Freedom of Speech and D/s... How Does It Affect You?

[Arden]

Freedom of Speech.

I often wonder if involvement in D/s might keep some of us from speaking freely. Is it proportionate to the general population? Dominants seem to have no problem speaking their mind. Do some submissives hold back because they fear displeasing their dominant or master? Do some dominants discourage independent thought, or prohibit their submissive from sharing on the boards if their views are not the same?

Does your chosen role in the D/s lifestyle affect your freedom of speech? If so, to what extent?

For some, the fact that they are dominant or submissive seems to have no bearing on their sharing of thought.

What are your feelings?

 

[AngelicAssassin]

... For some, the fact that they are dominant or submissive seems to have no bearing on their sharing of thought.

What are your feelings?

Knowledge is power.

Might seem trite, but why give it away?

When and if i wish, you'll get the no-holds-barred.

For others, i don't make the effort.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

Freedom of Speech.

I often wonder if involvement in D/s might keep some of us from speaking freely. Is it proportionate to the general population? Dominants seem to have no problem speaking their mind. Do some submissives hold back because they fear displeasing their dominant or master? Do some dominants discourage independent thought, or prohibit their submissive from sharing on the boards if their views are not the same?

Does your chosen role in the D/s lifestyle affect your freedom of speech? If so, to what extent?

For some, the fact that they are dominant or submissive seems to have no bearing on their sharing of thought.

What are your feelings?

I think it's fairly obvious from my posts here that I have NO problems speaking my mind and standing up for what I believe is MY truth. Why should my being submissive have anything to do with that? I am a strong, independent woman, with a brain--becoming Sir's submissive didn't flip the off switch. He encourages me to post what *I* think, not some canned version of what *He* thinks.

You may not like what I have to say, but that's alright, because I'm speaking my truth, as we all are. The sig line says it all.

~anelize

 

[Arden]

My apologies, this thread was not meant to be seen as a snub to any one person or group of people.

I am simply interested in finding out how many here may have restrictions placed on them because of their role. I'm trying to learn, not cause any flame wars.

I posted a poll because I thought some might prefer to answer anonymously.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

CUNT!!

*Exercising my freedom of speech*

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

My apologies, this thread was not meant to be seen as a snub to any one person or group of people.

I am simply interested in finding out how many here may have restrictions placed on them because of their role. I'm trying to learn, not cause any flame wars.

I posted a poll because I thought some might prefer to answer anonymously.

Flame wars? *shrugs* I answered your post honestly, in the spirit in which it was written. No offence was taken. Seriously, Arden, don't be so defensive.

~anelize

 

[His Precious]

Thank you for the chance to speak out about this. My Master insists I hold nothing back from him, I am required to say all that I feel like saying, opinions, everything. How can he be the caring Master that he is unless he knows everything about me?
Just being submissive doesn't make you any less of a person. If one is looking for a mind-numbed robot, that sits and waits upon the whims of their master, they might as well have a blow-up doll rather than a person with them. I'd also like to say any doms who do not let their subs speak out as themselves may just be afraid having their power put into question. We sub because that is what we WANT to do. In the end, we are the ones with the actual power.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

My apologies, this thread was not meant to be seen as a snub to any one person or group of people.

I am simply interested in finding out how many here may have restrictions placed on them because of their role. I'm trying to learn, not cause any flame wars.

I posted a poll because I thought some might prefer to answer anonymously.

i didn't take it as a snub, i think you asked everyone their opinion.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

We sub because that is what we WANT to do. In the end, we are the ones with the actual power.

Yeah, that's what he lets you think...



HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!

I allow my submissive the freedom to express herself usually, because it suits me to.

 

[Arden]

i didn't take it as a snub, i think you asked everyone their opinion.

Yep, and you gave a very honest one. I appreciate that!

 

[Arden]

Flame wars? *shrugs* I answered your post honestly, in the spirit in which it was written. No offence was taken. Seriously, Arden, don't be so defensive.

~anelize

I was concerned about the way that I worded the opening post, that's all.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

I was concerned about the way that I worded the opening post, that's all.

Cool. Should prove to be an interesting thread.

