Foreplay with men

[openminded_boca]

If we are having sex then my rule is I do not cum until she cums. This is MY rule not hers.

She will cum from me kissing her, massaging her, masturbating her, and sometimes during intercourse.

I am not talking about the times when I just make her cum or visa versa. I love making her cum and NO I do not do it to get something in return.

 

[naamplao]

Personally male foreplay is an age issue.

The younger the male the less foreplay he requires or wants actually. It is just do it....reload...do it. As often as possible.

On the other hand as he matures then it takes longer to get aroused but as a bonus (speaking from experience) he enjoys the foreplay leading to the act and in my opinion the love making sessions last longer and are more satisfying for both partners.

 

[enginr58]

I like the idea of teasing a bit throughout the day. If you know where you're going to end up then nobody gets frustrated. Gentle scratches on almost any body part feels great. My nipples are very sensitive and I enjoy having them played with but not too rough. I think being touched in a sensual manner while I'm still dressed makes me feel wanted and sexy. It doesn't need to be groping, just light brushes and strokes in the right places in a discrete manner. Then by the time you start getting hot and heavy you have to resist ripping each others clothes off; or not; resist that is.
My best advise is to try something and watch for a reaction. Guys don't always talk about it right then so you can bring up the topic later if you want to ask. It's one of those "remember when I did...you seemed to really like that"..kind of talks.
That's my input.

 

[naamplao]

I'll tell you what I found stimulating

It wasn't foreplay in a room...but it was foreplay just the same.

My gf liked to hold hands in public. We would walk down the streets window shopping or whatever holding hands. Then she would pull my hand to her thigh as we walked. I could sense her thigh muscles flex as she walked.

The first time she did it I sort of pulled away as I thought it was an accident...but she pulled my hand back so now I knew it was on purpose. So I would move my hand to the front of her thigh and stroke as we walked. Then the occassional inner thigh/crotch touch.

I am not a public exhibitionist and I don't think anyone else knew it but here I was sort of making love to my gf in broad daylight while walking down the city streets. I would then pull the back of her hand to the every growing buldge in my jeans as we walked.

Very fun, very stimulating and a nice way to let you know that like being with your partner....I think anyway.