Foreplay (Encyclopedia of)

[peterpan]

Ok, I added the last few. That all you got?

Here is what we have compiled so far.

Other categories
· Bondage.
· S&M.
· Water sports.
· Fetish?

With the mouth
· Kissing on the lips
· Kissing the inside of their wrist (also hollows of neck, inside of elbow back of knees?).
· Sucking of nipples
· Blowing on nipples.
· Blowing in the ear
· Light breath on the back of my neck.
· Nibbling an ear.
· Sucking partner’s earlobe
· Caressing of breast.
· Sucking on fingers, either sex
· Sucking on toes
· Nuzzling neck
· Nuzzling crotch.
· Nuzzling.
· Hickies.
· Licking down chest.


Tickling
· Tickling!
· Tickling, with restraints (its my list, ok?)
· stroking the sensitive inside of elbows
· Caressing the backs of knees
· all sorts of foot rubbing games.
· Brushing his body with her hair.

No Contact (including some contact ).
· Text messaging.
· heavy breathing in the vicinity of the opposite sex
· Chasing games.
· Get your naked bodies as close as possible without touching.
· Talking dirty.
· Dancing.
· Undressing your partner.
· Undressing yourself.
· Writing/reading erotica (especially aloud)

Pampering
· Breakfast in bed
· Long periods of attention (eg cook a meal, give a massage, carry upstairs)
· Gifts?
· Money
· Food-related (see food and toys)

Food and toys
· Spoon feeding
· Touching your partner with ice-cubes.
· Feeding with fingers-- The recipient can suck on the feeder's fingers.
· Alcohol
· Deep heat, relieved with ice.
· Having cream smeared on your penis and having your partner lick it off.
· Dripping candle wax (apparently)
· Silk brushed against bare skin
· A soft brush (like a watercolor brush or a powder brush) being brushed up my spine.
· Giving or getting a back massage with velvet gloves.
· MacDonalds

Using hands (excl. tickling)
· Running your fingers through her hair.
· Just holding someone's hand can be fun foreplay ... fingers intertwining, fingers doing suggestive motions, etc.
· Hair pulling
· Nipple pinching/tweaking
· Ear pinching/tweaking, for that matter.
· Massaging tense shoulders
· fingering and hand-jobs
· Let my hands rub up his sides and then rubbing down his chest and stomach before moving my hands away.
· Pressing the hollow just under a woman's knee cap

Using Breasts
· Brushing him with breasts.
· pressing my breasts around his cock and licking the head as it pushes through the top
· Sitting over him as I lean down so my breasts brush his chest, moving so they rub down his body ... keeping eye contact the whole time.

Water related
· shower - wash each other
· hot tub - sit on each other and kiss all wet and sweaty

Masterbation
· Fingering her clit whilst palming her mons.
· Mutual masturbation.
· Watching your partner become aroused.
· Dry Humping! Rubbing outside the clothing!

Roleplay

More elaborate
· Public Displays of Affection.
· Adding fear of discovery to other foreplay.
· Waking partner up with a tongue
· Touching each other in public, secretly
· Touching every part of them, From head to toes
· brushing my breasts against his arm as we walk down the street
· laying one partner down on the bed and touching them, from the tops of their head where you stroke the hair down the face, touching every curve, all the way to the feet. Very sensual.
· For my SO it is being restrained with her tits clamped in the breast clamping whipping bench I made, while I play with her body - subjecting her to torments ranging from - tickling with a feather to a full-blown whipping.
· Drawing his cock along my cheek and across my lips… tickling the inner surface.
· Sitting over his waist and kissing/licking down his chest .. mainly so my long hair can brush down his body.

 

[SlickTony]

missionary, anal, oral and physically improbable

You forgot tit-fucking. I've never done that, myself, not having enough to work with...'course, I guess it would come under the heading of physically improbable, for me.

Of course that's what sex consists of. So? Most bread is made with flour, sugar, salt, water, yeast, and oil, but that doesn't mean it's all alike.

 

[NorthwestRain]

SM, BD, Watersports, to name butt three...

 

[peterpan]

What I am looking for is a list of ideas for forplay. I did not mean to confuse anyone with my sense of humour.

SM. BD, watersports are too broad a definition for what I had in mind. (the first two are practically 'lifestyles')

Ok, here are some examples:
#Kissing on the lips
#Sucking of nipples
#Blowing on nipples.
#Carressing of breast.
#Nibbling an ear.
#Running your fingers through her hair.
#Hair pulling, apparently

These are all pretty much from one category of foreplay I guess You are welcome to widen the category to the sort of foreplay that would happen earlier. They are also pretty cliched. But that is a good place to start. Lets get all the cliches out of our system first.

 

[Chicklet]

carressing the backs of knees

stroking the sensative inside of elbows

sucking on fingers, either sex

sucking on toes wink wink

all sorts of foot rubbing games

heavy breathing in the vicinity of the opposite sex

shower - wash each other

hot tub - sit on each other and kiss all wet and sweaty

hrm now i wanna get into a hot tub...

nuzzling neck, nuzzling anything else

giggle i get on my knees and nuzzle my boyfriends crotch with my face.

nipple pinching/tweaking

ear pinching/tweaking, for that matter.

keep in mind that foreplay is mostly play - i love playing around, giggling...from there it goes into sexual play.

