GF cheating threesome. What now?

[SoFlaSoul]

So my GF and I were at a bar we frequent. At some point during the evening she asked me to run and get here something to eat (the bar doesnt serve food). I came back about 10 mins later and she wasnt at the bar. We have a bunch of friends and it's not unusual for them to run off and chat in the ladies room or whatever.
About 45 minutes go by and i'm like "WTF" where the hell are they?
The bartender says "Oh, they went upstairs to the office"

10 minutes later my girlfriend shows up, Pulls me over to the quiet end of the bar and says "Um I was upstairs with (XXXX) and she went down on me because I told her I had never tried that before"
"Oh, and then her boyfriend showed up and he was supposed to do her while she was doing me, but then he ended up doing me while she was doing me at the same time"

Jaw drops...
"I'm sorry honey" she says, "It all just happened so fast"

"Apparently not too fast cuz you were up there for 45+ minutes"

I didn't make a scene at the bar. Just left. Now it's 2 days later and I am really starting to get pissed. It's not just what she did, it's also the fact that the 2 people she did it with were people I thought were my friends too. Yes there was a lot of alcohol involved but I am not buying the "it all happened so fast" or "I was really drunk" excuses.

Should I just bail?

 

[seth6138]

Should I just bail?[/QUOTE]


No man,...that's a good woman...hold onto to her and allow her to grow...and take you along for the ride.. You will regret bailing for a very long time..

 

[SoFlaSoul]

I guess what really pisses me off is that it was a behind the back thing. I kinda feel like it was a planned thing on my friends part (my GF is known to be a little frisky when she gets her drink on).
Shit I would have at least liked to get a chance to watch.

 

[parodyluvr75]

So my GF and I were at a bar we frequent. At some point during the evening she asked me to run and get here something to eat (the bar doesnt serve food). I came back about 10 mins later and she wasnt at the bar. We have a bunch of friends and it's not unusual for them to run off and chat in the ladies room or whatever.
About 45 minutes go by and i'm like "WTF" where the hell are they?
The bartender says "Oh, they went upstairs to the office"

10 minutes later my girlfriend shows up, Pulls me over to the quiet end of the bar and says "Um I was upstairs with (XXXX) and she went down on me because I told her I had never tried that before"
"Oh, and then her boyfriend showed up and he was supposed to do her while she was doing me, but then he ended up doing me while she was doing me at the same time"

Jaw drops...
"I'm sorry honey" she says, "It all just happened so fast"

"Apparently not too fast cuz you were up there for 45+ minutes"

I didn't make a scene at the bar. Just left. Now it's 2 days later and I am really starting to get pissed. It's not just what she did, it's also the fact that the 2 people she did it with were people I thought were my friends too. Yes there was a lot of alcohol involved but I am not buying the "it all happened so fast" or "I was really drunk" excuses.

Should I just bail?

If you have to ask.

 

[Saint Peter]

Stay closer to church oriented social activities.

 

[lovetoread]

Yea I am believing this one.

Cause porn scenes happen randomly all the time in real life.

 

[parodyluvr75]

Yea I am believing this one.

Cause porn scenes happen randomly all the time in real life.

That'd be sad, because even in his fantasies he doesn't get to join in.

 

[Debbie]

I guess what really pisses me off is that it was a behind the back thing. I kinda feel like it was a planned thing on my friends part (my GF is known to be a little frisky when she gets her drink on).
Shit I would have at least liked to get a chance to watch.

I'm not deliberately trying to be mean but you dont sound particularly upset about the cheating part. More so the lost opportunity to watch.

You're the only one can answer your question.

Should you bail?

We could give advice till the cows come home but the final decision is yours.

 

[removed9556]

 

[lovetoread]

Are you saying the penis is not supposed to be bloody when I am done with it?

 

[removed9556]

 

[popcorn2721]

Yea I am believing this one.

Cause porn scenes happen randomly all the time in real life.

That'd be sad, because even in his fantasies he doesn't get to join in.

Damned, at least someone said it... I was laughing reading this.

 

[yossi]

Stay closer to church oriented social activities.

The potluck Sundays are always nice.

 

[Hypoxia]

The potluck Sundays are always nice.

Especially if the pastor's wife puts out.

Or the pastor.

 

[removed9556]

 

[yossi]

Especially if the pastor's wife puts out.

Or the pastor.

