Gangbangs from a woman's perspective

[Lucy_Lastic]

I would imagine a woman could command complete cooperation if the men had even an inkling that they might, based on conduct, be invited back another time. I don't think even in our lust-crazed state we entirely forget about the goose and those golden eggs.

You overestimate men's capacity for thought during sex.

 

[Justfantasies]

You overestimate men's capacity for thought during sex.

Yep -- the rationality module shuts down for sure

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

Mutual enjoyment is the best. Not just one way.

Obviously, but people derive pleasure in different ways. I'm sub and enjoy humiliation and degradation. Gangbangs can offer that in ways nothing else can.

 

[lc69hunter]

Wife and I never did it, but we chaperoned one for her girlfriend. I provided muscle to make sure nothing got out of hand, and my wife provided care and comfort to her friend, and may have fluffed a few cocks herself. It was messy, as it was bareback, and her husband was the last to take her.
My wife was so horny after getting home, she rode me like a rented mule.

 

[Sappho_CGN]

Gangbangs

Yes, it is a fantasy of me.

BUT

I am quite sure that I do not want doing it in reality. I loved a threesome with a "handpicked" man, we dated prior to it and who was really handsome, experienced and a very nice guy. I had a bit of an emotional band and it worked well.

This cannot work with more men as I need that emotional band.

Such scenes in porn are mostly scary as the woman is nothing more than "fuckmeat". It is also often part of BDSM and degrading, humiliating the woman is the goal.

That is not my cup of tea at all.

 

[tristantrotsky]

You overestimate men's capacity for thought during sex.

It's interesting that there's nothing that men do to women in Porn scenarios that they don't also do to other men in Gay Porn. Men can be become objectivised into fuckmeat too. It seems to be simply part of the male psyche, the way they are hardwired...

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

the woman is nothing more than "fuckmeat". It is also often part of BDSM and degrading, humiliating the woman is the goal.

That is not my cup of tea at all.

Totally mine. When the mood takes me. But 2 or 3 men is more intimate and a lot of fun in a very different way.

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

It's interesting that there's nothing that men do to women in Porn scenarios that they don't also do to other men in Gay Porn. Men can be become objectivised into fuckmeat too. It seems to be simply part of the male psyche, the way they are hardwired...

I think that's totally true. Never given it any thought but I think there's a primeval part of men's brains that just wants to plant the seed.

 

[ukfdivorced]

Totally mine. When the mood takes me. But 2 or 3 men is more intimate and a lot of fun in a very different way.

I agree its different and more intimate but yes a gb can be mind blowing fun

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

I agree its different and more intimate but yes a gb can be mind blowing fun

Agreed. The point I was making (badly) is that they're two different experiences and both work for me depending on my need and how emotionally robust I'm feeling.

 

[Sappho_CGN]

I think that's totally true. Never given it any thought but I think there's a primeval part of men's brains that just wants to plant the seed.

I think that male sexuality is in its tendency more aggressive, violent and less torn to an individual than female sexuality. Therefore, porn and prostitution aim expecially on men.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I think that's totally true. Never given it any thought but I think there's a primeval part of men's brains that just wants to plant the seed.

Lucy, I loved you in the Sugababes... but I admit that I also had the hots for Keisha and Mutya...

 

[vibes]

how emotionally robust I'm feeling

more robust --> gang bang / less robust --> intimate sex?

 

[vibes]

Therefore, porn and prostitution aim expecially on men.

It's a commercial product: the initial market was only men, now it's changing so you are beginning to find different genres

 

[tristantrotsky]

I think that male sexuality is in its tendency more aggressive, violent and less torn to an individual than female sexuality. Therefore, porn and prostitution aim expecially on men.

Nature and evolution have determined that the male role in reproduction is to penetrate, while the female role is to be penetrated. No amount of admirable equal opportunities legislation can alter this biological imperative. As much as society strives to achieve the goals of gender fairness, there will always be a primal hankering for the instinctive and the intuitive, whether we like to admit it or not...

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

more robust --> gang bang / less robust --> intimate sex?

Totally yes. I need a lot of aftercare after a gangbang.

 

[vibes]

aftercare

physical or psychological?

 

[Sappho_CGN]

psychologically ----------------> aftercare and BDSM

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

physical or psychological?

both. I get pretty deep in the zone when I'm looking to be degraded and I need a lot of cuddles and reassurance after.

 

[vibes]

both. I get pretty deep in the zone when I'm looking to be degraded and I need a lot of cuddles and reassurance after.

It looks like a vicious circle: more robust -> gang bang -> less robust -> intimate sex it never ends

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

Not really, just depends on my emotional and physical need at any given time. I'm sure sometimes you prefer sex soft and gentle and loving, other times rough and primal?

 

[vibes]

Not really, just depends on my emotional and physical need at any given time. I'm sure sometimes you prefer sex soft and gentle and loving, other times rough and primal?

Of course: I was kinda joking, I understand nothing is ever so simple ... and, yes, most of the times I like to switch from tender to rough during the same session

 

[Sappho_CGN]

Not really, just depends on my emotional and physical need at any given time. I'm sure sometimes you prefer sex soft and gentle and loving, other times rough and primal?

Yes ... sometimes you want to make love and feel love, sometimes you want to be fucked ... LOL and he has to find out what is in those moment is wanted LOL

 

[vibes]

LOL and he has to find out what is in those moment is wanted LOL

and we all know and agree how little blood reaches the man's brain during sex

 

[Sappho_CGN]

Women look for the gentleman, succesfull in his job, able craftsman, romantic as a minstrel and in bed the badboy and who always know which role is just wanted.

Men wish a wife, friend, lover, mother, whore and that all these women never meet.