'Full' balls

[sutherngent985]

Yes, poor Harry.

Notice . . . no man has answered my question and it was a legit one. I mean... what do they "feel" when their about to come? Do their balls "boil" ? Do they feel anything besides the tightening of the sack?

Guys are always asking us what we feel like... can't they share? *looks imploringly at the males and waits*

I dont feel it when my sack tightens up...mine tends to be pretty snugged up normally. Now if they hang down I will be aware of that...I just got over the flu and when I was running a fever my nuts would be hanging far away from my body...its not a comfortable feeling, at least for me.

As far as what I feel when I come...it starts as a tension buildup way back below the base of my cock. The closer I get, the more intense it is. Then I get that "Im gonna come" feeling which is the point of no return. The whole time Im tensing up my groin to hold it back then the tension releases and theres a second of nothing, then my orgasm hits and I feel my semen rushing out of the tip. I dont feel it rushing up my cock, but right at the tip as it squirts out. The longer I can tense up and hold it back, the more intense the explosion is.

As far as what I feel in my balls then, nothing really. They are sensitive and respond very well to caresses then but they dont jerk or anything when I come.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

I hope that answers your question Red.

MJL

Thank you very much. It does. I appreciate you taking the time to detail what's going on in your body when all this is occurring. I can write about a female orgasm a lot easier than a male orgasm, but now with the honest feedback, I'll feel more confident writing a male one. I've written some, but honestly, it is something I don't go into a lot of detail, because... let's face it... I'm not male.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

As far as what I feel in my balls then, nothing really. They are sensitive and respond very well to caresses then but they dont jerk or anything when I come.

Thanks sutherngent. You input is helpful too. Everyone's has been. I may have to write a man's orgasm after all this... granted once my muse returns to me.

 

[David_C]

I can write about a female orgasm a lot easier than a male orgasm...

Well Red - here is a challenge. Lets have a description of a female orgasm - the real story of what physically happens and also the sensations experienced.
The female orgasm is a mystery to most of us guys!

 

[somberReality]

Actually, I boil my balls every other Wednesday. I find that it helps keep them fresh and sterile, and it helps get them ready for when they do actually fill up!

Lmao!! Tape that, I wanna see that!

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Well Red - here is a challenge. Lets have a description of a female orgasm - the real story of what physically happens and also the sensations experienced.
The female orgasm is a mystery to most of us guys!

Oh, I walked into that one. lol.

Okay, give me some time. I'll do my best to describe my own. Right now I'm hopping up and down around the house. But I'll write something up as best I can using my own experiences.

There are different types though... orgasms with toys, with fingers, with a partner's tongue, cock, fingers... So many choices.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Duh on me....

I wrote this: My Take on Writing the Female Orgasm - - - I'll have to reread it and see if there is something I didn't use that relates to my own. lol...

 

[David_C]

Interesting reading, but what we need is the nitty gritty without simile and metaphor. Where does the orgasm sensation start? When? How long does it last? Where in the body do you experience it? Does the sensation throb in time to your contractions?

 

[Jenny_Jackson]

Red,
The male orgasm is pretty easy. At the beginning of sexual excitement, the vena cava (sp?) or chambers in the penis fill with blood. The arteries that normally drain the blood fromt he penis close off (that's exactly what Viagra does for guys) when keeps the penis erect.

As the setting proceeds to intercourse (or bj or masturbation) the head of the penis (Glans) is stimulated and the scrotum (Nut Sack) shrinks and presses the testicles against the lower groin.

At the moment of ejaculation, the scrotum is known to further contract sometimes along with the pelvic muscles and buttocks, forcing the ejaculate out through the urethra.

Generally, there is little or no sensation in either the testicles or scrotum during ejaculation any more than in the rest of the lower body.

The nuts don't suddenly begin to burn or any of that crazy shit, I've seen written on Lit.

 

[sr71plt]

Much of anyone's sensation during sex is pyschological--one "size" doesn't fit all, so any one description would be for a specific person. And for this very reason, I rarely get that detailed in these descriptions in an erotic story. What I try to do (in most cases) is to have the greatest possibility for the reader to personalize the read (which is why most of my stories are written in the first person). I want them to get off to my story, not enter medical school.

 

[David_C]

The arteries that normally drain the blood fromt he penis close off ...
...scrotum (Nut Sack) shrinks and presses the testicles against the lower groin.

At the moment of ejaculation, the scrotum is known to further contract sometimes along with the pelvic muscles and buttocks, forcing the ejaculate out through the urethra.

JJ - I agree with most but not the quoted bits above.

Arteries supply blood - it is veins that drain it back.

The scrotum may shrink for some men, but in others, like myself, there is no change. Mine only shrinks in cold weather.

