Fun in the motor city....
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the wife and i are here always having fun
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we are but your the wrong gender..hehehe
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That was doms reply. I am sassy and he won't have a 3 sum with 2 guys and me. But I am willing to have a 3 sum with 2 girls and a guy. Doesn't seem fair now does it? Its a fantasy of his to have 2 women and a hugh fantasy of mine to have 2 guys. So if it was up to me I would love to have you help us out. Maybe my husband will allow this once he gets his 2 women. Its only fair right hehe.
See ya Sassy
That was doms reply. I am sassy and he won't have a 3 sum with 2 guys and me. But I am willing to have a 3 sum with 2 girls and a guy. Doesn't seem fair now does it? Its a fantasy of his to have 2 women and a hugh fantasy of mine to have 2 guys. So if it was up to me I would love to have you help us out. Maybe my husband will allow this once he gets his 2 women. Its only fair right hehe.
See ya Sassy
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I will let you know. We are supose to have a 3 sum FFM in Nov. Just getting to know the girl on the phone and computer right now. I really like the girl but in the back of my mind I am scared she maybe just what my hubby wants. I have in the past been a very jealous wife. I was hoping to get over that but the more they chat on the computer I become scared. He talks more to her about his likes and dislikes. SO this is something I have to work through. Any suggestions from any married females who have had a 3 sum FFM? How did you handle watching your hubby do things to another women?
Sassy
I will let you know. We are supose to have a 3 sum FFM in Nov. Just getting to know the girl on the phone and computer right now. I really like the girl but in the back of my mind I am scared she maybe just what my hubby wants. I have in the past been a very jealous wife. I was hoping to get over that but the more they chat on the computer I become scared. He talks more to her about his likes and dislikes. SO this is something I have to work through. Any suggestions from any married females who have had a 3 sum FFM? How did you handle watching your hubby do things to another women?
Sassy
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The thing is I don't find pain fun in sex. I know the girl we may have this 3 sum with wouldn't do anything I don't want done. But its still a scary thing. I am affraid he may find her better in bed. I think you saw the thread I started in the general thread. If not read it to find out more. Its called need advice please. But thanks for the tip. Hope to see you soon.
Sassy
The thing is I don't find pain fun in sex. I know the girl we may have this 3 sum with wouldn't do anything I don't want done. But its still a scary thing. I am affraid he may find her better in bed. I think you saw the thread I started in the general thread. If not read it to find out more. Its called need advice please. But thanks for the tip. Hope to see you soon.
Sassy
Re: re: let you know
Sorry, I should of been clearer, I meant Dom in a kind of cruise director sort of way. You know, you go here, I'll go here, he does this. This way, you seem to be the one in power and we all know that power is sexy.
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Sorry, I should of been clearer, I meant Dom in a kind of cruise director sort of way. You know, you go here, I'll go here, he does this. This way, you seem to be the one in power and we all know that power is sexy.
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lol power is sexy but I like power to work both ways lol. 50/50
I love it when he has the power allot and I love to have some power to hehe. You are to funny. I am really enjoying the treads. I am glad my hubby got me involved.
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lol power is sexy but I like power to work both ways lol. 50/50
I love it when he has the power allot and I love to have some power to hehe. You are to funny. I am really enjoying the treads. I am glad my hubby got me involved.
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I would feel like shit if I gave her the power. But I feel like I couldn't have the power with her around. Even though I know she would like it if I did. I would just feel like I am doing something wrong. Or would worry that she wouldn't like it. My hubby would never have a 3 sum MMF. And that bothers me as well. He talks about me being jealous but I am willing to let him have his 3 sum his way. I just have to wonder what it will take to get rid of his jealousy as well. He said he couldn't handle seeing me with another male. I look at it this way I think I am the most jealous person out there so if I am willing he should be will and able as well. Hehe
Sassy
I would feel like shit if I gave her the power. But I feel like I couldn't have the power with her around. Even though I know she would like it if I did. I would just feel like I am doing something wrong. Or would worry that she wouldn't like it. My hubby would never have a 3 sum MMF. And that bothers me as well. He talks about me being jealous but I am willing to let him have his 3 sum his way. I just have to wonder what it will take to get rid of his jealousy as well. He said he couldn't handle seeing me with another male. I look at it this way I think I am the most jealous person out there so if I am willing he should be will and able as well. Hehe
Sassy
Here's a question for ya...
