Gay Evolution

[bottomshooter]

Like many men, I started fantasizing about gay sex just in my mind and through reading stories. The visuals actually turned me off at the time. I often started with women and then moved to gay thoughts. Then transexuals entered my erotic catalog and I started to become more curious. Then, after years of exploring and moving to chatting with men here via PM, then the old YIM for faster back and forth, then to voice sex, and then camming with men, while I view women more aesthetically pleasing in terms of beauty, a hot, busty beauty doesn't make me hard anymore. Now, in addition to having virtual sex with men, my porn is now 100% gay. A hard cock is very exciting. Men into each other and fucking like rabbits excite me like nothing else. It used to be, view some porn of beautiful women and some lesbians, cum, and I would be off with the rest of my day. Now, with men, I often cum 1 to 3 times before I start my day and I cum back in the afternoon and evening depending on time. Now, I have gone from cumming a few hundred times a year to way over a thousand. Interested to know if there are other married men who used to view themselves as 100% hetero that have experienced this.

 

[saintcero]

Like many men, I started fantasizing about gay sex just in my mind and through reading stories. The visuals actually turned me off at the time. I often started with women and then moved to gay thoughts. Then transexuals entered my erotic catalog and I started to become more curious. Then, after years of exploring and moving to chatting with men here via PM, then the old YIM for faster back and forth, then to voice sex, and then camming with men, while I view women more aesthetically pleasing in terms of beauty, a hot, busty beauty doesn't make me hard anymore. Now, in addition to having virtual sex with men, my porn is now 100% gay. A hard cock is very exciting. Men into each other and fucking like rabbits excite me like nothing else. It used to be, view some porn of beautiful women and some lesbians, cum, and I would be off with the rest of my day. Now, with men, I often cum 1 to 3 times before I start my day and I cum back in the afternoon and evening depending on time. Now, I have gone from cumming a few hundred times a year to way over a thousand. Interested to know if there are other married men who used to view themselves as 100% hetero that have experienced this.

Experienced much of what you wrote. Lit and SilverDaddies both serves to normalize my M2M interest. It has been a strange journey

 

[bottomshooter]

Experienced much of what you wrote. Lit and SilverDaddies both serves to normalize my M2M interest. It has been a strange journey

"Normalize" is a great way to put it. Love SD as I have had some great, hot, intense virtual m2m sex out there! I have a lot of great sex on Lit's real time chat function as well.

 

[Eighty6ed]

Same here

I’ve had about the same evolution, although I did have some experience with a male friend when I was a teenager. I used to avoid pictures of cock or videos with cock in them when it came to porn but definitely not now. The interest started for me when I came across futanari and I was blown away with how hot that was. Which led me to trans women...gorgeous, passable feminine trans women with sexy cocks became my new fascination. Then I found myself lusting over images of gorgeous cocks, fantasizing about pleasing them. I progressed to watching videos of guys stroking and then fucking. Guys having sex is just so incredibly passionate and erotic. I’m a mwm and I still find women very attractive but many of my fantasies revolve around pleasing and taking dick. If I had the opportunity I would fulfill that fantasy in a heartbeat!

 

[Escierto]

I’ve had about the same evolution, although I did have some experience with a male friend when I was a teenager. I used to avoid pictures of cock or videos with cock in them when it came to porn but definitely not now. The interest started for me when I came across futanari and I was blown away with how hot that was. Which led me to trans women...gorgeous, passable feminine trans women with sexy cocks became my new fascination. Then I found myself lusting over images of gorgeous cocks, fantasizing about pleasing them. I progressed to watching videos of guys stroking and then fucking. Guys having sex is just so incredibly passionate and erotic. I’m a mwm and I still find women very attractive but many of my fantasies revolve around pleasing and taking dick. If I had the opportunity I would fulfill that fantasy in a heartbeat!

What is preventing you? Being married?

