Friend?

[IrishStarlight]

38 F Ireland, you know what? I just want a friend. Preferably male who's happy to chat about our days our dreams what we want to see in the cinema next... that's all I want for the moment. ️

 

[Myspecialsub]

38 F Ireland looking for her Daddy. I adore dd/lg play and I need my Daddy. I want a man who truly understands what it means, not someone who thinks it's roleplay etc. I want you to truly want to get to know me for us to want each other mind body soul, for you to be my nurturer protector confidante advisor best friend and the only one I want. In return I'll be your good girl I'll worship you. So if you think you could be my perfect Daddy message me!! Xx

Hello! I was interested in reading your personal and posts. I understand your attraction to contradictions. Whilst most would describe me as kind I have a genuine interest in Roman history and their fascination with contradictions and dichotomy. Tease and denial, merciful and cruelty, power and exploitation the paring of opposites in the arena. And I agree wholeheartedly of the importance of two people getting to know one another first.

I tend to follow my initial feelings as I’d like to get to know you more. I’m deeper than most!

I’m an older married Australian man, some prefer the age difference, I respect those that don’t. Some have described as stylish, intelligent, interesting ,engaging and discerning. Intense and demanding at time, gentle and understanding by others. Kind and romantic by others, it depends who the other awakens in me.

Ironically I’m a therapist by profession. I prefer to get into another’s space rather than assume or impose. When a connection and trust exists, walls can crumble barriers disintegrate and resistance transform into blissful surrender. Then the naughtiest exchanges are transformed into beautiful intimate experiences. I have a preference for the Daddy and his girl relationship because of the intimacy love and emotional connection involved.

My experience is that arousal and release are more about a psychological connection with another. Language is critical; the right whisper can drive one insane and crave for more. I’m conscious how the right word from an older man can make a younger woman feel beautiful forever!

I don’t have any blue prints or believe in mechanical roles or rules. Words mean different things to people and some feel let down when their expectations aren’t met. It’s beautifully captured in the myth of Pygmalion who sculpted his perfect woman from marble. When he kissed her lips, but leaves him, because she knows she can never live up to his ideals and fantasy projections.

It’s better to create a safe secure sacred space where either feels free to share secrets fantasies fears hopes and dreams without fear of judgement or expectations. Without a psychological connection respect trust and affection it is soulless and empty experience.

I adore beautiful things things which I savour morsel by morsel grape by grape button by button clasp by clasp. I love sensuality,eroticism, the poetry of Rumi, epicure, cooking, travel, writing and studied Tibetan Buddhism for years. I’ve travelled extensively overseas including most of Europe, the Americas, Asia. I enjoy the psychological aspect aspect of the dynamic, the contradictions, mental twists and creation of desire.

Mental gossamer thread binds are stronger than metal chains.

You’ll respond if feel drawn

 

[IrishStarlight]

EDITED - Scratch that - I want a friend that's it - to ease loneliness that actually hurts. A genuine guy who's not all about that all the time, maybe someone who's lonely like me? ️

 

[Jd19683]

Happy to chat, I’ve been described as a silver fox with a devilish side

 

[Currentlysingle1]

38 F Ireland, you know what? I just want a friend. Preferably male who's happy to chat about our days our dreams what we want to see in the cinema next... that's all I want for the moment. ️

I am 50yr m , unfortunately I am along ways away drop a note sometime if you like to

 

[Sparky74]

There is absolutely nothing wrong with looking for something like that. A friend is a wonderful thing

Completely agree.

 

[Onlyforyou100]

Hi 53 years old married. If you want to chat. I'm a good listener

 

[Currentlysingle1]

Beamine? What is the bdsm test ,thank you for time

 

[kinkyjeff]

EDITED - Scratch that - I want a friend that's it - to ease loneliness that actually hurts. A genuine guy who's not all about that all the time, maybe someone who's lonely like me? ️

Hey Starlight I would love to chat sometime.

 

[Ravinder40]

38 F Ireland, you know what? I just want a friend. Preferably male who's happy to chat about our days our dreams what we want to see in the cinema next... that's all I want for the moment. ️

I like to chat with u, honestly

 

[Introvertdaddy]

EDITED - Scratch that - I want a friend that's it - to ease loneliness that actually hurts. A genuine guy who's not all about that all the time, maybe someone who's lonely like me? ️

Much older and much more able to help ease lonelyness
love to chat