I've been pretty obsessed lately with the idea of my cleaning lady coming in and catching me stroking. I've sat around in my robe, making sure she catches glimpses of my hard cock. I've also been in the shower with the door open when she comes in, then step out when she arrives so she can see me with a semi-hard cock. Neither one has really worked. Should I just be sitting there stroking when she comes in so it's really obvious that I wanted her to catch me, or should I at least put on the stereo or headphones so I can pretend I didn't know she was coming, or at least couldn't hear her coming in? I'd love for her to stay and watch me cum, or help me out, but I'm really worried that she can report me for something illegal. Does anyone know? Can some women reply and let me know what she might think if she came and saw me sitting there stroking?
Getting "caught" masturbating
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bob69carter
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I can't see how it would be illegal in your own home.
I have been in a hotel room and just before room service breakfast arrives I strip and lie naked on the bed watching an X-rated video, wanking myself slowly.
I leave the door unlocked so the waiter or wiatress can come in. They usually don't know how to handle (ha! ha!) it. But I have had a few comments like 'enjoying yourself?'
One waiter once asked me if i wanted a hand. I said yes and he sat on the bed beside me and wanked me as I told him about this gorgeous waitress i had seen, and how i hoped it had been her delivering breakfast. He was good with his hands and I quickly came.
I can't see how it would be illegal in your own home.
I have been in a hotel room and just before room service breakfast arrives I strip and lie naked on the bed watching an X-rated video, wanking myself slowly.
I leave the door unlocked so the waiter or wiatress can come in. They usually don't know how to handle (ha! ha!) it. But I have had a few comments like 'enjoying yourself?'
One waiter once asked me if i wanted a hand. I said yes and he sat on the bed beside me and wanked me as I told him about this gorgeous waitress i had seen, and how i hoped it had been her delivering breakfast. He was good with his hands and I quickly came.
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Is there any indication from her that there might be an interest? Quite honestly, unless I already had an interest in someone, it would more be either an embarrassment for seeing it or a bit of disgust of the pervert that I have to work around.
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Then leave this fantasy for someone who consents to it, like a significant other (or, if you're really that desperate, a sex worker) or erotica. Without talking to her, you don't know if she's afraid to show her true feelings because she's afraid of losing the job or quit because she really needs the job. Even if you ask her, it could put her in the same, extremely uncomfortable, "can't win" situation.plscum said:
And, I'm pretty sure they could figure out some type of charges to bring you up on. It's sexual harassment at the very least, and a case might be made for some kind of sexual assault if she feels she's being forced due to the job. You may also have civil litigation to contend with - is doing this really worth even hiring a lawyer over? Doing it in a hotel isn't right (again, you don't have consent) and could carry some severe consequences as well.
Keep you clothes on and act professionally, like she does (how would you feel if a really unattractive cleaning lady or plumber came into your home, stripped and did their work naked or jacked off in front of you on the hope that you'd like it/join in?).
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More pathetic deluded guys end up in criminal court because they lose the ability to distinguish between fantasy and reality than for any other single cause. Yes what you are doing is illegal. The main issue in any kind of sexual relationship, whether voyeur or ontherwise, is consent. If you don't have it then you shouldn't be doin' it.
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Leave the poor woman alone.
What you are doing is creepy and illegal.
What you are doing is creepy and illegal.
I don't see anything illegal in your behavior, but it is certainly intrusive, harrassing, etc... However, depending on what state/country you're in, it could very well be illegal. Regardless of the legality or illegality of the action, for your maid's sake, I would discontinue it immediately.
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She'd probably be thinking, "Is that all of it?" while trying not to laugh.plscum said:
ETA: As others have said, some fantasies should remain fantasies unless you have a willing partner. Someone employed by you is not necessarily a willing partner.
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You are all so serious
In case people didn't notice the getting 'caught' was in quotes.
So yes, its getting 'caught', but in a way that wouldn't lead to being arrested.
Where I come from, down under, we have hotels that specialise in swingers and sexual meetings. The owners know about it and encourage it. They see lots of nudity and sex in the hallways and lifts and in bedrooms.
On an earlier post of mine, I wrote about wanking whilst breakfast was being delivered. I wouldn't do it in a normal hotel, but in the swingers hotel it's quite normal, the people who work there know what to expect. I have been tossed off by the hotel owners wife who wanted to see how high she could make me spurt. I wanted her to suck me or jump on my cock but I had to put up with a long slow masturbation that was very pleasurable, especisally as my wife was in the shower at the time.
Some people are just way too serious on this site
In case people didn't notice the getting 'caught' was in quotes.
So yes, its getting 'caught', but in a way that wouldn't lead to being arrested.
Where I come from, down under, we have hotels that specialise in swingers and sexual meetings. The owners know about it and encourage it. They see lots of nudity and sex in the hallways and lifts and in bedrooms.
On an earlier post of mine, I wrote about wanking whilst breakfast was being delivered. I wouldn't do it in a normal hotel, but in the swingers hotel it's quite normal, the people who work there know what to expect. I have been tossed off by the hotel owners wife who wanted to see how high she could make me spurt. I wanted her to suck me or jump on my cock but I had to put up with a long slow masturbation that was very pleasurable, especisally as my wife was in the shower at the time.
Some people are just way too serious on this site
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In this case, it appears 'caught' is in quotes because the OP wants it to look like he doesn't mean to be seen by his housekeeper when he really does want that. So, being "caught" by his employee or another person who hasn't agreed to it is likely to get him caught in the court system as well. Regardless, people can be arrested and sued for this type of behavior, not to mention the fact that they're risking harming someone emotionally because it's not consensual.bob69carter said:
Perhaps you should have specified it was the type of venue where that behavior's acceptable then in your first post. If you stick around, you'll see there are all sorts of people on this board, and some of them lack the brain power and ethics to determine whether or not something is a wise idea, unfortunately. Those folks are likely to think, 'Hey, if people have done this in hotels successfully, I should give it a try!' if they share the fantasy, and land themselves in trouble because they didn't consider the fact that it was a poor idea to do it in a regular hotel, their home or public place.
So, when we answer questions here, we try to give them safe, intelligent options and all of the relevant info, just in case they can't figure it out for themselves. How To is where people come for good advice; Personals is where they go for fantasy, instead of facts.
Ah, yes... a variation of the "It's just a porn site, people!" argument we've come to know so well.
Again, take it to Personals or AmPics - we're a community, and HT specifically is a very good group of people who pride themselves on helping others, which includes helping them carry out their fantasies SAFELY (for them and anyone else involved). Sometimes that means being a little more serious than "nice tits" and "ur fantasy iz so hawt!"bob69carter
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Point taken, and well made. thank you. I shall be more careful in future.
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plscum said:
I don't know what country you are in, but I'm pretty sure in the UK, whether in public or private it'd be illegal.
Surely it'd be just as hot to play out the fantasy with your partner
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just pull a george from seinfield and just fuck her!
