Girlfriend's toys

[ny_m_teacher]

My girlfriend likes to use toys as foreplay. It started out with a tiny pocket rocket and gradually moved up to realistic 10 inch vibrating dildos. She likes to lay on her stomach and hold the vibrating dildo between her legs (head by her clit) over her panties. After some time she started requesting a dildo by her mouth to suck while in this position with me moving it in and out of her mouth. Her next request was that I stand next to the bed and feed her my cock along with the dildo. Recently she has been asking me to insert one of the 10 inch dildos into her from behind. She refuses to discuss this post-coital. I feel like she likes the idea of being slutty with multiple guys but is (a) afraid of my reaction, (b) afraid of diseases, (c) afraid her fantasy will be found out by others, (d) afraid she will enjoy it too much. Any ideas???

 

[Alluring_Fantasies]

Or maybe she just needs a step up each time, as she gets used to the sensation and wants something new each time she asks for another one? In such case it could be that there is no secret second meaning

 

[ny_m_teacher]

Or maybe she just needs a step up each time, as she gets used to the sensation and wants something new each time she asks for another one? In such case it could be that there is no secret second meaning

Thank you for the feedback. I hope you are correct.

 

[Saint_Ann]

My girlfriend likes to use toys as foreplay. It started out with a tiny pocket rocket and gradually moved up to realistic 10 inch vibrating dildos. She likes to lay on her stomach and hold the vibrating dildo between her legs (head by her clit) over her panties. After some time she started requesting a dildo by her mouth to suck while in this position with me moving it in and out of her mouth. Her next request was that I stand next to the bed and feed her my cock along with the dildo. Recently she has been asking me to insert one of the 10 inch dildos into her from behind. She refuses to discuss this post-coital. I feel like she likes the idea of being slutty with multiple guys but is (a) afraid of my reaction, (b) afraid of diseases, (c) afraid her fantasy will be found out by others, (d) afraid she will enjoy it too much. Any ideas???

Sounds like a sex toy arms race. My concern is where does it all end? Especially since you're only at "the girlfriend" phase. Unless this is just another bullshit made up fantasy like all the others, in which case, eh.

 

[ny_m_teacher]

Sounds like a sex toy arms race. My concern is where does it all end? Especially since you're only at "the girlfriend" phase. Unless this is just another bullshit made up fantasy like all the others, in which case, eh.

Unsure what you mean by arms race.
This is a for real thing. I am unsure where it all ends also. Since she is unwilling to discuss it with me I am asking for advise from anyone that has experienced something similar.

 

[Bisexguy70]

My bisexual mind goes to this thought. Perhaps you suck the dildo first before shes allowed to suck it. This could open the doors to some very wild taboo fantasies. I realize this isnt for everyone. However, some like to be stimulated in several parts at once. I for one love having my nips and balls played with while getting a bj. The trifecta!!! She might just like being watched too. Perhaps it turns her on to make you watch her “ suck a dick”. Best thing to do is this… just ask her. Communication is key in any sexual relationship. Dont make assumtions

 

[ny_m_teacher]

My bisexual mind goes to this thought. Perhaps you suck the dildo first before shes allowed to suck it. This could open the doors to some very wild taboo fantasies. I realize this isnt for everyone. However, some like to be stimulated in several parts at once. I for one love having my nips and balls played with while getting a bj. The trifecta!!! She might just like being watched too. Perhaps it turns her on to make you watch her “ suck a dick”. Best thing to do is this… just ask her. Communication is key in any sexual relationship. Dont make assumtions

I have tried asking her. She doesn't like talking about it because she thinks it's too dirty to talk about.
She did enjoy when I made out with her while she was sucking but she got weirded out by it. Her brother came out, after being married and having kids (divorce), so I think as much as she liked it, it hit a little to close to home for her.
Thank you for your feedback. It is much appreciated.

 

[Bisexguy70]

I have tried asking her. She doesn't like talking about it because she thinks it's too dirty to talk about.
She did enjoy when I made out with her while she was sucking but she got weirded out by it. Her brother came out, after being married and having kids (divorce), so I think as much as she liked it, it hit a little to close to home for her.
Thank you for your feedback. It is much appreciated.

Sorry to hear that. My wife is the same way. Shes turned off talking about anything sexual

 

[Rachel7788]

My girlfriend likes to use toys as foreplay. It started out with a tiny pocket rocket and gradually moved up to realistic 10 inch vibrating dildos. She likes to lay on her stomach and hold the vibrating dildo between her legs (head by her clit) over her panties. After some time she started requesting a dildo by her mouth to suck while in this position with me moving it in and out of her mouth. Her next request was that I stand next to the bed and feed her my cock along with the dildo. Recently she has been asking me to insert one of the 10 inch dildos into her from behind. She refuses to discuss this post-coital. I feel like she likes the idea of being slutty with multiple guys but is (a) afraid of my reaction, (b) afraid of diseases, (c) afraid her fantasy will be found out by others, (d) afraid she will enjoy it too much. Any ideas???

It sounds like you and your girlfriend are exploring some exciting and intimate experiences together! It's natural to have some concerns about her requests and fantasies, especially when they involve boundaries and emotional connections.