Getting to Know One Another.

[tonitits]

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Are you married, single, widowed, divorced or seeing anyone? Do you have any kids?

I married at 19, divorced at 22, had my son at 33 and been single parent for almost 12 yrs. AA and I are in a ldr, hopefully some day we will be able to be together either in TX, me, or OR him. I guess time will tell.

 

[tonitits]

Re: odd question

so, what kind of an animal would you be? and why?

I can't think of an animal I would want to be, well maybe a dog, since he is Man's best friend.

 

[Angel_Diva]

Re: Okay....new Q, in lieu of rosy

Describe your most romantic evening...........

It hasn't happend yet

Now, a question for anyone...

What is the difference between love and lust?

Lust is when its just sexual attraction no true feelings. Love? Well, Love is when you are emotianlly attached to someone. You can't live w/o them, can't take a breath, or can't make a move w/o them knowing or wanting to know. Love is pure, and comes in many shapes & sizes. Love can be found everywhere & in anything....

 

[tonitits]

Question:
Do you have someone here that has captured your heart???

Most definitely. Most everyone already knows, AA!

 

[tonitits]

ok another Q....


why do you think you are here at lit??
would you meet someone online and continue an affair with that person if all worked out well??what if you both are married??
Is cybering cheating?
Have you ever had phone sex??
the most you ever cybered at once??
any bad cyber experiences??



ok thats a start...

1. I originally came for the stories, found the boards, met lots of friends and now come here to visit with them and play some games along the way. Just a way to enjoy my down time.

2. I met AA here, we are in a ldr and hope to marry some day so I guess that that would definitely be a yes. I personally would not enter an affair with anyone online or otherwise if I were married or he was. To be friends and visit and kid around with is fine, but would not venture into an affair.

3. Not sure. I know alot feel it is and alot do not. If I am in a relationship with someone I don't think I would be cybering with anyone else.

4. Yes

5. One

6. no.

 

[tonitits]

OK...I'll bite.

I'm here for the literary interchange.

Of course I would meet someone if we had a real connection. And yes, I would continue the affair.

Cybering is not cheating. And yes, I have had phone sex with someone special.



Now, a question for anyone...

What is the difference between love and lust?

lust is when you want someone really bad, can't keep your hands off of them, you gotta have them right here and now. But is not long lasting.

love can have the lust also, but is much more calm, slow building feelings for another person, usually starting out as friends and through getting to know that person the feelings keep getting deeper and deeper until you are way over your head and have to have to be with that person. They are your day/night, your sunshine on a cloudy day. You think about that person and it brings a smile to your face.

Lust you are always wondering where is he? what is he doing? is he with someone else? etc...

Love is patient and even though you love that person you know that they are yours and even though they are away you do not worry about where they are, what are they doing and who are they doing it with.

 

[1sexylady]

ok another Q....


why do you think you are here at lit??
I am here to read the stories and meet friends

would you meet someone online and continue an affair with that person if all worked out well?? yes what if you both are married?? Depends on why we would cheat in the first place. Nobody can judge unless you walk in their shoes

Is cybering cheating? no not to me....is looking at a good looking guy and fantasizing about him cheating?

Have you ever had phone sex?? yes but it is not for me..

the most you ever cybered at once?? 1 person

any bad cyber experiences?? no.. not really but some men think that is all you want...



ok thats a start...

 

[tonitits]

Most romantic evening?

Don't know. Can't think of one that I have ever had. But I am sure I will and when I do I will let you know!

 

[1sexylady]

Now, a question for anyone...

What is the difference between love and lust?

To me ....Love is a deep emotion and Lust is spare of the moment...

 

[islander01]

now theres a nice straight forward answer....


next Q....

Do you find that theres one person you really want to get to know on a more personal level?

Many

 

[islander01]

ok another Q....


why do you think you are here at lit??
* Lits an outlet for me. I can be me here.... That and I want to meet( and meat) really horny women
would you meet someone online and continue an affair with that person if all worked out well??what if you both are married??
*Yes yes
Is cybering cheating?
Maybe...But then living in sexless relationship might be considered being cheated.

Have you ever had phone sex??
* nope but you can reach me a 555.....
the most you ever cybered at once??
* most what?

any bad cyber experiences??
not too experianced ... well there was that time she was cyberreading that cyberbook over my cybershoulder so I went to the cyberbathroom and cyberjerked off instead



ok thats a start...