Or both at the same time. She's aces with her strap on.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

So my GF and I were at a bar we frequent. At some point during the evening she asked me to run and get here something to eat (the bar doesnt serve food). I came back about 10 mins later and she wasnt at the bar. We have a bunch of friends and it's not unusual for them to run off and chat in the ladies room or whatever.
About 45 minutes go by and i'm like "WTF" where the hell are they?
The bartender says "Oh, they went upstairs to the office"

10 minutes later my girlfriend shows up, Pulls me over to the quiet end of the bar and says "Um I was upstairs with (XXXX) and she went down on me because I told her I had never tried that before"
"Oh, and then her boyfriend showed up and he was supposed to do her while she was doing me, but then he ended up doing me while she was doing me at the same time"

Jaw drops...
"I'm sorry honey" she says, "It all just happened so fast"

"Apparently not too fast cuz you were up there for 45+ minutes"

I didn't make a scene at the bar. Just left. Now it's 2 days later and I am really starting to get pissed. It's not just what she did, it's also the fact that the 2 people she did it with were people I thought were my friends too. Yes there was a lot of alcohol involved but I am not buying the "it all happened so fast" or "I was really drunk" excuses.

Should I just bail?

What did you go get for eats? Burger? Pizza? Cobb salad?

Since you were already deep in drinks, you should've just ordered takeout and had it delivered to the bar. Could've avoided all this mess, or even better yet, joined in the reindeer games and made it a dinner and a foursome!

 

[FGB]

So my GF and I were at a bar we frequent. At some point during the evening she asked me to run and get here something to eat (the bar doesnt serve food). I came back about 10 mins later and she wasnt at the bar. We have a bunch of friends and it's not unusual for them to run off and chat in the ladies room or whatever.
About 45 minutes go by and i'm like "WTF" where the hell are they?
The bartender says "Oh, they went upstairs to the office"

10 minutes later my girlfriend shows up, Pulls me over to the quiet end of the bar and says "Um I was upstairs with (XXXX) and she went down on me because I told her I had never tried that before"
"Oh, and then her boyfriend showed up and he was supposed to do her while she was doing me, but then he ended up doing me while she was doing me at the same time"

Jaw drops...
"I'm sorry honey" she says, "It all just happened so fast"

"Apparently not too fast cuz you were up there for 45+ minutes"

I didn't make a scene at the bar. Just left. Now it's 2 days later and I am really starting to get pissed. It's not just what she did, it's also the fact that the 2 people she did it with were people I thought were my friends too. Yes there was a lot of alcohol involved but I am not buying the "it all happened so fast" or "I was really drunk" excuses.

Should I just bail?

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Two things here.

One you are pissed because you missed out on the action... was disrespected by friends and lovers all around.

Then there is the issue of trust. Y'all need to talk. All of you. Set some ground rules down with Girl Friend and the other "friends" that you can live with.

Or hit the road Jack and don't look back.

Unless you LIKE getting fucked over, then carry on!

 

[1sickbastard]

Should I just bail?

Yes, bail.

Not because you need to "punish" your girlfriend or some such nonsense, but because;
1) A partner who fucks around on you with people you assumed to be your friends once (because said partner is known to get 'frisky when drunk) WILL do so again.
2) Assuming the incident isn't a fabrication, it sounds like you were set up. After all, she could have gone with you to get her food, or could have ordered some delivered. You got played. If she played you once, she'll do it again.
3) No mention made of condoms being used. As a fantasy unprotected sex outside a monogamous relationship is hot. In reality, it's a vector for STD's.
4) If you'd been the one to 'walk in', would you be this out of sorts or would you have jumped right in and high-five'd your buddies afterwards?
5) It bothered you enough that you're asking for relationship advice on a porn site.

Clearly, you need to chalk this one up to learning a life-lesson. Next time, before you have an 'official' relationship involving sex, you'll know enough to talk frankly about matters sexual, including potential situations like this.

Good luck,

 

[ladwinseabee]

has she ever expressed a lack of attention from you?

 

[1sickbastard]

has she ever expressed a lack of attention from you?

That's a bullshit excuse.
"Oh, you didn't give me the attention I wanted so I fucked two of your friends at a bar when I sent you off to get me food. Therefore, it's YOUR fault."

Okay, if she'd said something like, "You are NOT giving me the attention I want/need, and for that reason, I'm going to fuck two (or more) of your friends at a bar or some other local after I send you away to perform some minor chore I could have easily done myself," then sure, you might have a point.

But even IF that had been the case, then the fact he was too clueless to pick up on her clearly communicated issues with the relationship are alone enough to make the relationship doomed.

 

[Disgustipated]

Dear Penthouse Forums,

When I am old enough, I'd like this to happen to me...

 

[pointless]

see, i liked the part with the two girls getting you to fuck off so they could lez out, but then you had to ruin it by throwing the random guy in. next time make it the soft butch bar tender chick with her strapon. it's just better that way.

 

[yossi]

see, i liked the part with the two girls getting you to fuck off so they could lez out, but then you had to ruin it by throwing the random guy in. next time make it the soft butch bar tender chick with her strapon. it's just better that way.

5/5 stars. Would read again.

 

[pointless]

see? i know my stuff.