Getting up for round 2

[anomoly]

Howdy, apologies if this has been answered elsewhere.

Do any guys have any tips for how to get up for round 2? Once I cum it's very difficult to get properly hard and often very difficult/near impossible to come a second time round.

It's still fun but I cant seem to finish again and will often hold back on my own orgasm until I'm certain we've had all our fun

Any suggestions or tips would be much appreciated.

 

[NightL]

have another partner waiting
Wait, what? - I didn't say for whom though
for either would probably work

 

[Jada59]

Some men are just that way. Maybe try something else for a while. Use toys on her or your mouth or fingers or something. I have always been able to get a guy hard a second time but sometimes they don't want to be.

I did have two lovers who could get it up again right away. Didn't even have to wait 5 minutes. I think they are a rarity, but I could be wrong.

Mainly I would just do other somewhat stimulating things like cuddling, caressing, kissing, massaging his back, arms, whatever. Or we might just sit on the bed and talk or even take a little nap.

 

[TarnishedPenny]

Not to dodge your question, but why worry about it?

We as a species are so insecure and triply so when it comes to anything sexual. Women worry about their bust size and bemoan every wrinkle. Men fret over the size of their penis. Both sexes are massively, negatively, influenced by the unreality they are bombarded with on a daily basis.

I guess what I am trying to say is that the stuff we read on this site (including stuff I myself have written) and the erotica/porn we consume elsewhere is very unrealistic. Many women enjoy sex without ever having an orgasm - that's reality. Oh, and most women don't start having a shrieking, convulsing orgasm 30 seconds after the first kiss. The average size willy is not 8" - it's maybe 5 1/2". And many (most?) men in real life get one orgasm. ("Once a king, always a king, but once a knight is enough.")

So start from the beginning. Judging yourself by unrealistic standards is not a good idea. More important is being able to answer these two questions with a smile: 1) When you turned out the lights, did she have fun? 2) Did you have fun? If so, it's a Win and be happy.

 

[Privates1stClass]

Getting up for round 2

You didn't mention your age. If you're in the age range 18-35, I'd say you ought to be concerned, and I'd suggest you contact your doctor. If you're over 35, well, aging takes a toll. You might try Cialis or other ED drug to help with round 2, 3, etc. Good luck!

 

[anomoly]

Thanks everyone for the replies

I'm early thirties and getting hard isn't an issue in itself, i suppose it was more about going again after cumming the first time.

I'm glad to hear that there are other people who aren't able to charge back in straight away but it sure would be fun to go again

It's not been an issue with us, more of an aspiration. We always have fun and I aim ensure shes had plenty of fun before I finish myself off generally.

I'm somewhat envious of her ability to orgasm as much or as little as she wants, just looks like so much fun. Still, I love what we have and I appreciate the suggestions/advice.

Thanks!