Geography Question

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This might prove to be a long rambling post so please bear with me...

I travel a lot for work and find myself all over the world, bored and seeking good company. It strikes me that there is no site dedicated to executives (or whatever crappy word there is for people like me) to hook up with locals or others in the same situation.

I know that the market for instant sex is pretty well covered but that is not what I'm talking about, it's more a case of meeting up with like minded people for a drink, a chat and see how it goes.

I also know that such activity is fraught with danger, I realise in practice it would be hi-jacked by people who simply want a quickie, I realise that for female posters it would take a lot of courage to risk etc. However, I have actually connected with enough (seemingly) genuine people on here to know that something like this could be workable.

I'm not volunteering to set up a site, and this is not a case of 'I'm in Paris tonight are you?' I'd just like to get your thoughts on it, or maybe if something like this exists somebody could let me know...

I come in peace
 
I think it is a great idea but I think you have already outlined some of the reasons why it might be difficult to operate in practice. You would probably be better off just building up a list of people who would be happy to meet you if you were ever in their area via PM.

I've tried posting on the German site to say I'm going there next week and had no replies so don't hold your breath
 
Thanks for your response. The silence from everyone else seems to suggest it is only me who thinks it would be beneficial. perhaps that is why nobody has invested millions in developing the concept! LOL
 
Thanks for your response. The silence from everyone else seems to suggest it is only me who thinks it would be beneficial. perhaps that is why nobody has invested millions in developing the concept! LOL


I think its a wonderful idea and I hope you find something that works for you. Sometimes in this fast paced crazy world we live in its hard to make those connections spur of the moment especially in a new place where you don't know anyone
 
I like the idea as well. I do a good bit of traveling and have tried connecting with other Lit members with mixed results. Most of the time it never happens.

Obviously, we could create a thread in the personals section but there needs to be some draw for the locals to look and express a desire to meet.
 
I think a far better approach is to get to know people on various boards. You can usually find out - more or less - where they live, and then, if you're going to be in the area, let them know and ask if they want to meet up for a drink/chat/see how it goes kind of thing.

What I think, in the end, will happen is this. You'll get the chance to meet - in person - some neat people from here. It is possible that in some cases, sex or romance will ensue. But I suspect it will be relatively rare. But when it happens it will be far more than a one nighter.

I wish you good luck.
 
One nighters are never good. "Hey guys I am in.....come on over. I am not an "executive" but I will show you a good time. " :rolleyes:. I think it goes back to what most women want, and it is not to be the affair. :rose: Well, perhaps that is too general, some would, most that are of the sophistication and education that most men on this thread would enjoy, are not.

I come in peace too.:kiss:
 
Actually Imrhapsody, that is the point I'm trying to make. It is actually easier to find a one night stand than finding someone you can actually interact with on all levels.

I'm not being judgemental about it, it may well end up in a one night stand...or a long term relationship...but actually just enjoying some deecent company, a good bottle of wine, a trip to the theatre...that is what would be good
 
The situation is some what similar to up in the air" movie?i travel as well and would love the company..it even need not be sexual just the company would be good. I am an introvert ?so it is difficult
 
I travel to the same place for months at a time and I would love to be able to find like-minded friends. Nothing says there has to be anything physical.

Over the years I've made a number of online Lit friends and have even had the privilege of meeting a few of them in real life. Virtually every friend I have made here has impressed me as intelligent and interesting. Exactly what I look for in R/L friends. I figure meeting through Lit gives me a little edge in that regard.

Plus, people here like to talk about sex...LOL
 
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