Getting what you asked for, could you REALLY handle it?

[BattlingSoul]

This is for all of those who have not REALLY shared their SO with anyone, but fantasized about it...

We all talk a big game about seeing our SO with someone else, but when it ACTUALLY comes down to it, could we REALLY handle it?

 

[SmilingBlonde96]

I think it's one of those things people think they'll find hot but then it hits a very personal and emotional weak spot when they actually view it.

I had a friend who thought it would be amazing to see his girlfriend with another girl but when it happened he said it was just conflicting and super confusing to him mentally.

 

[girlyboi85]

If the right person came along, yes.

 

[JackVettriano]

I have this fantasy a lot, but I couldn't live it out unless it really was a special person. He would have to be so clean, healthy of good taste and very gentle and non threatening. But not many guys can pull that off and still be sexy and attractive.

Maybe if the right guy came along, but I think I would struggle with it all. Especially if he really gave her the time of her life and that after all is what it's all about.

I guess it will never happen.

 

[Funnbrandy]

Lol

That's a very good question! I think this is a lot of people's fantasy that is best left fantasy, I've been shared before and it's a very emotionally conflicting experience, even with my boyfriend at the time totally into it, and I've also shared my boyfriend....luckily I was totally into it, but if there's even a hint of jealousy, things get weird real quick!
The funniest is when people say, "I would do it.....if.....", then come up with a list that's impossible to meet, basically saying it will never happen, not that there's anything wrong with being a little selfish

 

[BattlingSoul]

I have this fantasy a lot, but I couldn't live it out unless it really was a special person. He would have to be so clean, healthy of good taste and very gentle and non threatening. But not many guys can pull that off and still be sexy and attractive.

Maybe if the right guy came along, but I think I would struggle with it all. Especially if he really gave her the time of her life and that after all is what it's all about.

I guess it will never happen.

Thanks for that honest answer...

 

[BattlingSoul]

That's a very good question! I think this is a lot of people's fantasy that is best left fantasy, I've been shared before and it's a very emotionally conflicting experience, even with my boyfriend at the time totally into it, and I've also shared my boyfriend....luckily I was totally into it, but if there's even a hint of jealousy, things get weird real quick!
The funniest is when people say, "I would do it.....if.....", then come up with a list that's impossible to meet, basically saying it will never happen, not that there's anything wrong with being a little selfish

Thanks for sharing your "experience..."

 

[Blase]

There were a couple times back in the day when I saw my partner with another girl. I found it hot, and I can imagine myself being in a poly situation with the right people.

 

[Clem99]

My wife and I played with another couple six months ago and, as much as I had fantasized about seeing her with another man, I wasn't 100% sure how I would react when it happened for real.

When I saw her take the other guy's cock in her mouth...I loved it! Unfortunately, his wife had some jealousy about it so we haven't played since. If she has a change of heart, perhaps we will meet again....

 

[Blase]

I have this fantasy a lot, but I couldn't live it out unless it really was a special person. He would have to be so clean, healthy of good taste and very gentle and non threatening. But not many guys can pull that off and still be sexy and attractive.

Maybe if the right guy came along, but I think I would struggle with it all. Especially if he really gave her the time of her life and that after all is what it's all about.

I guess it will never happen.

Too bad we're on different continents.

It isn't all that uncommon (at least here on Lit, which is probably not a representative sapling of any country's population) to find guys who fantasize about seeing someone fuck their SO. However, guys who catch their breath at the thought of another male making a gentle, erotic and emotional connection with their SO seem to be rather rarer.

 

[erudite1]

My fantasy is to share my SO with a woman. I do not find it that conflicting. I definitely cannot do it with a man.

 

[yukonnights]

The most important element is sincere and open communication, the next ingredient is a mutual desire for the spouse to find satisfaction in doing it. Take either of these elements away, and the ice gets thinner pretty quick. The big question is: how many who may fantasize about sharing have even taken those first two steps?

 

[turbocs37]

Once

I shared my wife once. I didn't get to watch, but I know one thing. I loved it. Ate her pussy when she got home. Unfortunately, I only got to taste his condom. Wanted his load. She won't do it again. I would in a heartbeat.

