Girlfriend Bi-curious

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My girlfriend says she is not bisexual or was she ever attracted to a woman, but she doesn't find the idea repulsive or anything.
But she says she would like to try sex with another woman, depending on the mood and how it would go, under the right circumstances, she said she might go all the way.

I am now wondering a bit, is she just bi-curios (she likes trying kinky things) or is she a closeted bisexual? What are your thoughts / experiences on this?

Do you girls have similar fantasies, even if straight and do you men like the ideaq of your gf having sex with a girl?
 
I am now wondering a bit, is she just bi-curios (she likes trying kinky things) or is she a closeted bisexual? What are your thoughts / experiences on this?

She has to answer that question, not you. If she's "closeted," that means that she acknowledges herself to be bisexual but isn't ready to make that known to others. But it sounds to me like she's "bi-curious" and is willing to try the activity to see if it floats her boat. If it does, it's up to her to determine whether she wants others to know that or not.

Do you girls have similar fantasies, even if straight and do you men like the ideaq of your gf having sex with a girl?

As a man, I wouldn't have any problem with my wife having sex with a woman. Or another man, if she wants that. I want her to be happy, however or wherever that may lead. I think I'm mature enough to deal with it. If I'm not, it's my problem, not hers.
 
My girlfriend says she is not bisexual or was she ever attracted to a woman, but she doesn't find the idea repulsive or anything.
But she says she would like to try sex with another woman, depending on the mood and how it would go, under the right circumstances, she said she might go all the way.

I am now wondering a bit, is she just bi-curios (she likes trying kinky things) or is she a closeted bisexual? What are your thoughts / experiences on this?

Do you girls have similar fantasies, even if straight and do you men like the ideaq of your gf having sex with a girl?
this is a no brainer; any guy who would not want to watch this is an idiot. As to woman on woman, I think women like this better than with us guys, woman are more in touch with the other woman's feeling verses dick head like us guys!
 
I've posted about this myself some time ago. I thought that maybe I was bi but I'm definitely bi-curious. The thought of another woman's breasts rubbed against my body or me sucking/licking her breasts and vice versa turns me on. In fact, I know I would enjoy it. The thought of lesbian sex doesn't repulse me but I simply don't think past what I have just written above, not even thoughts of oral sex or toys, simply that alone. So, I have thought about it at length and I feel I am bi-curious. Anything for me would just be an experiment (which wouldn't be unfair to put an honest lesbian woman through, if not made aware she were just an experiment for my bi-curiousness). Due to what I've just mentioned, I haven't explored it and I feel now that I'm quite happy with my fantasies as aid to my masturbation and it left at that. Sometimes fantasies are just fantasies.

That may be the case for your partner but maybe she doesn't even know yet. Maybe, like me some time ago, she hasn't yet thought about it. Quite possibly, the real question is whether she's thought about dating women because that's a tell tale sign. In all of my thoughts about whether I was bi or bi-curious I never wanted to actually date a woman, it was just the (somewhat) sexual side of it and nothing else.
 
My girlfriend says she is not bisexual or was she ever attracted to a woman, but she doesn't find the idea repulsive or anything.
But she says she would like to try sex with another woman, depending on the mood and how it would go, under the right circumstances, she said she might go all the way.

I am now wondering a bit, is she just bi-curios (she likes trying kinky things) or is she a closeted bisexual? What are your thoughts / experiences on this?

Do you girls have similar fantasies, even if straight and do you men like the ideaq of your gf having sex with a girl?


Brother, don't get lost in the minutia of the Sexualites "labels". Bi, Gay....Bla Bla...it's her choice. just be lucky she's willing to tell you. If you need a Label...."TRY-SEXUAL"

But, I'm sure all the sExual Giants will explain it to you.
 
Sounds to me she needs a close gal pal and a few bottles of wine. :) If she has the right one it won't be awkward but liberating. Good Luck to you both.
 
Gee, that's a tough one. :rolleyes: Women just have more elastic sexual desires than do men. GENERALLY speaking (before the hounds come after me). See where it goes, unless you're uncomfortable with a third party. Just because it's a common fantasy doesn't mean you have to succumb to any pressure to live it out.
 
My wife, gf at the time, had similar questions. It just came down to being curious and wanting to explore more of her sexual side. I was open to hearing what she had to say and supportive when she wanted to be with a woman. She was so scared that she would be let down. She doesnt see her self as bi but she does get urges to be with women occasionally
 
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