Girlfriend too traditional for oral

ayrton

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I love to have my dick sucked but not matter what I do my girl just isn't into oral. I've quit smoking and improved my diet to help with the taste, but she says it makes her feel dirty. She doesn't even like me going down on her. Anyway, are there any orally obessed ladies in the Chicago area that would be willing to help me? I'm a slim, trim, 55yr old divorced man. Horny all the time and love girls with big tits, but not too chunky.
 
Wow, I feel sorry for you. Getting my dick sucked is great, but going down on her is what I live for.
 
Wow I'm sorry for him also..........I'm not from Chicago, not that I randomly help men out like that but man Oral is sooooooooooooo Hot!
 
Leari said:
Wow I'm sorry for him also..........I'm not from Chicago, not that I randomly help men out like that but man Oral is sooooooooooooo Hot!

OK, you're not from Chicago, how close are you to the UK? :D
 
Nobody? I'm a very clean,decent gentleman. I read so many threads on this site from girls that say the enjoy sucking cock, even guys they just met so I was hoping...I'm too old for the singles bars and I'd be too nervous for a professional. Unfortunately one of my former girlfriends just loved sucking my dick and I miss that soooo much. She was something else. Driving down the road I'd all of a sudden feel her unzipping my jeans and there she'd be just sucking away as I drove. Oh man, now I feel even worse. Almost worth a trip to California to see her again...too bad she just got married. On the plus side, the last time she was in Chicago she did come by to suck me off. Like I said, a wonderful girl.
 
I'm amazed that in 2006 there's anyone who considers oral out of the mainstream. My sympathies, man.
 
Laughing Tiger said:
I'm amazed that in 2006 there's anyone who considers oral out of the mainstream. My sympathies, man.

Me too but I think he mentioned being an older couple.....but I could be wrong.

Nope not close to the UK :(
 
If i was a man and my lady didn't give me blow jobs, i wouldn't be with her. i know that sounds harsh but to me, giving blow jobs and eating pussy is just part of having great sex. Give and take both ways.
 
pink_ said:
If i was a man and my lady didn't give me blow jobs, i wouldn't be with her. i know that sounds harsh but to me, giving blow jobs and eating pussy is just part of having great sex. Give and take both ways.
I agree.. smiles :p
 
lastingpassion said:
Find another lady to keep your sanity...

I many other ways she's a wonderful girl. For one thing she's incredibly hot. Much younger than me and has huge natural tits and a small little ass that I enjoy immensely. I mis-spoke earlier. It's not that she finds blowjobs dirty...in fact since I quit some of my bad habits she says my cum isn't bad at all. She finds giving them demeaning. She's quite a feminist and it makes her feel like she's worshiping at the alter of the almighty cock. I tell her it just feels good. She claims I'm too obsessed with womens bodies and sex, which is probably true. I mean, even at my age I still want sex a couple times a day. As far as not licking her pussy she's afraid it might smell. I said my god, that's the scent of a women and I like it. Oh well, she does love to fuck. That said, I still want a good blowjob...I'm starting to think seriously about a professional, even though I've never paid in my life.
 
ayrton said:
I love to have my dick sucked but not matter what I do my girl just isn't into oral. I've quit smoking and improved my diet to help with the taste, but she says it makes her feel dirty. She doesn't even like me going down on her. Anyway, are there any orally obessed ladies in the Chicago area that would be willing to help me? I'm a slim, trim, 55yr old divorced man. Horny all the time and love girls with big tits, but not too chunky.
I would for sure loose her.
 
If you guys saw her I think you'd understand. She's a blonde Veronica Zemanova with piecing blue eyes and without an ounce of extra fat and DD natural tits. Plus, she is modest about her looks. I don't have a digital camera or I'd post a picture. I mean she is so hot it makes my dick just ache. I guess there's always a trade off. I know looks aren't everything, but I am kind of superficial when it comes to a womens looks.
 
ayrton said:
If you guys saw her I think you'd understand. She's a blonde Veronica Zemanova with piecing blue eyes and without an ounce of extra fat and DD natural tits. Plus, she is modest about her looks. I don't have a digital camera or I'd post a picture. I mean she is so hot it makes my dick just ache. I guess there's always a trade off. I know looks aren't everything, but I am kind of superficial when it comes to a womens looks.
Could you be any more shallow. You may as well just keep a picture.
 
There are still people who feel oral is dirty? I didn't know that! I've never had a problem with a girlfriend not wanting to give a blowjob or get eaten out, guess I'm lucky then?
 
Man you have my sympathies....the one thing I don't miss about my ex was his belief that oral (both giving and receiving) was dirty...I adore giving BJ's and actually celebrated my BF's Bday last night with a party where I sucked off 3 lucky guys from Lit and him.....yummmmm
 
fingermagic said:
Could you be any more shallow. You may as well just keep a picture.

Shallow? I guess maybe to a certain extent I'm guilty. A women's appearance is very important to me. I just get more excited by a pretty girl. I've felt this way since High School and since I'm still able to attract a
beautiful girl at my age I'm certainly not going to change now. And no, I'm not that rich. I work at staying slim and trim and I expect the same from the ladies I'm involved with. So a nice body is a must for me. Getting back to the original subject I should clarify. She says what I want is different from "making love". She will kiss and suck and caress my dick as part of love-making, but she seldom continues until I cum. What I'd like is a casual blowjob from time to time. She claims I'm too kinky. Which she is right about. Hell, if I had the chance , I'd do anything she wanted me to do to her. She accuses me of wanting to "Fuck and Suck" not "make love". I guess she's more a romantic than I am.
 
