Gangbangers

[YourCaptor]

I know this might sound to you all like a big bullshit story but I swear to God every word of it is true

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Wow, that does make for a great story.

Makes me wonder if I have ever passed by the scene of the crime.

 

[YourCaptor]

not necessarily. it just takes a certain type of perverted male mind to get off on something like a gangbang. it appeals to men like Rosco in great part because of the heady power rush of controlling the sexual fulfillment of other men, men he views as lesser and pathetic in some way. it appeals to men like my Master because it objectifies a female down to the bare bones: a piece of meat, solely for the pleasure of men, etc. the pack is hungry, and he has the means by which to feed them. that really trips his trigger.

and, i think it appeals to the gangbangers themselves because often it allows them to finally treat a woman the way they have always seen them...it allows them to be free and wholly male and not give a damn about being a good guy, doing the right thing, being compassionate or kind, etc. done the traditional way, a gangbang is really an attack. a gangbang gives men the opportunity to let go and really attack a female, and get their cocks taken care of at the same time.

Interesting how you define the gangbangers, no wonder it doesn’t apply to me. I wonder why I didn’t see it that way before, it’s basic social psychology. The whole, “I would never do it myself but now that everyone is doing it I’m gonna rip that bitch a new one!!” effect.

I suppose when you would do that sort of thing anyway regardless, the situational catalyst has no more appeal.

I still see no reason to host a gangbang though. Unless maybe my girl really wanted one, get her one for Christmas or something.

 

[00Syd]

Just got internet again and really want to read the rest of this thread but I don't have the time. Hopefully later today.

 

[Adakgirl]

There was no blood left in the verbal centre of my mind.

Well said! Now I feel better about spilling my guts like in this thread. LOL

 

[ownedsubgal]

Interesting how you define the gangbangers, no wonder it doesn’t apply to me. I wonder why I didn’t see it that way before, it’s basic social psychology. The whole, “I would never do it myself but now that everyone is doing it I’m gonna rip that bitch a new one!!” effect.

I suppose when you would do that sort of thing anyway regardless, the situational catalyst has no more appeal.

humans are pack animals and unfortunately many are heavily-influenced by being accepted by, fitting in with or admired by the rest of the pack. the pack also gives courage to the otherwise weak. i recall for many years, the stats on rape on college campuses were that most rapes were group rapes (two or more), outnumbering one-on-one by a significant margin.

 

[00Syd]

Just skimmed the thread and may have missed a few particulars but...

The (two) gangbangs I was involved in weren't with guys who never get any, or who are pathetic and desperate, or with guys for whom a gangbang scenario is their only opportunity to treat a woman violently or like an object, they were with respected dominants in my local community and guys with dominant tendencies who obviously don't have much trouble getting laid.

So, I don't think its so strange for non-pathetic types to be into gangbangs. Its a kink like any other. I couldn't tell you specifically why the guys who were involved with my gangbangs were into it, but I'm sure it had something to do with a warm tight pussy, humiliation, and show-offy masculinity.

Or maybe not.

I'm sure that if I was ever in a gangbang that WAS with pathetic-types picked by someone else, it would be a much different feel than the ones I have been in. That's a situation I'm much more nervous about but will probably end up in eventually. I'm headed in that direction, and not unhappily so.

P.S. Sorry about the extreme run-on sentence.

 

[rosco rathbone]

I'm sure that if I was ever in a gangbang that WAS with pathetic-types picked by someone else, it would be a much different feel than the ones I have been in. That's a situation I'm much more nervous about but will probably end up in eventually. I'm headed in that direction, and not unhappily so.

.

Vereee interesting.

 

[00Syd]

Vereee interesting.

Ain't it?

 

[ataxia.girl]

i wanna be gang banged. i also want half the proceeds.

 

[YourCaptor]

humans are pack animals and unfortunately many are heavily-influenced by being accepted by, fitting in with or admired by the rest of the pack. the pack also gives courage to the otherwise weak. i recall for many years, the stats on rape on college campuses were that most rapes were group rapes (two or more), outnumbering one-on-one by a significant margin.

