...get picked up by strangers.

[Peter_Face]

I am looking for someone to take advantage of me. I am a fem-man. But I just don't know how to raise the odds that someone will see me and make a move.
Any ideas/pointers?

 

[jenni7]

I'm a bit new to some of this lingo... fem-man??

 

[Peter_Face]

fem-man??

I am a sissy. I am a man, but I like to wear women's clothing and be treated like a whore...basically.

Unfortunately, I can't go out dressed like I want around where I live. So I would have to stick to masculine attire.

 

[satindesire]

Have you considered joining fetlife, adultfriendfinder, plentyoffish, and other social/dating sites?

 

[Peter_Face]

Have you considered joining adultfriendfinder?

Yes. I have...Great for cyber, but nothing very local.

 

[satindesire]

Yes. I have...Great for cyber, but nothing very local.

You might try going to a few other sites.

Patience is key. The more specialized the partner you're looking for, the longer it'll take.

 

[bailadora]

I'm going to second Satin's suggestion of Fetlife. You can search by city for groups/organizations of like minded people who are local (or fairly local) to you.

 

[SweetErika]

Yes. I have...Great for cyber, but nothing very local.

How far are you from Boise or CDA/Spokane? You might have to travel a bit to express your feminine tendencies with a more positive response.

Are you looking for men, women, or both, to live out your fantasies?

Also on the advice front, I'd say be very careful safety-wise. What you are asking about has A LOT of inherent risks (assault, STIs, robbery, hate crimes, etc.) that probably don't enter your fantasies. If you can find, or travel to, a good kink-friendly playspace (Seattle is probably your closest bet), that'd be a good way to play out this scenario.

 

[subwannabe]

Ditto. Your original post looks like you're looking for trouble, and I don't mean the kind you are actually looking for. Sounds to me like you could wind up in the hospital severly beaten by a group of guys who don't really care for a sissy man.