FWB, which is wanted more F or B?

[razor33a]

So guys and gals looking for FWB or buddies who they can play with and hang out with, which part is more desired: the sex or the friend? At one extreme is the 100% benefits and 0% friends but wouldn't that just be some quickie blow & go? And 100% friends and 0% sex, well we have friends and know how that works. How important is the friendship part in FWB? Is it enough to get along, shared interests but mostly there for the sex, becoming actual friends and the sex act is just a thing to sometimes do? I read ads looking for "buddies" or fwb and I'm curious how many don't meet up or stop meeting because the friend part isn't there? Curious what everyone's opinion on this is, no right/wrong answer. Me: for a fwb situation I'd like to have some common interest at least vs anonymous meets. Adding in a friendship connection does make a smaller group of potential encounters; is fwb just code for "want quickie but not say it"?

 

[whiteasianlvr]

I haven't had a FWB, but I think I'd like to enter into one where the roles were established up front in terms of the B and the F evolved naturally.

 

[Dreamer110]

I'd want someone i could hang with. Watching sports and doing home projects together. But when the mood strikes.....

 

[dingdongditchding]

So guys and gals looking for FWB or buddies who they can play with and hang out with, which part is more desired: the sex or the friend? At one extreme is the 100% benefits and 0% friends but wouldn't that just be some quickie blow & go? And 100% friends and 0% sex, well we have friends and know how that works. How important is the friendship part in FWB? Is it enough to get along, shared interests but mostly there for the sex, becoming actual friends and the sex act is just a thing to sometimes do? I read ads looking for "buddies" or fwb and I'm curious how many don't meet up or stop meeting because the friend part isn't there? Curious what everyone's opinion on this is, no right/wrong answer. Me: for a fwb situation I'd like to have some common interest at least vs anonymous meets. Adding in a friendship connection does make a smaller group of potential encounters; is fwb just code for "want quickie but not say it"?

oh man, I just wrote about this. I would say maybe 75% sex 25% hanging out/pals . I am not looking for a best pal. Just someone that I can connect more than just SUCK and RUN!!!!! Once in a while actually hanging out ending in mutual orgasms. Mutual cum sharing. I am (so far) bi curious with a little experience from long long time ago. Football season is coming, his wife wont wonder about the husband's new friend that he watches the game with. Who knows, maybe laying back on the bed with my face covered in his cum as he takes off is not that bad. Just suck me off too, and I'll cum on your face. I guess that is the game.

 

[LovelyLadyLicker]

Ah, that's such a good question. For me, I'd say 50% friend, 50% benefit. I really like getting to know a woman and learn what her intellectual interests are. That knowledge makes me exploring what she likes physically even more exciting. I really can't do without the other. That mental connection is vital.

 

[saintcero]

FWB sounds nice but in truth I want more of a FB arrangement

 

[MaturemanAJ]

So guys and gals looking for FWB or buddies who they can play with and hang out with, which part is more desired: the sex or the friend? At one extreme is the 100% benefits and 0% friends but wouldn't that just be some quickie blow & go? And 100% friends and 0% sex, well we have friends and know how that works. How important is the friendship part in FWB? Is it enough to get along, shared interests but mostly there for the sex, becoming actual friends and the sex act is just a thing to sometimes do? I read ads looking for "buddies" or fwb and I'm curious how many don't meet up or stop meeting because the friend part isn't there? Curious what everyone's opinion on this is, no right/wrong answer. Me: for a fwb situation I'd like to have some common interest at least vs anonymous meets. Adding in a friendship connection does make a smaller group of potential encounters; is fwb just code for "want quickie but not say it"?

It really hinges on the person.
Some have been easy to be friends with, kept in touch, same interests, loved sexual banter to keep.it hot while not seeing each other.
Others were more F Buddies because other than sex we didn't have much in common.
F Buddies take less time out of your life

 

[TrailerHitch]

My current FWB started out as more of a benefits guy but as time goes by we have become good friends. Been out to dinner a few times and been to his house just to hang out. The sex is great but the connection makes it better, for me anyways.

 

[FeelingLikeMyself]

Both.

I want someone I can hang out with and suck their cock or fuck me without catching feelings or making it weird.

 

[AriesAngyl]

I guess I am in the 50/50 group. I like some companionship, casual fun, people to go out and do things with and I also like good sensual sex.

I am not up for a commitment, but I think having a few FWBs in my life is a perfect combination. Different lovers who do different and fun things. Variety with orgasms!

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I guess I am in the 50/50 group. I like some companionship, casual fun, people to go out and do things with and I also like good sensual sex.

I am not up for a commitment, but I think having a few FWBs in my life is a perfect combination. Different lovers who do different and fun things. Variety with orgasms!

Can you direct me to the sign up sheet?