G Spot Orgasm

[Isabella Thorne]

Sometimes I can be pretty innocent and naïve for a slut ...

Well you know I have mind blowing orgasms - and multiple orgasms - and overlapping orgasms ... during intercourse and also when b/f goes down on me ...

I sometimes wonder though if I have officially had a "G spot orgasm"???

I read that women "squirt" during G spot orgasm ... and really I have never, ever squirted ... so does that mean I have never experienced a g spot orgasm? I have shaken and screamed and felt like I would explode from excitement ... but have never once squirted.

Sooooo do you think a woman can experience a G spot orgasm without squirting?

 

[DriveSouth]

Izzy -

My feelings are that a woman can have a g-spot orgasm without squirting.

My experience has been that my lover has the same intensity orgasm during g-spot stimulation - whether or not she squirts. Sometimes she does and sometimes she doesn't. She's more likely to squirt with penile stimulation of g-spot than with me using my fingers or even our new g-spot friendly vibrator.

So, enjoy you g-spot stimulation and the orgasms it induces, just as they are.




[Edited by DriveSouth on 04-24-2001 at 08:28 AM]

 

[bluntforcemama]

I've never had one.... some women don't even have a G-spot... I think I might be one of those lucky few. Ah well, maybe I just need the right man to show me. But I've heard of squirting and it scares me!

 

[Adoratrice]

Yep...do it all the time..although I have "squirted" (hate that word) once or twice I usually just get a flow of Cum(?)....I can tell the difference more so by what my husband is doing...meaning it just feels better when his fingers are angled a certain way, namely facing up and curved a bit....more intense, stronger, deeper....it is really hard to explain it...but my answer would be yes.Nightly in fact if you are so inclined.

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

Bullshit!

All women have a G-spot - it's a physical fact - it's there.

It might be more or less prevalent in any given female - like male penis size is different - but it's there.

The "pad" - I forget the name - that "holds the squirt" (sorry I'm not very technical on this) is also there and may of course vary in size and "how much it holds."

So for all women - it's a matter of locations, stimulation, and most importantly - mental preparation.

 

[DriveSouth]

I've never had one.... some women don't even have a G-spot... I think I might be one of those lucky few. Ah well, maybe I just need the right man to show me. But I've heard of squirting and it scares me!

here here myst - let me help you with that -


*wink*

 

[FlamingoBlue]

Squirt, don't squirt, what does it....

really matter? As long as you're having fun, sweet Bella.


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[Crooky]

Quakes without floods

Well Isabel,

That's often something that I have wondered. I found most of the information that I know from this site:
http://doctorg.com/sexual_studies.htm

Here's the highlights:

"The evidence of this experiment is clear and groundbreaking that the vast majority of the fluid expelled by women during sexual arousal originates in the bladder. Furthermore, that fluid, which passes through the urethra, may be "deurinized" liquid from the bladder. Additionally, in some women and at some times, a small discharge may be added from the female equivalent of the prostate gland, medically known as Skene's glands and long thought to be dormant and no longer functional, and which may be neither. It has not yet
been proven for certain whether women can expel at least a small amount of fluid from their urethral (prostate) glands, during a very deep and intense orgasm, but I sense that it is very close to being proven."
From: THE G-"CREST" AND FEMALE EJACULATION;1997 by Gary Schubach, Ed.D.,A.C.S

He notes earlier in his study that one woman kept track of "126 different kinds of orgasms to date" and is still finding more ways to come.

However, for you guys out there, you might note that Dr. Schubach says:
"What has been popularly but erroneously called the G "spot" is the area on the upper wall of the vagina, through which the urethral or "Skene's" glands can be felt. It is the media, which picked up the term "G spot" because of the book, that has promulgated the notion of a "spot" on the anterior wall of the vagina itself. The search for a "spot" on the anterior wall of the vagina, as opposed to searching for the urethral glands through the anterior wall may be contributing to the difficulty of finding a single G "spot" and the controversy as to whether it exists at all."