 

[klippert]

I’ve never had a gay evolution. Never thought of gay sex as anything more a useful way to satisfy a need to nut. Even today when I watch Am/gay porn. Or read gay erotica. I never have this thought that I’m evolving into gay life. I can watch a good gay; sucking rimming and fucking; then watch straight Am/ and be even more turned on.
M/M sex is just that, sex, finish and leave. If there is one thing I don’t do. I don’t complicate it, and don’t try to figure it out. Or Listen to the lates pop-psychology. My drum beats. That’s what I March too
I have a different perspective; college, my first 2 yrs. nearly all my sex was m/m. One semester exclusively m/m. Yet I never fell into the trap. It was sex. Just getting off or getting him off.

 

[Bittersweet1215]

I had one I guess. I just think it was more of an awakening. When I was younger urges I had toward men or cock happened a lot. I was taught to shun that more than I was taught to become it if that makes sense.

I think anal was first? The idea of sex in a forbidden place I guess. Then it was definitely shemale porn and transgender erotica. Women with cocks. The forbidden element again. That started as trans girls being fucked by men. Inevitably that turned into the opposite. Men being fucked by a hung lady. For a while that's all it was. I still couldn't even think of men in that way. Soon I was hunting for futanari. The impossible became possible with futa. Then I started noticing crossdressers, and even though I did so myself I couldn't bring myself to get off to that sort of thing. Then I did. It started to seem more hot to me for a real person without surgery to look so incredible but still have that look about them where you just knew.

I think slowly more and more stuff with men found its way into my fantasies. At first I'd need a smoking hot woman there. Then it just became a need for the man. Then many years ago I stumbled across sissy stuff. At first I ignored it thinking it was dumb. Then I figured out it was exactly in line with everything I liked.

Now just of my fantasies are about men. But like I said, this wasn't really a transformation. It always felt more like peeling back layers and seeing what's there. I can look back and see that I always fantasized about cock, that I always tried to sneak and crossdress, that I always did these things in secret but hid them deep.

I don't even think of it as gay or straight or man or woman anymore. To me it's just sexual. I think that's always been it. Just sexual.

 

[PG564E]

Like many men, I started fantasizing about gay sex just in my mind and through reading stories. The visuals actually turned me off at the time. I often started with women and then moved to gay thoughts. Then transexuals entered my erotic catalog and I started to become more curious. Then, after years of exploring and moving to chatting with men here via PM, then the old YIM for faster back and forth, then to voice sex, and then camming with men, while I view women more aesthetically pleasing in terms of beauty, a hot, busty beauty doesn't make me hard anymore. Now, in addition to having virtual sex with men, my porn is now 100% gay. A hard cock is very exciting. Men into each other and fucking like rabbits excite me like nothing else. It used to be, view some porn of beautiful women and some lesbians, cum, and I would be off with the rest of my day. Now, with men, I often cum 1 to 3 times before I start my day and I cum back in the afternoon and evening depending on time. Now, I have gone from cumming a few hundred times a year to way over a thousand. Interested to know if there are other married men who used to view themselves as 100% hetero that have experienced this.

Yes, I have had the same real life sexual transformation as you described, with a few things being different in my personal journey. When a man goes from straight sex to thoughts, fantasy's, cravings. . . the desire for cock is real and he feels that. There will be no inner peace until his lips kiss a dick and he sucks on it like there is nothing else in the world expect this strong, hard penis. He needs that male sex organ and the cum it offers - he must have it. PM me if you like, we have talked in the past.

 

[Married_and_BiCurious]

I’ve never had a gay evolution. Never thought of gay sex as anything more a useful way to satisfy a need to nut. Even today when I watch Am/gay porn. Or read gay erotica. I never have this thought that I’m evolving into gay life. I can watch a good gay; sucking rimming and fucking; then watch straight Am/ and be even more turned on.
M/M sex is just that, sex, finish and leave. If there is one thing I don’t do. I don’t complicate it, and do try and figure it out. Or Listen to the lates pop-psychology. My drum beats. That’s what I March too
I have a different perspective; college, my first 2 yrs. nearly all my sex was m/m. One semester exclusively m/m. Yet I never fell into the trap. It was sex. Just getting off or getting him off.

