gangbang question
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BlueSugar
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Re: here is why
check the bold. They wouldn't let anyone pass the 5th grade without knowing the difference between know and no. Wear, where, and were. I might be late about jumping on the band wagon, but really... this one isn't only a danger if this is all real, but probably too young to be on this site.
usedslut2003 said:
check the bold. They wouldn't let anyone pass the 5th grade without knowing the difference between know and no. Wear, where, and were. I might be late about jumping on the band wagon, but really... this one isn't only a danger if this is all real, but probably too young to be on this site.
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usedslut2003
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im being for real
Im on here telling everyone what I have done with my life, hoping to get some help with my problem. And all I am is ridiculled So what im not that good about spelling but Iam a human being and should be treated like one. Im sorry if everyone thinks im just joking but im not. This is reality for me and is 100% the truth about my life. Im starting to feel like god put me on this earth to be play toy for men. I need help before I do get a std. And I am tested regulary. And I dont have anything thank god. Pleae help me with my problem and dont be so mean.
Im on here telling everyone what I have done with my life, hoping to get some help with my problem. And all I am is ridiculled So what im not that good about spelling but Iam a human being and should be treated like one. Im sorry if everyone thinks im just joking but im not. This is reality for me and is 100% the truth about my life. Im starting to feel like god put me on this earth to be play toy for men. I need help before I do get a std. And I am tested regulary. And I dont have anything thank god. Pleae help me with my problem and dont be so mean.
we're being mean because you're being stupid. And unsafe. For you and your partners. If you really swear that this is the truth, how bout you go to a DOCTOR, and get yourself some COUNSELLING? If you really want to stop, nothing in the world will keep you from it.
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usedslut2003
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the thing about stoping is I tried but I love getting gangbanged and I cant stop. Is there a safer way for me to do these things and still enjoy what I lve without worring about std's.
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As Vixenshe said, the first thing to do is start using condoms. Every single time, every single guy, no matter where he's putting it. No glove, no love. I'll grant, it reduces sensation a bit, but it makes a SIGNIFICANT difference in your risk level.
Another thing you can do to reduce your risk level while maintaining your gangbangs, is to reduce the number of partners. If you have a regular set of men with whom you have sex, as opposed to strangers, you will at least have some idea of the risk represented by your partners. Having regular partners also presents the option of insisting that THEY get tested for STD's regularly also. I strongly recommend that you set that requirement for them also.
When you are in a gangbang scene, another step you can take to protect yourself is to have someone you implicitly trust monitoring the situation. That person can help ensure that your partners are complying with the rules you set. Be very careful in choosing this person; s/he will have a lot of power over you.
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As for your posts and the responses to them, I urge you to begin drafting them in a word processor with a spellchekc. While Litsters are forgiving of minor spelling errors, serious grammar problems damage your credibility.
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Good luck, and please think safety first.
i fall in agreement with ducklover, if you cannot stop at all with your desires and inhibitions to be gangbanged, then so be it. Keep going, if that's what you want and love .. don't deprive yourself of it. Though at least make it safe for you, and the partners. Yes I'd also say to cut the number of men significantly. Twenty is far too much to "monitor" or trust in that sort of large group. I'd say no more then ten, insist on condoms, and if you're that hyped about cum as it seems. Soak in it? Having them cum internally introduces a higher risk and something I wouldn't approve of.
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Yeah go see a therapist
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Is there something wrong with me
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Yeah go see a therapist
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Mary Hall said:
...and GLADLY....
I won't defend the way in which Usedslut is arranging her gangbangs, but I think it is unfair to attack her for enjoying them.
One of the greatest things about Lit is the wide variety of sexual tastes and preferences. The How-To board is full of people who engage in and enjoy practices not preferred by others, including anal sex, threesomes, and sex during a woman's period. The same is even more true on the BDSM board. Usedslut is merely taking the threesome/group sex practice further than most. There is nothing inherently wrong with her enjoying having sex with "6-20 men" at one time.
That said, everyone who pointed out the risks of her behavior and suggested methods for being safer are right on the money. Education is the mission of the How-To board; as the moderator Alexandraaah put it; "I like to see the How To Board as a blank instruction manual." (Source: First sticky on the board) And given Usedslut's comments on how she started having gangbangs and why they continue, I agree that seeking some counseling would be a good idea. Recognizing and identifying potential coercion and exploitation is also, I believe, appropriate.
I know we all sometimes read about something that violates our own sense of right and wrong, but people aren't generally seeking our moral input; they are seeking our technical and experiential input. By all means, please tell us about your good and bad experiences with group sex, anal sex, breath play or any other sex act. Feel free to share techniques that have (or have not) worked for you or people you know. That's what Lit is all about!
One of the greatest things about Lit is the wide variety of sexual tastes and preferences. The How-To board is full of people who engage in and enjoy practices not preferred by others, including anal sex, threesomes, and sex during a woman's period. The same is even more true on the BDSM board. Usedslut is merely taking the threesome/group sex practice further than most. There is nothing inherently wrong with her enjoying having sex with "6-20 men" at one time.
That said, everyone who pointed out the risks of her behavior and suggested methods for being safer are right on the money. Education is the mission of the How-To board; as the moderator Alexandraaah put it; "I like to see the How To Board as a blank instruction manual." (Source: First sticky on the board) And given Usedslut's comments on how she started having gangbangs and why they continue, I agree that seeking some counseling would be a good idea. Recognizing and identifying potential coercion and exploitation is also, I believe, appropriate.
I know we all sometimes read about something that violates our own sense of right and wrong, but people aren't generally seeking our moral input; they are seeking our technical and experiential input. By all means, please tell us about your good and bad experiences with group sex, anal sex, breath play or any other sex act. Feel free to share techniques that have (or have not) worked for you or people you know. That's what Lit is all about!
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She wants help but doesnt. She doesnt seem to want to make the effort to go to a shrink and talk to someone. You must live under a rock if you couldnt of figured that one out...when your out of controll you get some help. Granted she may be reaching out but what are we really going to do for her besides tell her to stop, make the guys wear rubbers and go talk to someone?
If having gang bangs is your thing and your a well adjusted adult...then great. The thing this girl needs to do though is STOP. This isnt a normal, healthy thing. She started at an age where she should of been kissing boys and having her first sexual experiences...not taking on a group of older guys who want to just use her. She has a horrible view of sexual relationships and her own sexuality and telling her to keep on going but just be safe is bull shit. This could seriously ruin her life, if it hasnt already. Putting on a condom is not going to reverse the psychological damage this girl probably has. She needs to stop, go seek help NOW. You may not have an std yet and you are SO lucky. I dont think continuing in the gang bangs are going to help her sort things out.
If having gang bangs is your thing and your a well adjusted adult...then great. The thing this girl needs to do though is STOP. This isnt a normal, healthy thing. She started at an age where she should of been kissing boys and having her first sexual experiences...not taking on a group of older guys who want to just use her. She has a horrible view of sexual relationships and her own sexuality and telling her to keep on going but just be safe is bull shit. This could seriously ruin her life, if it hasnt already. Putting on a condom is not going to reverse the psychological damage this girl probably has. She needs to stop, go seek help NOW. You may not have an std yet and you are SO lucky. I dont think continuing in the gang bangs are going to help her sort things out.
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