Chicklet

 

[peterpan]

Wonderful!
#chasing games.
#touching her with ice-cubes.
#spoon feeding?
(there is probably a whole category of food-related foreplay)
#blowing in the ear (another 'apparently' )
#tickling is another that in my opinion deserves its own chapter.

 

[Svenskaflicka]

Massaging tense shoulders

Talking dirty

PDA

Dancing

Touching each other in public, with or without anyone else noticing what you're doing

 

[Natural Born Eros]

Life is unfair, Chicklet. If I go anywhere near the inside of elbows/knees, or try and rub feet, I get punched or kicked in reply. I'm assured it isn't malicious, my fiance is just too ticklish. It does severly limit foreplay options, though.

A few others:
Undressing
Writing/reading erotica (especially aloud)
Long periods of attention (eg cook a meal, give a massage, carry upstairs, and the rest you can figure out for yourselves )
Waking partner up with a tongue
Breakfast in bed

And, most effective of all, reaching that happy stage of drunkeness where sex is the only thing left in your mind, and it is remains a physical possibility.

Eros

 

[SlickTony]

#spoon feeding?
(there is probably a whole category of food-related foreplay)

Feeding with fingers--that way, the recipient can suck on the feeder's fingers.

 

[dr_mabeuse]

Excuse me, but this is kind of silly and futile. What you're asking is what can one person do to arouse another, and the list is endless. Besides, isn't that a big part of our job as erotic authors: to find new ways of doing just that?

To reduce foreplay to a list of techniques ignores the most important elements: the internal and external contexts. It's like having a love manual that says "Kiss lips for five minutes, fondle breasts for 90 seconds, stick tongue in ear for 3 seconds, groan, run to fridge for ice cubes..." How sexy is that?

It all depends on what you characters are like and the situation they're in. I tend to be a big one for kissing, because kisses are eloquent, I happen to like them, and because it's one of the few things 2 people can do is both give and take pleasure at the same time. But even then there's an entire spectrum of kiss types. How can you hope to list those? What's the point?

Really, if you can't scme up with a convincing and exciting bout of foreplay without resorting to a list, you're in the wrong business.

---dr.M.

 

[Guest]

Excuse me, but this is kind of silly and futile. What you're asking is what can one person do to arouse another, and the list is endless. Besides, isn't that a big part of our job as erotic authors: to find new ways of doing just that?
---dr.M.

AWWWW! Come on, dr m... don't rain on our parade!

brushing my breasts against his arm as we walk down the street
sucking at his earlobe
drawing his cock along my cheek and across my lips.. tickling the inner surface and giving me chill bumps
pressing my breasts around his cock and licking the head as it pushes through the top

*going to get "inspired" now *

b

 

[Pookie]

The list might be endless .. but I like the list so far!

Actually I have learned a few things reading this thread so far!

A few I like to do ...

Let my hands rub up his sides and then rubbing down his chest and stomach before moving my hands away.

Sitting over his waist and kissing/licking down his chest .. mainly so my long hair can brush down his body.

Sitting over him as I lean down so my breasts brush his chest, moving so they rub down his body ... keeping eye contact the whole time.

 

[Chicklet]

isn't that a big part of our job as erotic authors: to find new ways of doing just that?

personally, I base a lot of my imaginings on what I've done in real life. Since I've only been around for 21 years, and active sexually for only a fraction of that, I haven't done much. I get scared that my writing becomes...repetative...with the foreplay in each story frighteningly similar to that in the last. This is a good list, for things that I'd like to try, and things I'd never considered.

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To Add A Few:

Dry Humping! Rubbing outside the clothing!

fingering and hand-jobs

where do you think Hickies come from?!

laying one partner down on the bed and touching them, from the tops of their head where you stroke the hair down the face, touching every curve, all the way to the feet. Very sensual.

 

[Chicklet]

Really, if you can't scme up with a convincing and exciting bout of foreplay without resorting to a list, you're in the wrong business.

ps - this isn't my chosen "business" <wink wink> just something I do for fun

 

[Weird Harold]

If I go anywhere near the inside of elbows/knees, or try and rub feet, I get punched or kicked in reply. I'm assured it isn't malicious, my fiance is just too ticklish. It does severly limit foreplay options, though

Isn't this why restraints were invented?

 

[Octavian]

Originally posted by Pookie_grrl

Sitting over his waist and kissing/licking down his chest .. mainly so my long hair can brush down his body.

It's all very well for you Pookie_grrl but if you're doing that how can he watch the football on the television?

Octavian
Bearer of the Silver Rose

 

[Pookie]

I thought they made halftimes for certain other activities?

That's partly why I like college football so much. Their haftimes are 15 minutes long. Pro football only has 12 minute halftimes.

