressure off of him to always get the ball rolling, or always having to be the one to come up with an activity.

Mr. expressed that he likes it when I look at him and say, "wanna blow job?" as well. Again, it takes the pressure off of him to get things started, and this way he knows for sure what it is I want. And I think it makes both of them feel a bit more wanted and attractive.

 

[JamieJ424]

I like it both ways. I identify as dominant, but that doesn't mean I always need or want to be the one starting things. I might be thinking about work, or engaged in a conversation, when suddenly one whispered, urgent word or two from her causes a complete shift in the situation dynamics.

J