Fuck These Self-Deprecating and Physical Bashing Threads: Sexy is as Sexy Does

[lavender]

 

[BigDawg69]

Interesting points, darlin', I say I do agree with some, and not so much with others. But then I've been told that I'm a few card short of a full deck.

Hehehehehe You know I's just kiddin ya about the whole "darlin'" bit. It is a good post, and you make some very valid points.

 

[Astro]

HAIL lavender speaker of the hidden truth.

btw that means I agree with lavender.

Sexy people shine light bulbs on a dark night.

 

[Rambling Rose]

I feel pretty ~ oh so pretty ~ I feel pretty and witty and gay!

(oh and Lavy? You are indeed a beauty. Inside and out. Beautiful woman. Beautiful, woman. )

 

[lavender]

 

[J.B.]

Sexiness is an attitude. Being sexy is in the mind. Being sexy is in your character, it's in your personality. You can lose all the weight you want, you can add 5 inches to your height, you can get bigger breasts, you can make your ass smaller, or get longer legs. you can get a nose job, or a boob job, you can color your hair. Does this change your sexiness? Fuckin' hell NO it doesn't.
Because until you change your mindset, until you tap those braincells that make you think sexy, and feel sexy, and act sexy (by being yourself - a confident version of self) you will go through this same ol' whinin rigamarole (sp?) your whole fucking life.

What she said!!!!!!

 

[estevie]

Good god, the heavens have moved...I agree!

Sexiness is an attitude.

 

[Mz_Scarlett]

Lavy- Thank you for preaching it like it is! It is so easy to get wrapped up in what the media tells us what we should be instead of tapping into the beauty within us. You are such an inspiration! Thank you for giving me a reminder of what's what

Mad love to you girlfriend!
Scarlett

 

[Tim1]

ooooo

"Every last Mother fucking one of us"? I think not. Not this Mother fucker thank you.

I didn't post on any of those Fat threads i don't think. But if I did, I'm sure I didn't bash fat or ugly or skinny or hairy or fat heads or anything else women.

Anybody that has half a brain knows that "Sexy as Sexy does"

Thats why SOME MEN like fat women and some women like beer bellied men with no fucking hair.

I know of a guy who likes women with as much hair on their body as possible.

Oh what the fuck, Let people decide for themselves what is sexy or not.


I don't like being lumped in with EVERY FUCKING ONE OF YOU.

DO YOU?????? Huh

 

[floridaguy64]

Hey LAV.........

My sentiments almost exactly!

To me........ Pam Anderson......... a celbrity, yes!...... Sexy.........not anymore!

The lady next door to me........... a supermodel?....... not by a long shot!...... Sexy?, Oh HELL Yeah!

Life is how you live it, carry yourself within it, and be willing to be judged by your actions while doing it! (Copyrighted by me.....LOL)

Just be yurself........... don't prejudge.......... LIVE!!!!!!!! , ENJOY,........... EPERIENCE THE PLEASURES LIFE HAS TO OFFER...................................DAYUMNNNNNIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[lavender]

Re: ooooo

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Sexy is in the mind. It's in the way you carry yourself. It's in your actions.

I never really felt sexy untill I meet my SO and he helped me with a few self asteem issues.

Ok, I was always being told by guys before hand that I was sexy but deep down I never really believed them....

 

[Desert Amazon]

 

[patient1]

Lavender & Blushing Rose
You're so entrancing, I feel like leaping & dancing, for joy!

 

[Rambling Rose]

A hellcat-on-acid? Haven't we morphed before?

 

[Hamletmaschine]

(((Snip)))
Now I'm accepting that I'm a work in progress and that not only do others often project an image onto me that isn't real, I've projected an image onto myself that isn't, and it's time to let go of it. I invite you to take the time to do the same. No matter how busy your life is, no matter how many bills you've got to pay, or responsibilities you've got to handle, set aside time to make sure you're on the path to allowing yourself to be who you want to be--mentally and physically.

(((Snip)))

I was with you until you and rose started singing musical numbers.

Seriously, though, I think the crux of the biscuit is in the above-quoted paragraph. I don't ever want to be me. I like the adventure of becoming me too much.

Thanks, Lavy.

(I think you're sexy as hell, too, for what that's worth.)

 

[Rambling Rose]

patient1, you romantic fool. You need to be thrown into a great big cuddle puddle and smothered with love sauce.

Such a charmer, oy.

 

[Desert Amazon]

 

[Rambling Rose]

Fuck, we're all sexy! We're here in this fucking den of smut, aren't we?

(trying to out-'fuck' lavender is exhausting!)

 

[lavender]

 

[tigerjen]

There are many degrees of what people find sexy, but
I feel that personality plays a huge part in how people
portray themselves (in terms of sexy). I agree with
lavender's stmt. about sexy is about the attitude.....its
true......

I also say that sexy is about respect.....and high self
esteem.......there's food for thought for ya!

tigerjen

 

[kiwiwolf]

You have a way with words Lavender... neat, sweet and to the point. This is confirmation of something I have been thinking and believing for a long time. Sexiness is where you find it. It may be a look, an attitude or the way someone talks. the physical is over emphasised.

With the recent proliferation of porn threads on the board, I will use porn stars as an example. They are held up as icons of sexiness. In my humble opinion you need to look a long way in the porn community to find real sexiness. The bulk of these big stars have been under the knife so many times that they probably have no recollection of what a natural body feels like. How could you find cuddling up to a container of silicone sexy?

Sexiness is an attitude and security in the knowledge of who you are.

 

[Desert Amazon]

 

[lavender]

 

[Tim1]

Lav

Well since the typed word is a little hard to wade through sarcasm vs serious shit, then I'll temper my caustic rebutal.

I too spew shit if youv'e read any of my shit. This should be in the SHIT thread. I edit sometimes because my spelling is so crappy and i know some people are such sticklers on that. Not that my smart assed remarks are anything great, i just like to make em.

Spew and type as fast s you can. I did read all of your thoughs even though my finger got tired of scrolling down.

I guess some of it you ment and some you didn't. Doesn't matter, i just never liked being lumped in with all the other Mother fuckers. Oh well, I'm going to find me a sexy fat girl with a big nose and hairy pits and smelly breath.