My scrotum and testicles do not tighten at ejaculation. Even if they did, they could play no part whatsoever in expelling semen through the urethra. The seminal fluid is stored elsewhere. I believe some eunuchs could get erections and ejaculate semen even though their balls were miles away. They were in big demand in the harems!

 

[David_C]

I want them to get off to my story, not enter medical school.

I agree, but I think the 'getting off' is enhanced if the description of the orgasm actually conveys what it feels like. I have witnessed many female orgasms, but I have no idea what they feel like. They seem so much more powerful than a male orgasm, and certainly last a lot longer. It would be so wonderful to switch with a woman having an orgasm. I am sure women would enjoy a male orgasm too...

Maybe Lit should run a competition to see who can write the best description of an orgasm?

 

[sr71plt]

but I think the 'getting off' is enhanced if the description of the orgasm actually conveys what it feels like.

In general terms, perhaps, but I don't think to the detail being pressed on this thread. Again, I usually want the reader to personalize the erotic feeling--to the extent that it isn't valid for either what they do feel or would like to think would arouse them, I think the reader is lost to the story.

This is fiction, this is fiction, this is fiction.

 

[sr71plt]

For an example of what I try to do with this, see my "Licorice-Centered Milk Chocolate," which was written to try to transcend the differences in what the male and female feel (sort of a "sex is sex is sex" exercise). I wanted to limit the detail to the extent that the reader wasn't sure whether the receiver was male or female, could make their personalized choice, and could still feel it was hot. I was sabotaged in where it was posted here at Lit. (I submitted it to "Erotic Coupling," but it was posted to "Gay Male," I presume because that's what most of my stories are.) I posted it to a couple of straight-only sites, though, and they didn't seem to notice it could also be GM.

 

[bourbonslut]

Yeah ok. First of all, when referring to boiling, its his semen being referred to, not his balls.

I sometimes feel my scrotum tighten, sometimes not. When I ejaculate, it feels hot. I can usually feel the semen travel the last few inches and it has a hot feel to it. Each spurt feels hot. I seldom masturbate but during oral, vaginal or anal sex my semen, once ejaculated feels hot to me as I continue to thrust away.

During particularly intense orgasms, the feeling of pleasure spreads outwards from my cock. Down my thighs, up my stomach and around to my butt. The longer it lasts, the better and more intense it gets. It seems to me, that the more intense it is, the hotter my cum feels when I ejaculate.

While I am not alone in this feeling, not every guy feels this. I suppose it is all in how your brain interprets the feeling of your orgasm and subsequent ejaculation. I have to say that during ejaculation without orgasm I do not get the hot feeling. This is most likely to happen if just before orgasm I stop or my partner stops what they are doing.

If for example, I am receiving oral and am just about to orgasm and ejaculate, they stop giving me oral, pause a moment and then proceed with just their hands. For this reason, I would much prefer a simple handjob if she is not going to let me cum in her mouth. I am fortunate my partner gives me that and works hard to give me the best orgasm she can that way. Naturally, I reciprocate.

I hope that answers your question Red.

MJL

This is very useful!

I've been told to maintain gentle but continuous contact at the point of male orgasm until slightly after the ejaculation when giving oral. Helps keep the 'wave' going so to speak!

 

[sutherngent985]

This is very useful!

I've been told to maintain gentle but continuous contact at the point of male orgasm until slightly after the ejaculation when giving oral. Helps keep the 'wave' going so to speak!

Thats 1 trick but I would say let him tell you when to stop the stimulation...for me once the last spurt is done, Im done except for maybe some aftershocks. Its been said to me that a womans clit, once her orgasm is over, is very sensitive. A mans glans is just the same so be very gentle with it.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Interesting reading, but what we need is the nitty gritty without simile and metaphor. Where does the orgasm sensation start? When? How long does it last? Where in the body do you experience it? Does the sensation throb in time to your contractions?

I had to work today, so I couldn't write an actual experience. I will sometime, when I have a few free minutes and the umph to write. Right now... I just got home. I'm hungry; tired; and my toes are sore. lol

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Red,
The male orgasm is pretty easy. At the beginning of sexual excitement, the vena cava (sp?) or chambers in the penis fill with blood. The arteries that normally drain the blood fromt he penis close off (that's exactly what Viagra does for guys) when keeps the penis erect.

As the setting proceeds to intercourse (or bj or masturbation) the head of the penis (Glans) is stimulated and the scrotum (Nut Sack) shrinks and presses the testicles against the lower groin.

At the moment of ejaculation, the scrotum is known to further contract sometimes along with the pelvic muscles and buttocks, forcing the ejaculate out through the urethra.

Generally, there is little or no sensation in either the testicles or scrotum during ejaculation any more than in the rest of the lower body.

