Fusteration

[falconwithin]

I've spent most of the past year sleeping with a guy who would give me part of what I crave in sex. We never had a real commitment though. Now I'm dating this other guy and I'm starting to doubt that he'll be well much of a dominant. It fusterates me to no end. I want some one who I don't feel like a freak for desireing what I do. But at the same time I really like this guy. I just am not sure how to bring it up to him.

 

[Etoile]

That was somewhat vague, which is probably why you haven't had responses yet. What is it you're afraid he'll find you a freak for?

 

[jva399]

Here is what happend to me!

Maybe you should tell a story about your fantasy to get him started ? I think thats what my wife did when she told me this one. I dont know if it was true or not(I suspect it was tho). It mite be a good way to start him "experimenting " with you if he takes hints easily or just come out & ask him to take charge.
When my wife & I first got married she told me about her roomate & b/f & how she walked in on them.She came into the apartment they rented together one afternoon & her g/friends b/f had her tied & gagged on the bed across some pillows and was plowing her with dildoes.My wife said she watched for quite some time and then snuck back out.She described in detail how her friend had cummed & how wet it made her so I asked what she thought about me tying her like that. Thats what started me into lite bondage with her. We dont practice it much now but when we do she has tremendous orgasms when i tie her tits and spread her wide. She then was submissive to all kinds of anal play & oral. She had no choice & she likes it that way.Submissive in bed is great & she loves to be made to do things she wouldnt ordinarily do.(See attached)

 

[falconwithin]

Sorry it was so vague. I was really tired when I posted that. I really don't know how to describe it better. I was just fusterated with this guy. But it ended really quick because he got very very clingly and just didn't have the patience for it. It doesn't really matter cause I'm back with the guy I was with to begin with. We talked about trust and such and I had come to realize that my problem with the second guy was that I just don't trust him very much. And that I trusted the guy I had been sleeping with to listen to me when I needed him to ease up or when I wanted more. So its all happier now..

 

[myinnerslut]

So its all happier now..

glad things are happier... good luck with the guy