I liked this description as I think it either describes me or I wish it did. Ever since I “discovered” gay sex I have been “into” it. I have not had any real life sexual encounters with men except for the occasional anonymous phone sex encounters, which themselves were very enjoyable. It was hot thinking I could get another man off by telling him what I would do to him or, more often, what I wanted him to do to me. At times I have felt some shame over these thoughts and actions but I have resolved to not carry it with me. I don’t share this part of myself with anyone, not even my shrinks, except here. If I found the right friend maybe I would. After all how do you tell another friend, “I want to suck cock and be fucked up the ass.”

 

[FunHotBostonGuy]

I'm similar to many bi-curious guys, started fantasizing about sucking cock, love a beautiful feminine trans woman with a gorgeous cock, at first felt a little guilty about watching pure m-m videos but got over that. Recently sucked cock for my first time as part of a hot bi mmf 3some .

One thing about my interests that I find peculiar is that I have zero attraction to men's asses. Like a total turn-off. But to see a bottom that is ROCK HARD while getting fucked, and sometimes cumming HANDS FREE -- wow, that concept is fascinating (I haven't tried it yet). And I read on these forums that a prostate orgasm is amazing and different than a "cock orgasm". I also think it would be cool to be the top in that situation -- it would be a total compliment and turn on if a straight-ish guy's cock is hard and twitching and cumming due to my cock fucking him in the ass .

 

[mtsnowrider]

In high school I fantasized about guys with great bodies because I wanted to be one of them. In college and beyond I enjoyed women's bodies but I still envied the big guys with jacked bodies. As married sex became less frequent and internet porn became more available I increasingly focused on gay sex. Now, with very limited real experience, it is all I am Interested in. Guess that's "evolution". I just need to find that one perfect FWB.

 

[AlexBailey]

I've always loved girls, even wanted to be one. I lived with lesbians for years. There have always been masculine guys who I thought were hot but I was most attracted to tomboys or femme guys. I recently went out to see music at a crowded place for the first time since covid and could not keep my eyes off of the guys.

I mingled and flirted a bit, a couple of girls approached but it was guys who had my attention all night - masculine and femme. That was new for me.

 

[nostuff]

Like many men, I started fantasizing about gay sex just in my mind and through reading stories. The visuals actually turned me off at the time. I often started with women and then moved to gay thoughts. Then transexuals entered my erotic catalog and I started to become more curious. Then, after years of exploring and moving to chatting with men here via PM, then the old YIM for faster back and forth, then to voice sex, and then camming with men, while I view women more aesthetically pleasing in terms of beauty, a hot, busty beauty doesn't make me hard anymore. Now, in addition to having virtual sex with men, my porn is now 100% gay. A hard cock is very exciting. Men into each other and fucking like rabbits excite me like nothing else. It used to be, view some porn of beautiful women and some lesbians, cum, and I would be off with the rest of my day. Now, with men, I often cum 1 to 3 times before I start my day and I cum back in the afternoon and evening depending on time. Now, I have gone from cumming a few hundred times a year to way over a thousand. Interested to know if there are other married men who used to view themselves as 100% hetero that have experienced this.

Your story isn't all that different from my own, though given that I'm only a sample of one, I can't say whether your evolution is common.

I started out as a 100 percent hetero guy. All about women, and I even married one. I found the mere thought of touching another man disgusting. Then something changed, and I began to evolve. I can't quite pinpoint the event, but I think reading Anne Rice's Sleeping Beauty books were one trigger.

Whatever the reason, I began thinking about cock. I thought about sucking cock, and I thought about taking cock up my ass. Not that it was automatic. But it was always with the fantasy of being coerced into man sex by a woman.

I finally found my way just before Covid to a bathhouse in Denver, where I sucked my first cock. Three actually. And now, I think about cock every day. Funny thing, I no longer think about women forcing me to be gay. I don't need that anymore to justify my desire.

I would note that I don't consider myself purely gay, nor do I consider myself effeminate. I'm bi (a bottom with men, a top with women). Much as I desire men, I still can't resist drooling over a beautiful woman. Just give me whatever is available.

 

[Travler99921]

My first sexual encounter was with a guy when I was a teen. However, I soon found my real attraction was to females. Many years later when I started looking at internet porn I found I was getting aroused by cocks as well as female images. Over time my attraction to cocks grew, and i started masturbating to images and videos of cocks.

Eventually I knew I wanted to suck cocks. It took me about 5 years before I sucked cock for the first time. I knew it would not be a onetime thing.