~anelize

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

See, this is what happened when you allow submissives to have computers...*shakes head sadly*

 

[Bachlum Chaam]

If one is looking for a mind-numbed robot, that sits and waits upon the whims of their master, they might as well have a blow-up doll rather than a person with them.

Hmmmm Can't stick pins in a blow up doll, not such a resound clap when over your knee either

 

[Bachlum Chaam]

See, this is what happened when you allow submissives to have computers...*shakes head sadly*

Personally I think they are lucky to have shoes

 

[His Precious]

come on Johnny, you know I'm right
it takes a STRONG dom to admit that
but you HAVE to admit it

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

come on Johnny, you know I'm right
it takes a STRONG dom to admit that
but you HAVE to admit it

No, you aren't...but I guess you have the right to express yourself, no matter how silly your ideas are.

Oh, and who are you to tell me what I HAVE to do?

 

[Bachlum Chaam]

come on Johnny, you know I'm right
it takes a STRONG dom to admit that
but you HAVE to admit it

Do behave my Precious be a good girl now, or your punishment will be severe

My apologies Johnny

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Do behave my Precious be a good girl now, or your punishment will be severe

My apologies Johnny

Is that one of your subs, Tim? Can I borrow her for about...5 minutes?

 

[Arden]

Thank you for the chance to speak out about this. My Master insists I hold nothing back from him, I am required to say all that I feel like saying, opinions, everything. How can he be the caring Master that he is unless he knows everything about me?
Just being submissive doesn't make you any less of a person. If one is looking for a mind-numbed robot, that sits and waits upon the whims of their master, they might as well have a blow-up doll rather than a person with them. I'd also like to say any doms who do not let their subs speak out as themselves may just be afraid having their power put into question. We sub because that is what we WANT to do. In the end, we are the ones with the actual power.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, His Precious. I feel the same way that you and Anelize do.



There are also relationships where a submissive or slave is more than happy to allow their posts to be approved first. Allowing that type of control may be something that they embrace within their own relationship. Something that seems extreme to me may be a natural element of the lifestyle for another. In this situation, are they giving up their freedom of speech, or only limiting it by consent?

It is my hope that this thread will bring in many different views on the subject. I look forward to reading everything, and having the chance to learn from it.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Think my position reflects much of what Anelize posted. I have led a full on life where I had little choice about being assertive and independent....was a matter of survival. Added to that I have always had an active mind and had strong views, even political ones, from as far back in memory as 5 yo. Master was looking for a slave who had a mind and did not fear opposing his opinions in some things......we enjoy the discussions and agree to disagree when necessary. Is fun and enriching to say the least.

Edited to add: In posting, he has on occasion wanted to see what I was posting before I posted, mostly to remind me he can, sometimes to protect me....though he may pass comment, he does not forbid me posting anything. Also contrary to what some may believe, I never set out to offend or be rude to anyone, but believe I have an equal right to my opinion and hope others read my words the way they are intended. Sometimes does not happen, but that is not my issue to deal with though I may attempt to explain in the interests of peaceful and productive discussion.

Catalina

 

[Arden]

Bach... as long as you're here, do you have any thoughts on the topic?

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Bach... as long as you're here, do you have any thoughts on the topic?

smiles, and politely applauds the twofer.

 

[Bachlum Chaam]

Sammy sub

Johnny she is THE sub and I was sorely tempted to lend her to you till she sufficiently grovelled

Yes, alas I do insist she uses her mind, she would be of little use otherwise, but as you can tell she does like to push, but I can push harder

Hope that clarifies my ladies position (kneeling)

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

I voted cautiously

My *Owner* (if and when i have one) does not tell me when and where to post. I do, however, believe some things Should Not be discussed in an open forum: ie my personal life, my relationship status etc. It is no-ones business but mine and not up for discussion or debate. If my *Owner* were to want me to announce it (for whatever reason) then of course i would, though i would be extremely uncomfortable about doing so.

I guess this comes from attempting relationships on the net in the past...it does more harm than good.

In my humble opinion, i am a smart female with a tremendous amount of experience in this particular lifestyle choice. Whether i belong to someone or not does not change the basic things that make me...ME. I will be outspoken and rude when called for just because that is how i naturally am. Anyone who prizes those things would be hard pressed to try and convince me that they no longer have worth because i now belong to *Them*

anyway...you have my vote and opinion...
later
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