Well, technically we are not pack orientated, we are more complex then that. In a pack roles are mostly set, people on the other hand will change role in any given setting. It's an important adaptation that has take us far, I don't think its something that should be looked down upon. Also gangbangs and rape, I would not draw parallels in motives here.

Another motive for gangbangers may be that they are high extroverts, constantly seeking out environmental stimuli and are more prone to risky behavior. Seems to match.

I'm all for taking risks, but since I'm more introverted the reward is just not there in this case.

I'm sure it had something to do with a warm tight pussy

-drool-

Sooo, how does beautiful southern california in the summer time sound. You are invited.

i wanna be gang banged. i also want half the proceeds.

You're too little, maybe in a couple of years.

 

[satindesire]

condoms were required for vaginal and anal, oral was free reign. i experienced my first vaginal/anal DP...it was nice, very gentle, i felt safe and enveloped in big strong male arms and chests. nothing at all like how i imagined such a thing might be.

This seems really sweet, if I were going to do DP with two men, I'd love to have it be like this. Loving and tender...that's very sexy to me.

(also I'm 6-5 and 235 which is fat as a house for me)

SIX FIVE?!

I didn't think you were criticising me. It's just that when I sort people, I specifically look for fellows who don't seem like studs. Those guys need a break, I think. (there's my soft heart).

*coughbullshitcoughcough!*

 

[Kelli_Kanyon]

RE: Baseball

I have been asked in private alot what me and my friends do while i have my hubby bent over the foot stool fucking him with the baseball bat. So here goes, we ladies all stay dressed actually, it is not really sex to us, just entertainment. We all take turns fucking him with the bat, it is funny to see who can make him cum first or gape open the widest. basically a party game we use on friday and saturday nights. We don't tie him up or anything, he is well trained and bends over when told to do so. He understands that women are in charge in this house!

Again, it is not sex to us ladies, we mostly just giggle and laugh alot showing him who is really "the bitch" here. That is why i asked if it really counts as a gangbang or not

 

[ownedsubgal]

Well, technically we are not pack orientated, we are more complex then that. In a pack roles are mostly set, people on the other hand will change role in any given setting. It's an important adaptation that has take us far, I don't think its something that should be looked down upon. Also gangbangs and rape, I would not draw parallels in motives here.

Another motive for gangbangers may be that they are high extroverts, constantly seeking out environmental stimuli and are more prone to risky behavior. Seems to match.

I'm all for taking risks, but since I'm more introverted the reward is just not there in this case.

hmm i've never noticed that gangbangers in general being especially extroverted. you have the leaders of course, the alpha personalities, usually one or two guys who set the tone of the action. but everyone else kind of turns into sheep, just happily but somewhat blindly following along. at both my first and second gangbangs, there was quite a bit of high schoolish male ribbing and pressuring...like, one man was ridiculed because he was too short to penetrate me on the gynecological table they had me on, like everyone else had. "ha ha he can't even reach the pussy," that sort of thing. even blindfolded, i could FEEL his embarrassment. but then he found an ottoman or something to stand on and got the job done, then everyone clapped for him, lol. but there were snide remarks about cumming too soon, not cumming enough, cock size and shape, sexual skill, everything. there was a lot of direction, from the alpha guys to the rest, telling them what to do, and exactly how and when to do it. and, to my amazement, the rest of the guys just listen. they followed the alphas without question.

i wonder how a gangbang of all alphas/Dominants might be different, like the experience Syd had. a few weeks ago Daddy invited two Dominants he met online over to the house to use me, and as always i found the power dynamic between the men interesting. of course, my Master was the top, but Dom A had a very assertive demeanor as well and picked up on the weakness of Dom B right away. he started giving Dom B encouragement when he was clearly having trouble getting me into the right positions and maintaining an erection with a condom on...very very condescending encouragement: "go on, you can do it." but of course Dom B didn't pick up on the tone at all and was childishly bolstered by Dom A's words. he was clearly just to be involved, to be "one of the guys." i felt badly for him actually.

 

[ownedsubgal]

This seems really sweet, if I were going to do DP with two men, I'd love to have it be like this. Loving and tender...that's very sexy to me.

see i thought it was nice too, but just not for a frickin gangbang where a girl expects to be manhandled and physically violated, lol.