I've read other literature that says G-spot orgasm work in combination with clitoral stimulation since it's pretty rare to reach the "G-spot" without bumping "the love nub".

I would immagine that your orgasms are enhanced by G-spot stimulation but technically, without ejaculation, it's not a true G-spot orgasm.

Sounds like fun though.

 

[bluntforcemama]

Sparky

Well get your ass over here and help me find mine!

 

[DriveSouth]

Re: Sparky

Well get your ass over here and help me find mine!

now now, I volunteered!

 

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My ass is over here!

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Well, I would love to but I have to wash my hair. Besides, most of my lovers have had theirs in different spots. My fiancee has hers waaaaay back so I can't reach it with my fingers. We hit it when her legs are up near her ears and I am really giving it to her.

She's never squirted but she's leaked A LOT!

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

The Shebabe and I have researched this.......

And I belive that it all has to do with "willingness" that is "to try it." Why? It can take some time and it can "feel a bit different." Than what one is used to.

I mean "great spontaneous sex" is great and we all get used to it.

But "working on that G-spot squirt" is differnt and you kinda have to plan it.

So what we did is say - we'll try it from time to time - over time. So far so good. We/she does notice "the pressure to pee" which is a key hurdle for most women. They just don't want to feel that way or to actually pee - in the bed in front of their partner. Understandable right?

But you have to get past that one or you will never squirt.

That's why I suggest the mental preparation is a major factor. Patience too. But I believe that if a woman gets by these things - she will/can have a G-spot squirting orgasim.

 

[Isabella Thorne]

wow ... it is amazing to me that so many men know what a g-spot orgasm is and how a woman can go about achieving one ...

but really ... i don't know if i could ever squirt ... i am willing to "feel a bit different" though ...

i guess i will just have to keep on trying ...

or is it keep on truckin'?

... i can never get that straight ... lmao ...

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

I don't know why you'd find that amazing.....

Any man who actually cared about not only sharing/giving pleasure with his wife - but also ever improving upon the same - would have a deep interest in G-spot orgasims.

I turn - I would think that any female wishing to reach higher levels of sexual pleasure would also be interested.

Fact is that I am obsessed with providing my wife with "the most stable and comfortable platform, from which to build - greater/further sexual pleasure." Why would I settle for anything less? Why would she?

Life is short? I want my wife to cum and cum a lot and cum bigger and bigger and bigger. And I do to.

And it's so much fun to untake this adventure (apparently one that very few wish to undertake) with the person I love.

 

[Isabella Thorne]

Oh in Canada on CityTV, we have this wonderful weekly one hour program called Sex TV ... featuring different subjects on sex ....

well last night the program was called "Sex Machines" (lol cool name) ... and it featured these machines that people can use to have sex (with or without a partner)...

they showed one machine that was hooked up to a woman ... and through electric currents, the machine can bring on orgasms ... strong orgasms ... really really strong orgams ... the woman said it was the strongest she ever experienced ... i am certain one can achieve a g spot orgasm this way ..

jeeez it is so much like Woody Allen's Sleeper with the orgasmitron ...lmao ...

but really ... you know ... nothing can replace the touch / feel of another person ...

btw they showed these life like dolls too that men can use ... they run about $6,000 ... and are very life like ...

would you use a sex machine to experience stronger orgasms?
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[Sparky Kronkite]

The Shebabe and I have a Sybian Saddle.

A machine. We combine both flesh and machine.

And have even included multiple males - and the machine - for her.

Yes, she loves it.

 

[Isabella Thorne]

ohhhhhhh Spark ...

<fanning myself frantically>

oh wowwwwww ... you just made me so wet ...

 

[LordMagicMan]

Myst if you have a G-spot I could find it, and if you are relxed enough and let everything go, I could get you to squirt too. But you wont when you think its bad I've had three girls squirt that never have before and two that where just to shy to let me try.