 

[dz2681]

I've had this fantasy for a long time now and my wife as well, it was always a hot topic during sex and role play. During the last few years I've had the pleasure of seeing her orally please a few men and it was a huge turn on and still is. The first time was a mixture of emotions, namely some jealousy but a high level of arousal at the same time which ultimately led to very intense sex for us later. There were some emotions that needed to be talked about of course and communication is a huge part of it whether it be to continue or stop but mainly so there are no questions lingering on either persons mind. It still is a hot topic for us and we both enjoy the results and exploration of adding another to the mix.

 

[FlirtyFun87]

I don't think it's for everyone. I think a lot of people get caught up in the lust of it and some say they like the idea just because they're trying to make their partner happy. A lot of potential for a bad situation to occur.

 

[mikendel]

I get asked this a lot from the men I share Del with. They say I don't think I could do it and how did it start. It is not for everyone I agree. Del is great at keeping it to sex and having fun. There have been a few guys that have become needy after but she keeps them in check.

 

[live4thebj]

This is for all of those who have not REALLY shared their SO with anyone, but fantasized about it...

We all talk a big game about seeing our SO with someone else, but when it ACTUALLY comes down to it, could we REALLY handle it?

Yes and no. Here let me explain. She was my rebound since my divorce but I was crazy about her and the sex was out of this world and when it came to blowjobs, she was the master hands down!

Being as sexual as we are we pushed limits and I initiated and allowed a gang-bang happen to her (which she loved) with my bestfriend and another guy plus me.

Didn't bother me till we talked about taking the relationship to the next level and there was a piece of me that was bothered she fucked my bestfriend. If it was some strangers we never saw again or just for sex that is one thing, but someone you knew for decades I realized later was an issue with me.

So we broke it off in the end. Too bad for when it came to blowjobs she was the QUEEN B!

 

[live4thebj]

That's a very good question! I think this is a lot of people's fantasy that is best left fantasy, I've been shared before and it's a very emotionally conflicting experience, even with my boyfriend at the time totally into it, and I've also shared my boyfriend....luckily I was totally into it, but if there's even a hint of jealousy, things get weird real quick!
The funniest is when people say, "I would do it.....if.....", then come up with a list that's impossible to meet, basically saying it will never happen, not that there's anything wrong with being a little selfish

I knew a girl like that. He can't touch her, he can't kiss her, etc. I was like, then don't bother!

 

[Rockwell12]

I think I could handle it stepwise. Seeing my wife with another woman would be no problem I think. Perhaps giving a blow job would be next and go from there. It's been a fantasy of mine and in the right situation I think I could be fine with more. It's more my fantasy then hers so obviously I would want to be there. Vacation situation where there wouldn't be any further contact would be a good set up.

 

[screwher]

This is for all of those who have not REALLY shared their SO with anyone, but fantasized about it...

We all talk a big game about seeing our SO with someone else, but when it ACTUALLY comes down to it, could we REALLY handle it?

For years while I fantasized about other men fucking my wife that question remained in the back of my mind. But the answer was thrust upon me when my wife had her second extra marital sexual tryst. It turned me on immensely . Shortly after I gave her my blessing to continue. Now she's one happy hotwife!

 

[xhxhxh]

For years while I fantasized about other men fucking my wife that question remained in the back of my mind. But the answer was thrust upon me when my wife had her second extra marital sexual tryst. It turned me on immensely . Shortly after I gave her my blessing to continue. Now she's one happy hotwife!

Do you have a timetable (even in your own mind) when you will be watching them?

 

[screwher]

Do you have a timetable (even in your own mind) when you will be watching them?

Yes, sometime this year. I couldn't think of a better birthday, Valentine's, or anniversary present.

 

[xhxhxh]

Yes, sometime this year. I couldn't think of a better birthday, Valentine's, or anniversary present.

Certainly not!

 

[PapaRomantic]

I shared my wife once. I didn't get to watch, but I know one thing. I loved it. Ate her pussy when she got home. Unfortunately, I only got to taste his condom. Wanted his load. She won't do it again. I would in a heartbeat.

Why did she say she wouldn't do it again? Did she not enjoy the experience?

 

[zoso682001]

First time it happened was a spontaneous event and was the hottest thing ever . Subsequent instances were just as hot and exciting .
Everybody's different . Me , I'd do it again in a heartbeat !
It's not something everybody could do .