Friend or foe

[Sweepup50]

I am curious as to what other people think about this, when I met the women who would eventually be my wife we were both virgins. A couple of years into our marriage we had a threesome with my best friend that I had known since school and he was also the best man at our wedding. Since then my wife has had a number of sexual encounters with other men whom we barely knew. Sometimes I can be remembering the time I watched my best friend shag my wife and get horny at the thought but as for the other men it just doesn’t work for me. So my question is watching a friend shag your wife is it more exciting than watching someone you know but not very well shagging her.

 

[magicalmoments]

When my wife and decided to start 3'sums we made it a rule that we would only play with strangers. we decided from the start that it was not worth risking existing friendships for a simple "roll in the hay". Nowadays, remembering those encounters with strangers turns me on tremendously. Given we only hooked up with strangers it's probably not surprising. Mind you, some of those strangers became close friends.

 

[Scotchlander]

Being the N°3 many times, I have only been with strangers. Never friends.

But those strangers all became good friends. And many still are to this day.

At least two couples told me they preferred I was a stranger. But also wanted to build a friendship over time. The sex got better the longer we knew each other and the more relaxed we all became.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

I am curious as to what other people think about this, when I met the women who would eventually be my wife we were both virgins. A couple of years into our marriage we had a threesome with my best friend that I had known since school and he was also the best man at our wedding. Since then my wife has had a number of sexual encounters with other men whom we barely knew. Sometimes I can be remembering the time I watched my best friend shag my wife and get horny at the thought but as for the other men it just doesn’t work for me. So my question is watching a friend shag your wife is it more exciting than watching someone you know but not very well shagging her.

Ok So this is what I get out of the situation Austin Powers.

You were both virgins.
Your wife had sex with other men after you were married.
She enjoys your best friend as a sex partner the best ( So far)

End result you will be stuck in a marriage where your wife is out screwing around. There is a few threads with guys like you who have no choice but to say they get turned on by it. I often wonder the wife would say if you wanted to add a woman to the party ?
Or she leaves you for your "Best friend".

GOOD LUCK !