Black_Bird
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"WHEN TWO BODIES MAKE LOVE, THEY MAKE A PROMISE TO EACHOTHER; A PROMISE THAT SHOULD BE KEPT. IT DOESN'T MATTER IF YOU DIDN'T SAY THE WORDS! YOU MADE A PROMISE TO ME, DAVID."
Fuck Buddies.
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Silverluna
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huh what? what movie? *hugs Bb * its ok hon...we're getting you the help you need right now.....*grins*
Black_Bird
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perky_baby said:
Yes, I know. You love me anyway.
Smooth_Operator
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do fuckbuddies work? I dunno if I could do the fuck part and keep the emotions on the buddy level.
Black_Bird
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I know I couldn't.
Silverluna
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i think things would definatly be strained at best between two people....I love my buddies...I wouldn't want to loose them because of a few wild hormones....
floridaguy64
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Smooth_Operator said:
Emotional entanglement does make for a strange bedfellow now, doesn't it? At this point in my life, I'd be ever so happy to settle for a snuggle buddy... Had one once, she married my best friend. Dayummmmmn what a loss! Weekends have never been the same!
floridaguy64
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floridaguy64 said:
Someone that you are so cumfy with, enjoy snuggling up with, yet never actually take the relationship past a platonic one... everyone deserves a snuggle buddy!
X2 = 1 dozen, For all the ladies of Lit, my present to you one and all...
Smooth_Operator
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well, if anyone has any suggestions on psychological tips for avoiding attachment, I'd love to hear 'em. I'm desperate for a shag, and have offers, but my emotions are too f-ed from my somewhat recent longterm relationship breakup to even consider getting into a new romance.
floridaguy64
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Smooth_Operator said:
I'd have to say "talking to eachother beforehand" might work... I've been there... honesty of feelings upfront works.
If all else fails, take a hike to the local singles hangout (meat market), if all you want is a 'shag'... Personally though, I've never been able to jump in the sack with a woman that I didn't have some sort of emotional tie with. Even if that tie was a "friends first" one. Be patient, life tends to have a way of mating people together that 'belong' together.
Black_Bird
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Smooth_Operator said:
Become an emotionally dead asshole... can't be that hard; there's so many of them.
Black_Bird
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perky_baby said:
Nah, I wouldn't either. I just think there are far too many who are...
That, and it sounded cool to say at the time.