I AM a widower now, but was married at the time. I had informed her of my gay desires, and She was ok it. We continued having sex, and I found my emerging desire did not detract from my interest in straight sex.

I remain bisexual, and I do not see that changing. I do not see the nature of my sex with men changing. On rare occasions I have been a bottom, but it is cocksucking that is my real interest.

 

[bi_cpl_with_crossdresser]

Similar evolution here. Started with of course porno in the hard copy form (Magazines) and was always drawn to the ads in them for call-in service regarding forced feminization and transvestites, and as a Crossdresser questioning his sexuality these intrigued me.

As the internet came in I was able to find my heart's desire worth of porn and found myself again drawn to shemales. After falling down that rabbit hole and even renting and watching some with my wife (She was not a fan) I found myself now checking out more and more gay porn. Now, most nights my evening is not complete without watching at least one gay anal creampie compilation video.

 

[two2go]

Your story isn't all that different from my own, though given that I'm only a sample of one, I can't say whether your evolution is common.

I started out as a 100 percent hetero guy. All about women, and I even married one. I found the mere thought of touching another man disgusting. Then something changed, and I began to evolve. I can't quite pinpoint the event, but I think reading Anne Rice's Sleeping Beauty books were one trigger.

Whatever the reason, I began thinking about cock. I thought about sucking cock, and I thought about taking cock up my ass. Not that it was automatic. But it was always with the fantasy of being coerced into man sex by a woman.

I finally found my way just before Covid to a bathhouse in Denver, where I sucked my first cock. Three actually. And now, I think about cock every day. Funny thing, I no longer think about women forcing me to be gay. I don't need that anymore to justify my desire.

I would note that I don't consider myself purely gay, nor do I consider myself effeminate. I'm bi (a bottom with men, a top with women). Much as I desire men, I still can't resist drooling over a beautiful woman. Just give me whatever is available.

Your thoughts hit the nail on the head for me. As I read your thoughts and feelings, it just resonated with me. Thank you

 

[jimmyturtleman]

Like many men, I started fantasizing about gay sex just in my mind and through reading stories. The visuals actually turned me off at the time. I often started with women and then moved to gay thoughts. Then transexuals entered my erotic catalog and I started to become more curious. Then, after years of exploring and moving to chatting with men here via PM, then the old YIM for faster back and forth, then to voice sex, and then camming with men, while I view women more aesthetically pleasing in terms of beauty, a hot, busty beauty doesn't make me hard anymore. Now, in addition to having virtual sex with men, my porn is now 100% gay. A hard cock is very exciting. Men into each other and fucking like rabbits excite me like nothing else. It used to be, view some porn of beautiful women and some lesbians, cum, and I would be off with the rest of my day. Now, with men, I often cum 1 to 3 times before I start my day and I cum back in the afternoon and evening depending on time. Now, I have gone from cumming a few hundred times a year to way over a thousand. Interested to know if there are other married men who used to view themselves as 100% hetero that have experienced this.

No two sexual journeys are exactly the same, yet we do share a number of similarities. I don't have any estimates on my percentage of porn watched, but it does vary from time to time, between gay/bi/straight. It just depends what excites my mind at the moment. Sometimes, it's a hard, fat cock, sometimes it's a juicy pussy and a nice pair of tits. Then again, sometimes it's both.

 

[LostMidlander85]

Don't know if it's an evolution or an awareness and acceptance that I'm attracted to different genders. Recently my porn habits have included bi and trans. I've also start to play with my bum and looking at toys.

 

[DaddysSissySlut24]

I’ve never had a gay evolution. Never thought of gay sex as anything more a useful way to satisfy a need to nut. Even today when I watch Am/gay porn. Or read gay erotica. I never have this thought that I’m evolving into gay life. I can watch a good gay; sucking rimming and fucking; then watch straight Am/ and be even more turned on.
M/M sex is just that, sex, finish and leave. If there is one thing I don’t do. I don’t complicate it, and don’t try to figure it out. Or Listen to the lates pop-psychology. My drum beats. That’s what I March too
I have a different perspective; college, my first 2 yrs. nearly all my sex was m/m. One semester exclusively m/m. Yet I never fell into the trap. It was sex. Just getting off or getting him off.