I sure as hell wouldn't be dating a feminist, and it sounds like you're dating her for the wrong reasons anyway. It doesn't matter what she looks like if she's not into sex. Ditch her.
 
ayrton said:
I many other ways she's a wonderful girl. For one thing she's incredibly hot. Much younger than me and has huge natural tits and a small little ass that I enjoy immensely. I mis-spoke earlier. It's not that she finds blowjobs dirty...in fact since I quit some of my bad habits she says my cum isn't bad at all. She finds giving them demeaning. She's quite a feminist and it makes her feel like she's worshiping at the alter of the almighty cock. I tell her it just feels good. She claims I'm too obsessed with womens bodies and sex, which is probably true. I mean, even at my age I still want sex a couple times a day. As far as not licking her pussy she's afraid it might smell. I said my god, that's the scent of a women and I like it. Oh well, she does love to fuck. That said, I still want a good blowjob...I'm starting to think seriously about a professional, even though I've never paid in my life.


No one's that hott, i lose her too.
 
ayrton said:
If you guys saw her I think you'd understand. She's a blonde Veronica Zemanova with piecing blue eyes and without an ounce of extra fat and DD natural tits. Plus, she is modest about her looks. I don't have a digital camera or I'd post a picture. I mean she is so hot it makes my dick just ache. I guess there's always a trade off. I know looks aren't everything, but I am kind of superficial when it comes to a womens looks.


i could careless what she looks like, your description says it all.
 
ayrton said:
If you guys saw her I think you'd understand. She's a blonde Veronica Zemanova with piecing blue eyes and without an ounce of extra fat and DD natural tits. Plus, she is modest about her looks. I don't have a digital camera or I'd post a picture. I mean she is so hot it makes my dick just ache. I guess there's always a trade off. I know looks aren't everything, but I am kind of superficial when it comes to a womens looks.


You know I am kinda OK looking too (blonde,5'8',126lbs,38D) but I assure you that my hubby would drop me in a second if I said giving him a bj turned me off. Part of a relationship is doing things for each other, even if sometimes we don't feel like it!!!!
 
ayrton said:
Shallow? I guess maybe to a certain extent I'm guilty. A women's appearance is very important to me. I just get more excited by a pretty girl. I've felt this way since High School and since I'm still able to attract a
beautiful girl at my age I'm certainly not going to change now. And no, I'm not that rich. I work at staying slim and trim and I expect the same from the ladies I'm involved with. So a nice body is a must for me. Getting back to the original subject I should clarify. She says what I want is different from "making love". She will kiss and suck and caress my dick as part of love-making, but she seldom continues until I cum. What I'd like is a casual blowjob from time to time. She claims I'm too kinky. Which she is right about. Hell, if I had the chance , I'd do anything she wanted me to do to her. She accuses me of wanting to "Fuck and Suck" not "make love". I guess she's more a romantic than I am.


Despite all the comments Ayrton, trust your own instincts. As you have mentioned, she has many other positive traits.
 
Adious baby!
I'd be gone no matter how "hot" she looks!
If she is prudish on the sucking and being licked stuff she is not for you!
You will be spending your life regretting being in a relationship that doesn't satisfy you and eventually you will seek out a partner that isn't such a drag in bed!
Let her go find some undersexed guy that wants a dull sexlife!












ayrton said:
Shallow? I guess maybe to a certain extent I'm guilty. A women's appearance is very important to me. I just get more excited by a pretty girl. I've felt this way since High School and since I'm still able to attract a
beautiful girl at my age I'm certainly not going to change now. And no, I'm not that rich. I work at staying slim and trim and I expect the same from the ladies I'm involved with. So a nice body is a must for me. Getting back to the original subject I should clarify. She says what I want is different from "making love". She will kiss and suck and caress my dick as part of love-making, but she seldom continues until I cum. What I'd like is a casual blowjob from time to time. She claims I'm too kinky. Which she is right about. Hell, if I had the chance , I'd do anything she wanted me to do to her. She accuses me of wanting to "Fuck and Suck" not "make love". I guess she's more a romantic than I am.
 
Wolf of Mibu 69 said:
I sure as hell wouldn't be dating a feminist
Define "feminist." It means a lot of things to a lot of people.

I'm a feminist. For those of you who like to jump to conclusions based on a stupid label, that's probably enough for you to disregard anything I have to say. However, feminism--for me, anyway--isn't about being a bra-burning, man-hating militant; those people have, unfortunately, hijacked feminism for their own gain.

And FWIW, I have no problem reconciling feminism and blow jobs, though I'm picky about the altars of cock that I choose to worship at. :)
 
Maxell46 said:
Adious baby!
I'd be gone no matter how "hot" she looks!
If she is prudish on the sucking and being licked stuff she is not for you!
You will be spending your life regretting being in a relationship that doesn't satisfy you and eventually you will seek out a partner that isn't such a drag in bed!
Let her go find some undersexed guy that wants a dull sexlife!
I totally agree! And, ahem, I'm a feminist too and am no where nearly like that.
 
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