 

[00Syd]

---ach Double Post!!---

 

[00Syd]

hmm i've never noticed that gangbangers in general being especially extroverted. you have the leaders of course, the alpha personalities, usually one or two guys who set the tone of the action. but everyone else kind of turns into sheep, just happily but somewhat blindly following along. at both my first and second gangbangs, there was quite a bit of high schoolish male ribbing and pressuring...

Yeah.. that hasn't been my experience.

i wonder how a gangbang of all alphas/Dominants might be different, like the experience Syd had.

In my experiences, the gangbang just seemed like an opportunity for a little bit of camaraderie amongst dom-types. There was no condescension or immaturity, but true encouragement and suggestions and fellow-dom-ship. It really seemed like besides being a means to an end, I was an opportunity for some real fellowship. It was almost sweet, when I wasn't feeling too much like a humiliated sex toy to notice, anyway.

 

[rosco rathbone]

I wonder if there's any evolutionary value to a gang rape (which is really what a gangbang is simulating).

Gang rapes have always been part of war and territorial expansion.

Interesting to think on the relationship, if any between harem-style sexuality where a dominant male takes many wives or concubines, and a gang rape.

 

[ownedsubgal]

Yeah.. that hasn't been my experience.




In my experiences, the gangbang just seemed like an opportunity for a little bit of camaraderie amongst dom-types. There was no condescension or immaturity, but true encouragement and suggestions and fellowship. It really seemed like besides being a means to an end, I was an opportunity for some real fellowship. It was almost sweet, when I wasn't feeling like a humiliated sex toy.

ahhh...kind of like Superbowl sunday with the boys. i can grok that.

 

[00Syd]

ahhh...kind of like Superbowl sunday with the boys. i can grok that.

Ehh, I wouldn't really say it was like that. More like... Like when a bunch of rope-tops get together over some piece of rigging and talk about it, offer suggestions, give advice, work on it together, and bond (in a very macho way, of course). Only instead of rope and a piece of rigging, they were talking over, giving suggestions and advice about me. Instead of working on a piece of rigging together, they were fucking me together, and bonding over it (in a very non-gay, domly way).

 

[rosco rathbone]

pet peeve

this aint rigging: http://smbi.bi.org/susp1.jpg


This is rigging: http://www.damoltd.com/assets/rig2.jpg

 

[00Syd]

pet peeve

this aint rigging: http://smbi.bi.org/susp1.jpg


This is rigging: http://www.damoltd.com/assets/rig2.jpg

Oh, well, the first photo would bother me if referred to as rigging. I use the term rigging in the rope bondage sense of the word.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Oh, well, the first photo would bother me if referred to as rigging. I use the term rigging in the rope bondage sense of the word.

I'm just giving you a hard time. To me, a rigger is someone who can look at a piece of machinery the size of a bungalow and tell you the center of gravity and the weight to within 500 lbs.

 

[Netzach]

I'm just giving you a hard time. To me, a rigger is someone who can look at a piece of machinery the size of a bungalow and tell you the center of gravity and the weight to within 500 lbs.

well, I just do that really really small. And with nerve endings. It's different.

Jargon in SM is silly though. It's just tying up.

There's a freakishly high number of trained riggers into being rope tops, I've found. Weird to me, in a way.

 

[Netzach]

Ehh, I wouldn't really say it was like that. More like... Like when a bunch of rope-tops get together over some piece of rigging and talk about it, offer suggestions, give advice, work on it together, and bond (in a very macho way, of course). Only instead of rope and a piece of rigging, they were talking over, giving suggestions and advice about me. Instead of working on a piece of rigging together, they were fucking me together, and bonding over it (in a very non-gay, domly way).

It's really hard for me to see this kind of thing as not the least tiny little bit gay. Manly warrior butchmeister classical gay. Homoerotic anyway. I don't see jacking off in view of one another as totally straight either.

 

[intothewoods]

<snip>they were fucking me together, and bonding over it (in a very non-gay, domly way).

I'm trying to picture this in a way that is very non-gay.


Still trying.





Still trying.




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