Getting my girlfriend to blow me...
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ApplesMcgee
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ok..
I've got one word for you that you will hear a lot on these boards...
COMMUNICATE!!
You have to talk to her. I bet she wants you to do certain things to her. Just bring it up. Ask her what she thinks about things like oral sex. It will probably just roll pretty easy from there.
PowrDragn
I've got one word for you that you will hear a lot on these boards...
COMMUNICATE!!
You have to talk to her. I bet she wants you to do certain things to her. Just bring it up. Ask her what she thinks about things like oral sex. It will probably just roll pretty easy from there.
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i agree with what was already said. Add to that the fact that talking about this somewhere other than in bed just might send some sparks flying in a different location (which might send You to the bedroom anyway) and You've got a win-win situation. 
Do her 1st!
He didn't really mention WHERE the relationship is at. I mean they love each other and are hanging out etc but if they're really young and sex is a no no for her the question is mute. If he just wants a BJ and is trouble getting her to comply - without asking her or anything then I agree - COMMUNICATE!
Otherwise I would suggest the obvious. Gobble her first. Make sure you've both enjoyed a shower first and ive her a good tongue lashing. If hse just lies there at the end she may be too INexperienced and NOT know what to do. Back to communicating. You'l have to talk her through it. If you / she are REALLY inexperienced it may help to have some chocolate sauce handy. It
can take the scary part of the unique smells & tastes away and leave you both open to a little more "in depth" experimentation.
He didn't really mention WHERE the relationship is at. I mean they love each other and are hanging out etc but if they're really young and sex is a no no for her the question is mute. If he just wants a BJ and is trouble getting her to comply - without asking her or anything then I agree - COMMUNICATE!
Otherwise I would suggest the obvious. Gobble her first. Make sure you've both enjoyed a shower first and ive her a good tongue lashing. If hse just lies there at the end she may be too INexperienced and NOT know what to do. Back to communicating. You'l have to talk her through it. If you / she are REALLY inexperienced it may help to have some chocolate sauce handy. It
can take the scary part of the unique smells & tastes away and leave you both open to a little more "in depth" experimentation.
ApplesMcgee
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well
Whether its off limits or not, it never hurts to talk about things. At least you know where things stand or what you can look forward to. If anything.
Also, she can get a better feel for where things are at and what is expected.
PowrDragn
Whether its off limits or not, it never hurts to talk about things. At least you know where things stand or what you can look forward to. If anything.
Also, she can get a better feel for where things are at and what is expected.
PowrDragn
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If you're wanting to break the sexual ice barrier then I would suggest you putting your hand down "that" area for her and see what her reaction is. It worked for me. We both wanted to advance to that stage but there was that complete unsureness so when I broke the ice, I was immediately rewarded with what you want yourself 
Well, we had a long romantic day together (A nice hike, went to dinner, rented a movie) Then we were sitting outside, having an intimate converstation. And I finally mustered up the stregnth and asked her if she masturbated. We talked about, decided to do it together (she had been wanting to do something as much as I did aprently) and before I knew I was eating her pussy out.
A great day indeed
A great day indeed
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I agree with the many folks above and it seems as though the word of the day, week, month, year, decade, century is going to be...
COMMUNICATE!
Talk to her! And in kind, listen too... I'm sure she's got things she wants done too!
COMMUNICATE!
Talk to her! And in kind, listen too... I'm sure she's got things she wants done too!
Lust Engine said:I agree with the many folks above and it seems as though the word of the day, week, month, year, decade, century is going to be...
COMMUNICATE!
Talk to her! And in kind, listen too... I'm sure she's got things she wants done too!
Umm...if you read my post above, I did.
She said when she masterbated, she alwasy wanted someone to eat her pussy. Well I did
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drcubby said:
Umm...if you read my post above, I did.
She said when she masterbated, she alwasy wanted someone to eat her pussy. Well I did
That's great, but did you get what you wanted too, or are you still willing to wait for that to happen?
I disagree that out of bed is the best place to discuss it, I've often enjoyed conversations with my boyfriend in bed after we've had a wonderful love making session.
Then again my boyfriend and I are extremely open with each other.
I wish you all the luck in the world, and hope that you one day feel her lips wrapped around your cock.
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