I would counter that you're missing out on many layers that are not "complications" they are aspects that enrich the entire enterprise. Having said that, I'd never push that on anyone who didn't want it, but for me...none of it is a mere physical exchange of fluids, etc. The result of this philosophy for me, admittedly, does something you'd probably see as negative and that is it eliminates many potential...happenings. That's part of the trade-off and life, if anything is universal, is a series of trade-offs.

 

[GentlemanJedi63]

Like many men, I started fantasizing about gay sex just in my mind and through reading stories. The visuals actually turned me off at the time. I often started with women and then moved to gay thoughts. Then transexuals entered my erotic catalog and I started to become more curious. Then, after years of exploring and moving to chatting with men here via PM, then the old YIM for faster back and forth, then to voice sex, and then camming with men, while I view women more aesthetically pleasing in terms of beauty, a hot, busty beauty doesn't make me hard anymore. Now, in addition to having virtual sex with men, my porn is now 100% gay. A hard cock is very exciting. Men into each other and fucking like rabbits excite me like nothing else. It used to be, view some porn of beautiful women and some lesbians, cum, and I would be off with the rest of my day. Now, with men, I often cum 1 to 3 times before I start my day and I cum back in the afternoon and evening depending on time. Now, I have gone from cumming a few hundred times a year to way over a thousand. Interested to know if there are other married men who used to view themselves as 100% hetero that have experienced this.

My story begins in 1982 when I first became aware of my gay desires after reading an erotic story involving two men wrestling nude, and eventually having sex. For twenty years, I struggled with confusion, shame, guilt, embarrassment at the thoughts I was having. I knew I couldn't be gay because I preferred women, and still do. I used to explore the Internet, enjoy pictures of nude men, men in underwear, etc., and I would masturbate up until the moment of orgasm when I would quickly switch to a pic of a nude woman so I could say that it was the woman that caused me to cum. I knew I was lying to myself, but I kept up the pretense. Finally, one day I masturbated to orgasm while looking at a pic of a man, and finally admitted to myself I was "bi-curious." I still could not use the word "gay" regarding myself. Over the next few years, I began to develop interests and preferences in men, and I realized and accepted my desires as part of me, and not something abnormal. While I do not call myself gay, it no longer bothers me if another man says to me that I am gay. I may be bisexual or just curious, but my desires are definitely of a homosexual nature. I still prefer women, but I can enjoy porn of any type. It doesn't have to be straight porn. I enjoy straight, bi, gay, lesbian, etc.
However, when it comes to gay porn, I enjoy homemade, gay granddaddy porn. I love watching older men enjoy their sexuality without inhibition.

 

[Deleted member 5476586]

My gay evolution was a matter of no longer kidding myself about my orientation when all my masturbation fantasies were gay and I was hitting the bathhouse with fair regularity. I was masturbating in the shower to yet another fantasy or memory of gay sex when I first allowed myself to think “I’m not bi; I’m actually gay! And I LIKE that idea!"

 

[Swuq]

Like many men, I started fantasizing about gay sex just in my mind and through reading stories. The visuals actually turned me off at the time. I often started with women and then moved to gay thoughts. Then transexuals entered my erotic catalog and I started to become more curious. Then, after years of exploring and moving to chatting with men here via PM, then the old YIM for faster back and forth, then to voice sex, and then camming with men, while I view women more aesthetically pleasing in terms of beauty, a hot, busty beauty doesn't make me hard anymore. Now, in addition to having virtual sex with men, my porn is now 100% gay. A hard cock is very exciting. Men into each other and fucking like rabbits excite me like nothing else. It used to be, view some porn of beautiful women and some lesbians, cum, and I would be off with the rest of my day. Now, with men, I often cum 1 to 3 times before I start my day and I cum back in the afternoon and evening depending on time. Now, I have gone from cumming a few hundred times a year to way over a thousand. Interested to know if there are other married men who used to view themselves as 100% hetero that have experienced this.

I lead a daily life as an alpha. I have found that being a fem bottom provides balance to my regular daily life. I need to be dominated by masculine men.