The nuts don't suddenly begin to burn or any of that crazy shit, I've seen written on Lit.

I know how it comes and all, it was the feelings I were curious about. Some men are different, so I can't believe that there is little to no sensation, since several guys have claimed they feel something.

I do think the men are cheated as far as their climax goes. Mine are quite colorful. I'll actually "see" sheets of color behind my lids. I know folks don't want metaphors and flowery words, but honestly, when I come, if it is a good one, I really will see lights, red, yellow, white. It's like an explosion deep inside and it builds up, recedes, builds up again, when I finally come, my body tightens, all my joints go stiff, my toes curl and it really is like liquid heat flowing through me and colors just flow.

I'll try to get a more "technical" explanation later. Really my feet are sore. l'm off for the night.

Thanks again, everyone.

 

[Rendclaw]

When I am close to orgasm (more by my own hand after my partner has been sated than anything my partner is doing to me, not for lack of trying), I liken it to standing on the tracks in the path of an oncoming train. The sensations change, and then they slowly grow more and more intense as the "train" gets closer.... I almost feel the air still around me as they intensify more and more, and then the "train" hits me... Every muscle in my body spasms as the orgasm slams into me at what seems like a thousand miles an hour, hundreds of cars following behind the engine in what seems like and endless stream of ecstacy..

And then the last car passes through me and I am tumbling along the tracks in its wake, my body convulsing in strong aftershocks (One lover thought I was having a seizure). For a short time I cannot stand to be touched anywhere, as it feels like my nerve endings are poking out of my skin. And some of the time (not by design, either) I literally pass out for about 10-15 minutes, as if my body is rebooting itself.

On those rare occasions where the physics are right and I am with a partner that I can climax with during intercourse, those same sensations are intensified by a factor of 10.

 

[David_C]

...and Rendclaw appears to be male. Wow - thats a hell of an orgasm!

 

[Rendclaw]

Yeah, I'm male... I have noticed that my partners either worry about it or they welcome and encourage it... Even though I am dominant, when I am in that state, I feel about as vulnerable as I did when I came out of the womb 38 years ago... although I should amend something: When I am in that state, I can be touched it needs to be a very firm touch, because light touches only make me careen out into space even more... There are times I need to be held tight, because I get afraid that I am going to just float away and dissipate into nothingness..

Up until this started happening I used to envy women's ability to be multi-orgasmic. I think I would lose my mind if these feelings came over and over again...

 

[David_C]

...I used to envy women's ability to be multi-orgasmic. I think I would lose my mind if these feelings came over and over again...

I would love to be multi-orgasmic. When I was young I could come 3 maybe 4 times in a row with the same erection, but unfortunately that ability soon faded away.
The first orgasm would produce the spectacular semen fountain, but following orgasms would be more intense. The final one would have no ejaculation, but would really make my toes curl.

 

[mjl2010]

This is very useful!

I've been told to maintain gentle but continuous contact at the point of male orgasm until slightly after the ejaculation when giving oral. Helps keep the 'wave' going so to speak!

Sometimes afterwards, I need it to stop and I mean right now. Just stop already. Other times I want it to keep going and never end. It all depends on something but I don't know what. As someone else said, let the guy say when to stop.

Men are capable of multiple orgasms. Every so often I get lucky and have had them. The second and third are amazing. Had a fourth once and thought I died. She couldn't touch me for twenty minutes after that. Even her breath on my skin was too much. The wicked lass thought it funny to suddenly grab my nipple with her teeth. I thought I was being electrocuted.

Married that woman. Smartest thing I ever did.

MJL

 

[vices2habits]

Inquiring minds want to know

Do men really feel the cum "boiling" ? ? ? Inquiring minds want to know.

As I've always understood it, the metaphor is analogizing orgasm to "boiling over," not to "boiling"... as in reaching 212 degrees Fahrenheit.

When "boil" (or one of its derivations) is used to denote a preliminary pre-orgasm state, it is pointing towards the impending and inevitable boil-over point... impending and inevitable, that is, unless the source of heat is removed. ;-)

 

[vices2habits]

Red,
The male orgasm is pretty easy... < snip >

...

At the moment of ejaculation, the scrotum is known to further contract sometimes along with the pelvic muscles and buttocks, forcing the ejaculate out through the urethra.

<snip>

Version One

He held her tightly... it was the moment of ejaculation, and his scrotum contracted further along with his pelvic muscles and buttocks, forcing his ejaculate out through the urethra.

[She yawned, scratched her backside and changed the channel to C-SPAN. ed. note]

Version Two

He held her tightly... sensing the joyous boil-over welling deep within his loins, he drove it home and shuddered as the hot blasting jets of wetness racked his body and made them one.

The male orgasm may be easy to describe clinically, but erotically is another thing altogether.