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Sweepup50

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I am curious as to what other people think about this, when I met the women who would eventually be my wife we were both virgins. A couple of years into our marriage we had a threesome with my best friend that I had known since school and he was also the best man at our wedding. Since then my wife has had a number of sexual encounters with other men whom we barely knew. Sometimes I can be remembering the time I watched my best friend shag my wife and get horny at the thought but as for the other men it just doesn’t work for me. So my question is watching a friend shag your wife is it more exciting than watching someone you know but not very well shagging her.
 
When my wife and decided to start 3'sums we made it a rule that we would only play with strangers. we decided from the start that it was not worth risking existing friendships for a simple "roll in the hay". Nowadays, remembering those encounters with strangers turns me on tremendously. Given we only hooked up with strangers it's probably not surprising. Mind you, some of those strangers became close friends.
 
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Being the N°3 many times, I have only been with strangers. Never friends.

But those strangers all became good friends. And many still are to this day.

At least two couples told me they preferred I was a stranger. But also wanted to build a friendship over time. The sex got better the longer we knew each other and the more relaxed we all became.
 
I am curious as to what other people think about this, when I met the women who would eventually be my wife we were both virgins. A couple of years into our marriage we had a threesome with my best friend that I had known since school and he was also the best man at our wedding. Since then my wife has had a number of sexual encounters with other men whom we barely knew. Sometimes I can be remembering the time I watched my best friend shag my wife and get horny at the thought but as for the other men it just doesn’t work for me. So my question is watching a friend shag your wife is it more exciting than watching someone you know but not very well shagging her.
Ok So this is what I get out of the situation Austin Powers.

You were both virgins.
Your wife had sex with other men after you were married.
She enjoys your best friend as a sex partner the best ( So far)

End result you will be stuck in a marriage where your wife is out screwing around. There is a few threads with guys like you who have no choice but to say they get turned on by it. I often wonder the wife would say if you wanted to add a woman to the party ?
Or she leaves you for your "Best friend".

GOOD LUCK !
 
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Ok So this is what I get out of the situation Austin Powers.

You were both virgins.
Your wife had sex with other men after you were married.
She enjoys your best friend as a sex partner the best ( So far)

End result you will be stuck in a marriage where your wife is out screwing around. There is a few threads with guys like you who have no choice but to say they get turned on by it. I often wonder the wife would say if you wanted to add a woman to the party ?
Or she leaves you for your "Best friend".

GOOD LUCK !
OK. So this what i get out of the situation you present in your post, in fact from all of your posts that i have had the misfortune to read.

You have to be the most miserable bastard on Lit. Every post you make is negative, you present yourself as the most joyless person I think I have ever encountered on here.

End result you are going to spend a lifetime alone. I can't imagine there is a woman, or male for that matter, out there with sufficiently low esteem who would consider ever forming a relationship with you. I imagine you will spend your life being angry and bitter and friendless.

I CERTAINLY HOPE SO!
 
OK. So this what i get out of the situation you present in your post, in fact from all of your posts that i have had the misfortune to read.

You have to be the most miserable bastard on Lit. Every post you make is negative, you present yourself as the most joyless person I think I have ever encountered on here.

End result you are going to spend a lifetime alone. I can't imagine there is a woman, or male for that matter, out there with sufficiently low esteem who would consider ever forming a relationship with you. I imagine you will spend your life being angry and bitter and friendless.

I CERTAINLY HOPE SO!
I actually pissed my pants at this. You actually haven't read my posts. If you read my profile I give honest and at times sarcastic responses. I also don't bullshit.
I am far from a miserable person. I have friends both guys and gals I have known for decades and keep in touch often, as in get together not social media. Im also a very known person in my community through volunteer work. Which I extremly enjoy. I also have no problem with women. I enjoy life and the people I'm with
So just because you don't like a few of my posts where perhaps I call guys out. Don't mistake this for being unhappy or lonely.
If you like to discuss further DM me. Unless you need an audience 😘
 
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I actually pissed my pants at this. You actually haven't read my posts. If you read my profile I give honest and at times sarcastic responses. I also don't bullshit.
I am far from a miserable person. I have friends both guys and gals I have known for decades and keep in touch often, as in get together not social media. Im also a very known person in my community through volunteer work. Which I extremly enjoy. I also have no problem with women.
So just because you don't like a few of my posts where perhaps I call guys out. Don't mistake this for being unhappy or lonely.
If you like to discuss further DM me. Unless you need an audience 😘
all i see here is projection and wishful thinking.
 
OK. So this what i get out of the situation you present in your post, in fact from all of your posts that i have had the misfortune to read.

You have to be the most miserable bastard on Lit. Every post you make is negative, you present yourself as the most joyless person I think I have ever encountered on here.

End result you are going to spend a lifetime alone. I can't imagine there is a woman, or male for that matter, out there with sufficiently low esteem who would consider ever forming a relationship with you. I imagine you will spend your life being angry and bitter and friendless.

I CERTAINLY HOPE SO!
I see where you got your panties in a bunch. Your part of the "cheated on husbands who get off on it". Now it all makes sense. Someone needs to get there own house in order before knocking someone else's.
 
Ok So this is what I get out of the situation Austin Powers.

You were both virgins.
Your wife had sex with other men after you were married.
She enjoys your best friend as a sex partner the best ( So far)

End result you will be stuck in a marriage where your wife is out screwing around. There is a few threads with guys like you who have no choice but to say they get turned on by it. I often wonder the wife would say if you wanted to add a woman to the party ?
Or she leaves you for your "Best friend".

GOOD LUCK !
Who is so judgemental on a sex site? Time to reassess...
 
rent free, thank you
Wow ! Good for you. I tell you what. You think I'm such a miserable person I'm going to do you a favor.
Based on your profile and posts you have an issue satisfying your partner. This is what I'm willing to do. You can DM me and I'll give you some pointers on how you can do that. I believe in time working together we can get you at least adequate enough where perhaps she won't even think of another man.
I'll do this free of charge. Something a freeloader like yourself should appreciate.
 
Wow ! Good for you. I tell you what. You think I'm such a miserable person I'm going to do you a favor.
Based on your profile and posts you have an issue satisfying your partner. This is what I'm willing to do. You can DM me and I'll give you some pointers on how you can do that. I believe in time working together we can get you at least adequate enough where perhaps she won't even think of another man.
I'll do this free of charge. Something a freeloader like yourself should appreciate.
I don't think you read very well... I never said anything about you being a miserable person. Maybe you feel that way, and that is why you bag on other so much.
 
So I had a threesome with my buddy and his wife. It was excellent. The next day, he told me he didn't love it because it felt like it was his brother fucking his wife. They have since had a few threesomes with strangers and he likes that much more.
 
rent free, thank you
my bad...
You know what. IT'S MY Bad.

I should apologize. I took this a bit to far. I first would like to say I'm not a fan of "Wife/partner sharing" I got sucked into a few threads. Left a few comments and then started breaking balls. If you guys say your into it for whatever reason, then that's on you. I'll stay out of your threads. Just so you know I would never hook up with a person who has a partner. Unless it's 2 women LOL

I'm outta here !
 
maybe you secretly wanted to be the one your friend was filling? there's no attraction for you to the other randos so it doesn't get you there as much. or you like the fact that your wife was used by someone who means alot to you.
 
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