 

[Derya]

Ok I'm feeling a little jealous here...I've never had a G-spot orgasm or at least not a 'squirting' orgasm anyway and additionally I've never been with a man who encouraged trying to work on finding it. I've tried on my own with self stimulation, but haven't been able to accomplish. I want better sex!!!!

You're exactly right Sparky always keep improving; enjoying; learning; each other. Bigger Badder Better or something like that.

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[BrainyBeauty]

Hello, IT girl!

Long time no see!

I have heard about this - there is a whole series of primers/books dedicated to the subject called

"See Dick. See Jane. See G-spot. Run, G-spot, Run!"

 

[Isabella Thorne]

Science Fiction Sex

Geeeeeeeeeee .... Spot is such a groovy dog, Brainy ...

but I can't see a Dick .... where is the Dick? Show me the Dick ...

Ohhh you know I was talking about the Sex Machines ... well what i was saying about the machine that brings you to orgasm is like the orgasmitron from the movie Sleeper ...

Also i was thinking that the life-like dolls for men that i was talking about is also a lot like the movie The Stepford Wives ... who were androids i know and not really dolls ... but still ...

btw i find it such a trun off to think that a man could be masturbating into a machine / doll whatever ... yet it is cool for a woman to use a dildo / vibrator ... why is that perceived differently, I wonder? or is it just me?

It's almost like the way sex was portrayed in these science fiction movies from the past ... is the way sex is evolving today ...
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[DriveSouth]

Isabella -

Sparky is so right on this subject.

My lover and I did the same as he and shebabe. Every so often we would forego the "spontaneous sex" and have an evening set aside to experiment in this area.

It began rather slowly with feeling that "need to pee" feeling. Once you find that and acknowledge that you've hit upon the right spot, it's a matter of comfort zones. For us/her it is odd to me - often she says "it's too deep, back out some.", but I'll not be really deep at all, not even all of my finger inside her.

One night it happened - while we were fucking, not even trying for g-spot stimulation. She lifted her legs high, beside her head and suddenly - "that's it - that's the spot - I'm gonna cum - I'm gonna pee on you -" I think were her exact words! Well, she did not "pee", but she did "squirt"(I too hate that word - infact, we prefer what came to her spontaneously that first time - "I'm gonna pee" way way better.) and the feeling was something else. Hot flowing juices washed over me and I was caught up in the g-spot orgasm waves and swept away.

She'll be so embarassed if she ever reads this - but I think it maybe important - The need to pee sensation is a major problem. I think one thing that helped us past it was(this is the part that is sort of embarassing) watching her pee(ulterior motives for me - I was searching for a comfort zone for her) - for real pee I mean. She became a more at ease with that and peeing with me around wasn't so taboo. After this I think it was easier for her to "let it go" when that spot was stimulated, and of course, she didn't pee, she squirted.

So, I guess the point here is - it really don't come easily ladies and unlike other things in the sex world, has to be worked at and focused upon if some of the hurdles are to be crossed. But well worth all of the efforts. So, play on.

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

Exactly South!!!!

"I'M GONNA PEE ON YOU!!!!"

Should be the mantra for all women to strive toward.

 

[Isabella Thorne]

Mind your Ps and Qs

ummmm well ...

I much much much prefer the word "squirt" to "pee" ...

Yikes - to me "peeing" implies golden showers ... yuck ...

and really DriveSouth luv, you seem to be such a patient attentive lover - as do so many of the men on the BB - and thank you so much for your post with your personal experiences ...

but personally i don't think i could ever pee in front of b/f ... non merci cheri ... even though i really really really want to experience a g spot orgasm ...

... also one more thought about the sex machines replacing real people ... i mentioned before that touch and feel are important ... but also important to me for sexual stimilulation is hearing my partner talk (kinda nasty lol) to me, his scent, his taste ... machines could never do that ... well maybe the talking part ... lmao ...
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[DriveSouth]

Well Izzy, just relax and enjoy and don't hold back, whatever approach you take to achieve this goal, that's the key.