butters
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I do not think that Rob was intentionally trying to be hurtful.
Byron could definitely rant, usually at people he was fond of. He liked "Roberto"
Much of the time the rant was really at someone or something else. Other times he just did not understand that he was upsetting people or why. Wings is a perfect example. I explained what I could to him and I think he was getting it, mellowing.
He was over protective as hell esp. of me, but that didn't always stop his ranting at me or posting stuff at me about all over the board when he was upset.
He really thought many people hated him, but he was actually fond of many here.
this sounds pretty much my own thoughts on the matter, noor. and since you knew him better than any of us here i'm glad to see you posting this. he could be an insensitive, hurtful bastard to people - but i don't believe he ever thought what he said would hurt others and it made him unhappy when he realised he had. we both know he was far from perfect, but what a wonderful man he was despite - and maybe because - of this. he's remembered fondly by many, even by those he managed to piss off.