Foreplay Techniques!

[ChrisPharmD]

Women, what foreplay techniques do you enjoy most???

 

[Noor]

Women, what foreplay techniques do you enjoy most???

Back rubs are often nice, but it depends on who I am with. It best to ask the particular woman, also watch and listen to her reactions.

 

[subwannabe]

I would have to agree that sometimes the most important part of foreplay to a woman isn't always a sexual thing.

 

[oPENsex]

Women, what foreplay techniques do you enjoy most???

I'll be interested to see what replies you get here. I think I have much too learn.

 

[sweetnsassy1]

I would have to agree that sometimes the most important part of foreplay to a woman isn't always a sexual thing.

This is so true. Depending on the woman, it could be something as simple as cleaning the house before she gets home. If I would come home to find the house clean, dishes done, and a nice dinner on the table, I can guarantee you that, once the kids are in bed, my husband's definately getting some loving attention from me

 

[sunandshadow]

Ooh yeah back rubs/back scratches, also having my cheeks petted kinda like a cat. Listening to a guy read to me or maybe sing. Anything visually awe-inspiring like fireworks, Niagara Falls, an art museum, maybe a fantasy movie. And also sensorially unusual and overwhelming like going to an amusement park, being outside for the start of a summer thunderstorm.

Hmm there's kind of two opposite types of opportunity for a guy to arouse me - if I'm tired I want to be pampered and mostly passive while I'm petted and complimented and kissed. If I have energy then play-wrestling or stalking and pouncing on a guy are more appealing and I'm more likely to want to be the one in charge while the guy begs or competes with me.

 

[ChrisPharmD]

Ooh yeah back rubs/back scratches, also having my cheeks petted kinda like a cat. Listening to a guy read to me or maybe sing. Anything visually awe-inspiring like fireworks, Niagara Falls, an art museum, maybe a fantasy movie. And also sensorially unusual and overwhelming like going to an amusement park, being outside for the start of a summer thunderstorm.

Hmm there's kind of two opposite types of opportunity for a guy to arouse me - if I'm tired I want to be pampered and mostly passive while I'm petted and complimented and kissed. If I have energy then play-wrestling or stalking and pouncing on a guy are more appealing and I'm more likely to want to be the one in charge while the guy begs or competes with me.

This is hot. I have a thing for catgirls. So, I might have to give the cheek thing a try.

 

[ChrisPharmD]

This is so true. Depending on the woman, it could be something as simple as cleaning the house before she gets home. If I would come home to find the house clean, dishes done, and a nice dinner on the table, I can guarantee you that, once the kids are in bed, my husband's definately getting some loving attention from me

Actually, I agree with both of you about that, but my goal was not to seem like foreplay is only bedroom material. My goal was to get little flirty/sexy techniques that I've never thought/heard of before.

Like the petting the cheeks thing is cute. And also small things like simply saying your partners name when together is apparently arousing.

Thanks for the input!!!

 

[thegirth]

Fetch her a cream cake.

 

[WriterDom]

I'd tie her to the bed with nice comfortable wrist restraints. Blindfold her and put in ear plugs. Taking away senses heightens others. Then start sucking her nipples. Maybe pinching one while sucking the other. Just don't be in a rush. After 10 minutes or so start roaming a hand on her soft curves but avoiding her sex. At some point she'll probably ask for either your cock or your tongue. If she doesn't, take out the earplugs, kiss up to her ear, and ask her with a sexy whisper what she wants.

 

[romantic_always]

I love it when I get a surprise backrub too! Also, anytime I get kisses on my neck while in public, it sends a little chill down my spine and makes me super happy

 

[trueloves]

I agree that neck kisses are extremely arousing, even in passing, a little swipe of the lips on the nape of my neck instantly makes my nipples hard. I like to be tickled lightly with a feather also and a back rub is a perfect way to get me going

 

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[deecee53]

I agree that neck kisses are extremely arousing, even in passing, a little swipe of the lips on the nape of my neck instantly makes my nipples hard. I like to be tickled lightly with a feather also and a back rub is a perfect way to get me going

Yummy !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[LibraStud]

When I am feeling frisky, I leave a $50 bill on the nightstand for her as I slip quietly out of the bedroom and head to work. She knows what it means and what to do. She calls me in the morning and the foreplay begins, anticipating an evening of love and lust and sex.