 

[Cathleen]

lust is when you want someone really bad, can't keep your hands off of them, you gotta have them right here and now. But is not long lasting.

love can have the lust also, but is much more calm, slow building feelings for another person, usually starting out as friends and through getting to know that person the feelings keep getting deeper and deeper until you are way over your head and have to have to be with that person. They are your day/night, your sunshine on a cloudy day. You think about that person and it brings a smile to your face.

Lust you are always wondering where is he? what is he doing? is he with someone else? etc...

Love is patient and even though you love that person you know that they are yours and even though they are away you do not worry about where they are, what are they doing and who are they doing it with.

that is an excellent description......

yea....what Toni said!!

love, while being a verb, feels more like a noun in the longer term sense..... lust.... an adverb! quickly fleeting!

 

[Cathleen]

Re: Okay....new Q, in lieu of rosy

Describe your most romantic evening...........

let just say I hope it hasn't happend yet...... if it has, we need a definition change on romantic!

 

[Arden]

How old/young are you?

46

What the heck...Tell us the color of your hair and eyes.

Sandy blonde, straight, to the middle of my back. My eyes are green/blue/gray.

Are you married, single, widowed, divorced or seeing anyone? Do you have any kids?

Divorced almost 10 years, just got home from spending a week with someone very special (7th visit together in 1.5 years) two kids... 21 and 13.

so, what kind of an animal would you be? and why?

A bird... I'd love to fly. Like Elizabeth, I've done it many times in my dreams.

But a bird isn't an animal lol... so I'd probably be a cat. Spend my days and nights snuggled up with someone special, his hand stroking me... mmm. I'd make a very good pet.

Question:
Do you have someone here that has captured your heart???

He captured it completely. My heart belongs to Soron

Do you find that theres one person you really want to get to know on a more personal level?

I've been getting to know him for almost 2 years now

why do you think you are here at lit??
would you meet someone online and continue an affair with that person if all worked out well??what if you both are married??
Is cybering cheating?
Have you ever had phone sex??
the most you ever cybered at once??
any bad cyber experiences??

1) Came here through a reference at another bulletin board that I had visited once while surfing.

2) Am doing just that, although I admit that I didn't believe in internet romance when I came here. It just happened... While I don't judge others actions, having an online romance with a married man does nothing for me. There's little chance of having anything permanent, so why waste my time. I'm too old to be wasting my time, lol...

3) Cybering can evolve into cheating, IMHO. When you open your heart and want to be with your cyber partner more than your real-life partner, you've hit that fine line between sexual amusement and cheating.

4) Phone sex... Another thing that I never thought I'd do in a million years. You can teach an old dog new tricks... and it's even more fun if you learn together

5) Just one

6) One bad experience, due to what I'd call deception.

What is the difference between love and lust?

Lust is purely sexual. Love requires involvement of the heart, mind and soul.

Describe your most romantic evening...........

What, and let everyone know what a pervert I am? ~wicked grin~

 

[~Elizabeth~]

Re: Re: Getting to Know One Another.

A bird... I'd love to fly. Like Elizabeth, I've done it many times in my dreams.

But a bird isn't an animal lol... so I'd probably be a cat. Spend my days and nights snuggled up with someone special, his hand stroking me... mmm. I'd make a very good pet.

A very good point there, Arden. Guess I didn't think that one through very well huh? Oh well...

 

[DLL]

OK very good replies thanks everyone......

ok heres some questions......

Is there a person you would really like to explore sexually with that is not aware that you do? names optional....
Ever meet someone on line and was it as good as you expected?
What really really turns you on....
Who would you want to have a 3 way with from Lit???
Whats the best chat nic you have ever seen???
Ever cyber and wish you were at the doctor getting a flu shot instead???


Ok that will about do it for now....

 

[tn_8tiv]

OK very good replies thanks everyone......

ok heres some questions......

Is there a person you would really like to explore sexually with that is not aware that you do? names optional....
Ever meet someone on line and was it as good as you expected?
What really really turns you on....
Who would you want to have a 3 way with from Lit???
Whats the best chat nic you have ever seen???
Ever cyber and wish you were at the doctor getting a flu shot instead???


Ok that will about do it for now....

