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toshiskitten

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I hate it when someone tries to get me horny when I don't wanna be but when we hang up or log off or whatever I get really horny and no one is there to take care of it. It's like when I'm not horny all these guys try to get me horny but when I am they're all busy. It's annoying and puts me in a bad mood. Anyone else go through that?
 
Yep I think most people go through the same thing a fair bit. For a dude it s even more frustrating as it harder to come on here a request a lady to help out.

What i mean by that is far easier for a lady on here to get some1 to help her out.

Damn right its even more frustrating when I'm all hot and horny and the bloody time difference makes thing even worse lol
 
Yes

I am very often frustrated by those that say they want to play and or hook up and then just quit communicating. I get excited just to be left wondering and struggling......So huggs and the hope that you will be satisfied when it is right for you.

Dad:devil:
 
I am very often frustrated by those that say they want to play and or hook up and then just quit communicating. I get excited just to be left wondering and struggling......So huggs and the hope that you will be satisfied when it is right for you.

Dad:devil:

Good point, that happens a lot too!
 
Yes

So true, playmates are very hard to find. Would love to find an online or offline connection. To share with.

Dad:):devil:
 
I think another thing that's important is to actually have a simple converstation with someone before jumping into the topic of sex. I have friends that I've met here that I still talk to because when they call it's not just about sex. We talk about other things too. Most of the time I end up horny. I don't like being viewed as a booty call. I get to know who I talk to before I do anything sexual with them and it's only over the phone so I know I'm being safe.
 
I think another thing that's important is to actually have a simple converstation with someone before jumping into the topic of sex. I have friends that I've met here that I still talk to because when they call it's not just about sex. We talk about other things too. Most of the time I end up horny. I don't like being viewed as a booty call. I get to know who I talk to before I do anything sexual with them and it's only over the phone so I know I'm being safe.

Other types of chat help, as it makes it more comfortable.
And yeah the whole booty-call thing I have had that happen too and it pisses me off. Im not some kind of preforming animal :mad:

Anyway off now to try a new linux distro :cool:
 
All the bleeding time sometimes she even gets herself off then leaves me to die of the blue-ball syndrome. :(
 
I';ve had this problem a bit as well, I like more than just sex sex sex, I mean sure the dirty talk can be fun but if you dont know the person than whats the point.

But yes Ive found the, not getting horny problem before too, only to get like it afterwards, frustrating doesnt even begin to cover it
 
Frustration

I wish I knew that frustration. My frustration is different. I can't seem to find a female interested in PM, IM or commincation of any kind. The ratio here seems to be 10 to 20 men for every female. Then it doesn't seem that many of the females are interested in communication of any kind. I've about given up.
 
I can't speak for all women but I know that I would love it if a guy was more interested in what I had to say instead of what turns me on. That is a huge turn off. Also it's hard to find guys around my age on here. I'm 19 and most of the guys in my age group only have one thing on their mind. I'm not saying all of them do just most of the ones I've talked to. Sex and cumming seem like a chore now. It's like I have to do it in order for a guy to continue to talk to me and I have to do it to satisfy those damn urges. I get sick a lot so most of the time I'm not thinking about sex but I'll have phone sex with someone just so I'm not alone. It's kinda sad but I guess it's life.
 
Well reading is kinda solitary, well... unless, maybe you could read a story along with someone, and then talk about the story afterwards, got a favorite story here? What's are you best at cooking?, as in what meal of yours would I have to try?
 
hi again what does the toshiskitten stand for?* mine is lost pussycat will explain if your interested
 
Well reading is kinda solitary, well... unless, maybe you could read a story along with someone, and then talk about the story afterwards, got a favorite story here? What's are you best at cooking?, as in what meal of yours would I have to try?

I'm really good at pasta dishes. The last thing I made was chicken cacciatore and it was really good.
 
hi again what does the toshiskitten stand for?* mine is lost pussycat will explain if your interested

Toshi was my ex boyfriends nicknames and kitten was mine. it's Toshi's kitten. I made this account before we broke up.
 
mine too used to call y ex pussycat and she would tell me at the end of the relationship well your lost..your the lost pussy cat
 
always told her if anything happened to us i would keep the lostpcat going...
have it on my bike and named a hot rod the lost pussycat..
also started a tshirt company called lost pussycat tshirts
 
I can't speak for all women but I know that I would love it if a guy was more interested in what I had to say instead of what turns me on. That is a huge turn off. Also it's hard to find guys around my age on here. I'm 19 and most of the guys in my age group only have one thing on their mind. I'm not saying all of them do just most of the ones I've talked to. Sex and cumming seem like a chore now. It's like I have to do it in order for a guy to continue to talk to me and I have to do it to satisfy those damn urges. I get sick a lot so most of the time I'm not thinking about sex but I'll have phone sex with someone just so I'm not alone. It's kinda sad but I guess it's life.

I certainly relate to the idea and sex and coming seems like a chore. I mean sometimes it's really great, but other times I feel like I have to force myself. But somehow I still want it. I think it's the closeness and connection with another that I'm really craving, and that I tend to try to get that though sex.
 
always told her if anything happened to us i would keep the lostpcat going...
have it on my bike and named a hot rod the lost pussycat..
also started a tshirt company called lost pussycat tshirts
My ex and I have a complicated relationship. It's stressful.
 
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