Do you think if he were more open to doing it your way, then maybe you'd be less jealous or uncertain about doing it his way? That maybe some of these fears that he might like her better (ridiculous, he MARRIED you
) Might go away? Point to ponder...
Do you think if he were more open to doing it your way, then maybe you'd be less jealous or uncertain about doing it his way? That maybe some of these fears that he might like her better (ridiculous, he MARRIED you
) Might go away? Point to ponder...domandsassy
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Re: Fair is fair....
he isn't into a male at all. And when I told him the other night that since I am doing this for you I expect you to do the same for me. His answer was then cancel the 3 sum. So its not even in the question. But I am also very bi curous. I just wish there was a way that I could feel very secure with our marrage. He is good at doing things he shouldn't and then me finding out about them. Like he posted a nude picture of me at adult friendfinders the same night I told him I didn't want him to he got out of bed when I went to sleep and did it anyways. I found out the next morning and deleted everything including our membership. And other time he put a nude picture of him in this thread and I found it and he knew I didn't want that either. So its had to get involved in this when in the past he didn't have any respect for me. SO I have allot of issues here as you can see.hippie13 said:
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Re: Here's a question for ya...
Sassy
Yes I know I would be more open if he would agree to the MMF 3 sum. But he said if I have to have that for him to get his then the 3 sum is dropped. But it sucks because I am very bi curous and watching 2 women together turns me on as much as a guy and a girls does.apollides said:Do you think if he were more open to doing it your way, then maybe you'd be less jealous or uncertain about doing it his way? That maybe some of these fears that he might like her better (ridiculous, he MARRIED you
Sassy
Hmmm...
You could always set up a rule where the two guys didn't have to interact in the MMF 3 some. I mean, they're both there for YOU, right? This is YOUR fantasy we're talking about. That doesn't mean he has to be sexually active with the guy. Maybe if you tried to set something up like that, he'd be more relaxed. One guy could take the high road, so to speak, while the other...well, I probably don't need to paint you a picture (Incidentally, if he goes for that, I'm also in MI...)
You could always set up a rule where the two guys didn't have to interact in the MMF 3 some. I mean, they're both there for YOU, right? This is YOUR fantasy we're talking about. That doesn't mean he has to be sexually active with the guy. Maybe if you tried to set something up like that, he'd be more relaxed. One guy could take the high road, so to speak, while the other...well, I probably don't need to paint you a picture (Incidentally, if he goes for that, I'm also in MI...)
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Re: Hmmm...
That would be a great salution. But my husband can't except me with another man. Thats where the problem lies. I told him he didn't have to touch the guy. But he said he don't think he could handle another guy touching me. Thats where the problem lies. I am a very jealous wife as well and I am not sure how I could handle another woman touching my husband. But I think I could except it better if I knew I was going to get the same thing done to me if you know what I mean lol. Oh by the way thanks for the offer. If it ever comes up to where he will give in I will pm you
Also you all are so great thanks for helping me through this. Its nice to have people to talk to. exspecially ones that won't judge you on the kinds of things I likes. hehe
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That would be a great salution. But my husband can't except me with another man. Thats where the problem lies. I told him he didn't have to touch the guy. But he said he don't think he could handle another guy touching me. Thats where the problem lies. I am a very jealous wife as well and I am not sure how I could handle another woman touching my husband. But I think I could except it better if I knew I was going to get the same thing done to me if you know what I mean lol. Oh by the way thanks for the offer. If it ever comes up to where he will give in I will pm you
Also you all are so great thanks for helping me through this. Its nice to have people to talk to. exspecially ones that won't judge you on the kinds of things I likes. hehe
Sassy
Awww, yer welcome!
This guy has a serious double-standard problem if he's only willing to take without giving. If both of you aren't willing to budge a little on this topic, I don't see how the outcome could be anything but bad. maybe you oughta re-think this. As Yogi Berra might say, "It's no fun if no one's having fun."
This guy has a serious double-standard problem if he's only willing to take without giving. If both of you aren't willing to budge a little on this topic, I don't see how the outcome could be anything but bad. maybe you oughta re-think this. As Yogi Berra might say, "It's no fun if no one's having fun."
