Toffer_Guy
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- Mar 6, 2013
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Good and bad in a fantasy is relative. I’m of the mind that there is nothing forbidden in a fantasy. They’re safe places to explore ideas and no one can be harmed. I know I have a lot of kinky fantasies - a small few dark, but it’s important to know some fantasies should remain fantasy. Just enjoying a fantasy as a concept doesn’t mean you’ll enjoy it in literal practice or that it’s worth the risky.Is my fantasy lately a bad one? Curious on thoughts
Your gangbang fantasy is where everyone is consenting. So, that’s fine. It would be important to only attempt that with people you feel safe with and trust. Who’ll respect your boundaries. There are people who will try to take advantage of your curiosity. Start small and don’t rush in.
You’re best bet, if this is something you really want to attempt. Don't take advice from randos on forums. Get in contact with someone who’s experienced what you want to try. Some pornstars or other sex workers, who’ve done gang scenes, might be open to giving you some advice. Although, approach them firsts asking if they’d be willing to advise you. Don’t jump into their DMs asking for gangbang tips.
People in porn get tested on the regular and events are often planned before filming. Things are safer than the general public might imagine. They know how to set such things up, because in a way it is like trying to set up a dinner party.