How long is halftime for soccer??? I might become a big fan depending on the answer!

Pookie

 

[jon.hayworth]

Isn't this why restraints were invented?

Unfortunately Peter Pan the thread starter sort of placed a ban on the use of S&M and Bondage etc - a real spoilsport pissing on my parade - maybe he's into watersports

For my SO it is being restrained with her tits clamped in the breast clamping whipping bench I made, while I play with her body - subjecting her to torments ranging from - tickling with a feather to a full-blown whipping.

She also enjoys me fingering her clit whilst palming her mons.

jon

 

[karmadog]

Besides, isn't that a big part of our job as erotic authors: to find new ways of doing just that?

More importantly, it's our job as lovers.

Pookie, you should consider becoming a hockey fan: two intermissions for extended foreplay.

The backs of the knees should become less ticklish as sexual arousal heightens. Admittedly, not with everyone, but usually.

Also, it's fun to get your naked bodies as close as possible without touching. Sometimes a certain electricity can build between lovers.

 

[Guest]

Hmmmmmm

Maybe I missed it.......maybe not.

But a wonderful very erotic form of foreplay is mutual masturbation. What a sensual way to start off...by watching your partner become aroused.

Better than any damn movie I've ever seen!

I remain,

 

[Chicklet]

For my SO it is being restrained with her tits clamped in the breast clamping whipping bench I made

the expression on my face is why I can't write for DP

Chicklet

 

[Chicklet]

Re: Hmmmmmm

But a wonderful very erotic form of foreplay is mutual masturbation. What a sensual way to start off...by watching your partner become aroused.

Good One = )

 

[peterpan]

Unfortunately Peter Pan the thread starter sort of placed a ban on the use of S&M and Bondage etc -
...

Hmmm... I hadnt thought about it, but I guess It would swamp this thread if we tried to enumerate all that here. Maybe if people just went to the depth of the various categories of bondage etc.

 

[peterpan]

Summary 1.

Here is what we have compiled so far.

· PDA (personal data assistant?) Not sure I understood that one, Sven...

Other categories
· Bondage.
· S&M.
· Water sports.
· Fetish?

With the mouth
· Kissing on the lips
· Sucking of nipples
· Blowing on nipples.
· Blowing in the ear
· Nibbling an ear.
· Sucking partner’s earlobe
· Caressing of breast.
· Sucking on fingers, either sex
· Sucking on toes
· Nuzzling neck
· Nuzzling crotch.
· Nuzzling.
· Hickies.
· Licking down chest.

Tickling
· Tickling!
· Tickling, with restraints (its my list, ok?)
· stroking the sensitive inside of elbows
· Caressing the backs of knees
· all sorts of foot rubbing games.
· Brushing his body with her hair.

No Contact (including some contact ).
· Text messaging.
· heavy breathing in the vicinity of the opposite sex
· Chasing games.
· Get your naked bodies as close as possible without touching.
· Talking dirty.
· Dancing.
· Undressing your partner.
· Undressing yourself.
· Writing/reading erotica (especially aloud)

Pampering
· Breakfast in bed
· Long periods of attention (eg cook a meal, give a massage, carry upstairs)
· Gifts?
· Money
· See ‘Food-related’

Food-related
· Spoon feeding
· Touching your partner with ice-cubes.
· Feeding with fingers-- The recipient can suck on the feeder's fingers.
· Alcohol

Using hands (excl. tickling)
· Running your fingers through her hair.
· Hair pulling
· Nipple pinching/tweaking
· Ear pinching/tweaking, for that matter.
· Massaging tense shoulders
· fingering and hand-jobs
· Let my hands rub up his sides and then rubbing down his chest and stomach before moving my hands away.

Using Breasts
· Brushing him with breasts.
· pressing my breasts around his cock and licking the head as it pushes through the top
· Sitting over him as I lean down so my breasts brush his chest, moving so they rub down his body ... keeping eye contact the whole time.

Water related
· shower - wash each other
· hot tub - sit on each other and kiss all wet and sweaty

Masterbation
· Fingering her clit whilst palming her mons.
· Mutual masturbation.
· Watching your partner become aroused.
· Dry Humping! Rubbing outside the clothing!

More elaborate
· Waking partner up with a tongue
· Touching each other in public, secretly
· Touching every part of them, From head to toes
· brushing my breasts against his arm as we walk down the street
· laying one partner down on the bed and touching them, from the tops of their head where you stroke the hair down the face, touching every curve, all the way to the feet. Very sensual.
· For my SO it is being restrained with her tits clamped in the breast clamping whipping bench I made, while I play with her body - subjecting her to torments ranging from - tickling with a feather to a full-blown whipping.
· Drawing his cock along my cheek and across my lips… tickling the inner surface.
· Sitting over his waist and kissing/licking down his chest .. mainly so my long hair can brush down his body.

 

[Octavian]

peterpan

You missed a good food related one.

Having cream smeared on your penis and having your partner lick it off.

We tried it once. And we have been banned from all McDonald’s restaurants ever since!

Octavian