 

[oPENsex]

I agree that neck kisses are extremely arousing, even in passing, a little swipe of the lips on the nape of my neck instantly makes my nipples hard. I like to be tickled lightly with a feather also and a back rub is a perfect way to get me going

I like the feather idea. I think I'll try that

 

[njgirl0863]

Foreplay or Flirtation?

If you are talking about flirting to initiate foreplay...

Well, I think touching is always arousing to the senses. Not in a sexual manner; but a gentle touch on the arm, hand, the lower back just above the ass, or even brushing my hair back with your hand and gently touching my cheek or neck. These are all subtle ways that aren't outright sexually suggestive but are very arousing to the senses as I mentioned before.

A very apparent one that few too people realize is eye to eye contact. Just a blatant stare, eye to eye almost reading each other's minds.

Leaving a note.... three little words: No, not I love you (although that is a good one too), but how about I WANT YOU!!!!

If you wake before her and shower, write her a message on the mirror while it is still steamy, when she gets out of the shower it will reappear.

I could go on, and on and on.

But I don't want to give away ALL my secrets

Good luck!!!

 

[Windflower]

Best foreplay for me, handsdown, is when he tells me earlier in the day, of the ideas he has brewing in his head at that moment - all directly related to how he will enjoy using my body later that night. The way he touches my mind, in this sense, has far more effect than anything he can do to my flesh.

 

[LibraStud]

If you are talking about flirting to initiate foreplay...

Well, I think touching is always arousing to the senses. Not in a sexual manner; but a gentle touch on the arm, hand, the lower back just above the ass, or even brushing my hair back with your hand and gently touching my cheek or neck. These are all subtle ways that aren't outright sexually suggestive but are very arousing to the senses as I mentioned before.

A very apparent one that few too people realize is eye to eye contact. Just a blatant stare, eye to eye almost reading each other's minds.

Leaving a note.... three little words: No, not I love you (although that is a good one too), but how about I WANT YOU!!!!

If you wake before her and shower, write her a message on the mirror while it is still steamy, when she gets out of the shower it will reappear.

I could go on, and on and on.

But I don't want to give away ALL my secrets

Good luck!!!

You take my breath away! I want to know more secrets!

 

[sunnykitty]

nibble on her earlobes, whisper that you can't wait to have her

press into her, let her feel how much you want her

kisses on the nape of the neck

 

[oPENsex]

bump bump

 

[deeteeZA]

In my experience, it takes 5/10/15 minutes to have sex with a woman...

However, it takes all day to make love to a woman!!!

 

[NippleMuncher]

You know, I also like inside jokes. There's something intimate about being in on something together and the people around you have no clue.

Oh, that is so true! My girl and I have several key words that we use in familial and public settings that are inside phrases. Every time we toss one out there we secretly wink at each other with a big smile.

 

[LittlePeter]

Not necessarily a precursor to sexytime but follow the countour with your fingertip from the from just behind the ear and gently over her cheek and follow her jawline to her chin then let your fingers follow down her throat and round the outside of her breast round that really delicious underside, have more fingers involved now but dont touch her nipple, follow her stomach and go just off to the side and down the inside of her hips where her skin is really soft and sensitive then really slow with your hand open and moulded to her shape follow that. have your index and middle fingers just trace the side of her lips, close enough for her to feel the "heat" of your fingers but dont touch directly on her pussy (chances are her legs will open further here but don't dive right in! then follow her thigh and hell why not go back up again, then you get to go back down


Take your time and absolutely adore her and every part you touch, she will too. just stay away from touching the really hot spots for a bit. Works really well lying naked in bed and just as well standing up clothed on the fly or when kissing.

 

[working_girl]

Fetch her a cream cake.

It gets my wife wet!!!

Haha!

Q: How do you get a fat girl into bed?

A: Piece of cake.