Well aren't you just full of questions today DLL?

1. Yes...but I don't tell who!
2. Not yet but am working on it.
3. Is this a trick question...
4. I don't do 3-ways...just one on one works fine
5. Chat nic??? That's tough. All of them are great.
6. Hmmmmm...have to say yes!

 

[Cathleen]

OK very good replies thanks everyone......

ok heres some questions......

Is there a person you would really like to explore sexually with that is not aware that you do? names optional....
Ever meet someone on line and was it as good as you expected?
What really really turns you on....
Who would you want to have a 3 way with from Lit???
Whats the best chat nic you have ever seen???
Ever cyber and wish you were at the doctor getting a flu shot instead???


Ok that will about do it for now....

you know DLL..... plenty good with the questions..... dare to answer yours!!! Come on...we did this already chickie!!!

 

[DLL]

Originally posted by Cathleen
you know DLL..... plenty good with the questions..... dare to answer yours!!! Come on...we did this already chickie!!!

laughing ok ok.....

damn what the fuck were the q's hang i i have to look up at the post...geeezzzz....

 

[Cathleen]

laughing ok ok.....

damn what the fuck were the q's hang i i have to look up at the post...geeezzzz....

they are right there cutie!!!! you didn't think I'd let you off the hook did you??!!!

 

[DLL]

Originally posted by DLL
OK very good replies thanks everyone......

ok heres some questions......

Is there a person you would really like to explore sexually with that is not aware that you do? names optional....
Ever meet someone on line and was it as good as you expected?
What really really turns you on....
Who would you want to have a 3 way with from Lit???
Whats the best chat nic you have ever seen???
Ever cyber and wish you were at the doctor getting a flu shot instead???


Ok that will about do it for now....

I think most people know who i want to explore sexually...maybe just not the ones i want to explore...LOL
yes and better....
i dig role playing/bondage/spanking/shit like that
i will think about this and report back at a later date...
Lord of the Cock Rings..cracks me up
YES.......not my fault mind you....

 

[DLL]

Originally posted by DLL
OK very good replies thanks everyone......

ok heres some questions......

Is there a person you would really like to explore sexually with that is not aware that you do? names optional....
Ever meet someone on line and was it as good as you expected?
What really really turns you on....
Who would you want to have a 3 way with from Lit???
Whats the best chat nic you have ever seen???
Ever cyber and wish you were at the doctor getting a flu shot instead???


Ok that will about do it for now....

I think most people know who i want to explore sexually...maybe just not the ones i want to explore...LOL
yes and better....
i dig role playing/bondage/spanking/shit like that
i will think about this and report back at a later date...
Lord of the Cock Rings..cracks me up
YES.......not my fault mind you....

 

[done_got_old]

There's no person I would really like to explore sexually who is not aware of the fact. To be honest, there's no one I'd like to explore sexually that I haven't explored sexually.

Yes, I've met someone who was much better than I ever expected!

I'm really a closet nerd, so intelligence is a real turn on.

There's no one I'd want to have a 3 way with anywhere.

The best nic is bugeater.

I don't cyber.

 

[Angel_Diva]

Is there a person you would really like to explore sexually with that is not aware that you do? names optional....

Yes, she's taken unfortunally

Ever meet someone on line and was it as good as you expected?

Nope... never have, and maybe never will, but you never know...

What really really turns you on....

Sex, sex and More sex?? *actually thats not really true.... but there are sooo many, that i'm just too lazy*

Who would you want to have a 3 way with from Lit???

Describe a 3 way??

Whats the best chat nic you have ever seen???

Dumpling!

Ever cyber and wish you were at the doctor getting a flu shot instead???

No..... why would i want a flu shot instead of cybering?

 

[redrider4u]

ok heres some questions......

Is there a person you would really like to explore sexually with that is not aware that you do? names optional....
*hmmm, I think so..

Ever meet someone on line and was it as good as you expected?
*Yep.......it was

What really really turns you on....
* Fine leather on that special Lit chic holding the mink whip

Who would you want to have a 3 way with from Lit???
*A Lit 3-way would be ******, myself and a laptop on the bed
tuned to the playground thread

Whats the best chat nic you have ever seen???
*Cannot remember

Ever cyber and wish you were at the doctor getting a flu shot instead???
*Never had one that bad.......