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[Vermilion]

Do you have a preference of being attracted to more men or women or not notice a difference? Do the same traits that attract you to a man also appeal to you in a woman?

Yes. I am more attracted to men. I am also attracted to them differently - women I mostly find attractive for their physical traits, but have very little romantic inclination towards them. I want to fuck them, but not have a relationship.
Men I am more likely to have a crush on and I've only been in love with men. However, when in a relationship with men I long for women... the problem with being bi is that it's difficult to have your cake and eat it unless you have an understanding partner...

And let me think about traits... this is easier to answer in a physical sense - i want my women to be very much feminine women and my men to be very much masculine men. There's a reason I fancy both genders and I love the differences between them. I don;t find effeminate men attractive and (with one notable exception) have not found masculine women attractive (I have a massive crush on Shane from 'The L Word' - go figure).

As far as anything more personality-wise goes then I like confidence, intelligence and humour, but then who doesn't?

Does that answer your questions?

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ps- Slr - doesn't the salt sting?

 

[Liar]

Do you have a preference of being attracted to more men or women or not notice a difference? Do the same traits that attract you to a man also appeal to you in a woman?

There are different forms of attraction. I'm more often visually attracted to women. Girls are prettier, to put it in simple terms. But although I'm initially attracted to more women than men, it tends to even out when trying to connect with them. Some women are just plain weird, and as nice and friendly and fun to hang out with they might be, the attraction goes *poof*. Whereas men's personalitites seems to be on my wavelength more of the time.

 

[sr71plt]

ps- Slr - doesn't the salt sting?

Gave up salt thirty years ago. You can get unsalted/lightly salted potato chips.

 

[Vermilion]

Gave up salt thirty years ago. You can get unsalted/lightly salted potato chips.

<nods> good for those intimate moments...

 

[bb_peaks]

There are different forms of attraction. I'm more often visually attracted to women. Girls are prettier, to put it in simple terms. But although I'm initially attracted to more women than men, it tends to even out when trying to connect with them. Some women are just plain weird, and as nice and friendly and fun to hang out with they might be, the attraction goes *poof*. Whereas men's personalitites seems to be on my wavelength more of the time.

That was my impression of a bi-man. Thank you for answering my question.

Yes. I am more attracted to men. I am also attracted to them differently - women I mostly find attractive for their physical traits, but have very little romantic inclination towards them. I want to fuck them, but not have a relationship.
Men I am more likely to have a crush on and I've only been in love with men. However, when in a relationship with men I long for women... the problem with being bi is that it's difficult to have your cake and eat it unless you have an understanding partner...

And let me think about traits... this is easier to answer in a physical sense - i want my women to be very much feminine women and my men to be very much masculine men. There's a reason I fancy both genders and I love the differences between them. I don;t find effeminate men attractive and (with one notable exception) have not found masculine women attractive (I have a massive crush on Shane from 'The L Word' - go figure).

As far as anything more personality-wise goes then I like confidence, intelligence and humour, but then who doesn't?

Does that answer your questions??

Yes it did answer my questions. It too is how I would see it. I know I've been attracted to women for the reasons you stated.