Free Spirits and Doms

[thelaughingcat]

Surely if you really are a free spirit then you can choose to submit and having thus chosen you remain free even as you investigate the domain under someone else's tutelage. Presumably that's the advantage of being a free spirit, you are free of the shackles of convention and can explore the byways of human nature and human experience without guilt or regret.

This.

You can be a free spirit without ever wandering the earth or refusing to live by someone else's strictures. It's all about compatibility...there are those Dommly types around that see an inability to conform as a strength, rather than a weakness in their sub. It just requires a different way of handling.

My OH doesn't seem to have much problem with it *grins*