Getting By With A Little Help

Years ago I read (it may have been in one of those "sex tips" articles that are ubiquitous in the women's magazines you see in grocery store check-out lines) that supposedly a good way for a woman to encourage herself to orgasm during sex is to just start moaning like a porn star. The stated theory was that if you hear yourself sound like you are enjoying it, you may just get yourself worked up enough to actually enjoy it.

Though of course there's the famous "When Harry Met Sally" restaurant scene making the point that women moaning during sex are almost all faking it.

There's also a reason why phone sex is effective, and watching the scrambled porn channels on a cable-ready TV back in the day was effective too. There's something very pleasing about hearing a woman moan, even when you can't see her naughty bits.
 
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