Foreplay Anyone??????
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anne27 said:Hmm, if 'forever' to much to ask for?
Same here anne27. The longer the better.
Foreplay Foremost
I'm a big fan of foreplay. Most likely due to the fact that
my first girlfriend and I never had penetrative sex. It was
all foreplay. So I became very good at it.
Penetration is secondary to me, and as much as I enjoy
an orgasm myself, I'd say I enjoy my partners orgasm as
much, if not more. It's the one time of the day when I
feel I've truly accomplished something.
I'm a big fan of foreplay. Most likely due to the fact that
my first girlfriend and I never had penetrative sex. It was
all foreplay. So I became very good at it.
Penetration is secondary to me, and as much as I enjoy
an orgasm myself, I'd say I enjoy my partners orgasm as
much, if not more. It's the one time of the day when I
feel I've truly accomplished something.
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It should last at least 20 minutes and should get end up with people so damned turned on they can't handle it.
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Would love to get more opinions from everyone... Yes ladies you too !!!!
Hope everyone is having a good summer
Savannah
Hope everyone is having a good summer
Savannah
Foreplay starts long before any physical contact is made. At least it does for me.
I like to look good for my husband, and so putting on makeup and doing my hair and picking out the clothes and jewelry I wear make me aroused -- thinking that, at some point, the makeup will get smeared from the combination of juice and sweat, the clothes will come off or be pushed aside, the hair will get mussed. I love to put the scent of me, aroused, in surprise places on my body -- the backs of my knees, my ankles, my nipples -- knowing that he will find the scent, and the taste.
I'm aroused by little love notes -- words turn me on -- and the smell of a clean and aroused man. I'm aroused by a gentle breeze against the back of my neck, as it reminds me of his breath.
Foreplay isn't a physical act so much as it is a state of mind. If you can find out what makes your lover tick, you are 3/4 of the way there.
I like to look good for my husband, and so putting on makeup and doing my hair and picking out the clothes and jewelry I wear make me aroused -- thinking that, at some point, the makeup will get smeared from the combination of juice and sweat, the clothes will come off or be pushed aside, the hair will get mussed. I love to put the scent of me, aroused, in surprise places on my body -- the backs of my knees, my ankles, my nipples -- knowing that he will find the scent, and the taste.
I'm aroused by little love notes -- words turn me on -- and the smell of a clean and aroused man. I'm aroused by a gentle breeze against the back of my neck, as it reminds me of his breath.
Foreplay isn't a physical act so much as it is a state of mind. If you can find out what makes your lover tick, you are 3/4 of the way there.
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YES!!!
I couldn't have said it better myself...great sex starts hours before any contact
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I couldn't have said it better myself...great sex starts hours before any contact
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Savannah's little splurge
Hey, foreplay for the evening fun starts when we get up in the morning. It get serious when I'm at the grocery shopping for a great dinner, fine wines, delicious and fresh foods, a salad, lovely fish or sweet island beef plus several ripe fruit selections and little desserts.
Then I cook and she watches. Yes, we're both nekkid as jaybirds in the kitchen, touching each other every now and then, passing between the sink or fridge or stove. I've got some fruit cut for appetizers and, maybe, some shrimp in a spicy sauce. She's getting warm when she starts to smell a little like those fresh shrimp. Me? When there is a little dew drop on the end of my pecker, swinging free as a chef should. She rubs butter on me every now and then.
Then we sit close while we have dinner with some good music in the background. Eventually she wants to know what i'm going to do 'with' her or 'to' her and I have to ask what she wants which takes about ten minutes to answer.
It's dessert time and we are squeezed togther on the couch, a sauterne in our glasses with cheese and fruit at the side plus little bites of chocolate tempered by sour-dough bread from San Francisco. She's playing with my pecker but i don't touch her. She takes a finger to the drop of dew and rubs it on her clit, inviting me to touch her there and I do, of course. Whatever she wants. The touch gets me harder.
The wine is gone and the smoke is gone and the fruit dish is on one hand while my dick is in her other hand as she leads me to the bedroom. We grab a quick shower with lots of soaping and slipping up and down against each other. Now I'm very hard, a little dizzy with desire as I dry her off slowly and she marches to the bed, throwing herself down on her back, legs spread and her head raised on a pillow so she can watch me snack on her precious little cooze.
After a few minutes she signals to move me over her so she can suck me while I'm licking clit and lips down there. She has already had one orgasm and tastes and smells of the ocean and all life itself. She is very careful to keep my stimulation easy and light. She wants me to cum inside her pussy, likes the feeling of the cum pushing through the dick, a harmonic tremor similar to that our Hawai`i volcano registers just before an eruption.
As I turn to her, she moves that pillow to her ass, raising her sweet pussy for a better reach and view. I enter her gently, slowly and come to a full stop when fully inside. She rotates her hips to feel me filling her. Her pussy is ballooned, ready to come again, and I feel her tenderest spots inside with the head of my dick, patting its way around like a blind man.
Then it begins, the sensations that are taking over. No more thinking. Just feeling. Very slowly out and even more slowly back in, riding high to give her clit all the attention it can stand. Her legs go around me and she moves to put me on my back. She wants to run this fuck and it's fine by me.
On top, she bends forward. She is pressing down on my hips, very tight on my dick, and begins to move. Slowly at first, she is moving to fast. It is the same as a hand-job from some heavenly angel, soft and hot and wet but also very tight, every nerve at play inside that squeezing twat. It doesn't last long, but long enough, as my entire body is rocked by her pleasures and I can feel the first little loss of consciousness as all control is gone. It's all dick and pussy now, down there and all around every bit of conscious glow. Faster and faster, a little bit rough, and she leans back to change the angle while she works up a cough, a trick she learned when still a young girl, squeezing me until there could be no other relief than the great cum that overwhelms me, the appreciation of that foreplay that Savannah wanted to know all about.
As this is written, it's still Spring out here in the middle of the Pacific Ocean. And it's good. Just enough rain.miss-savannah said:Hope everyone is having a good summer
Hey, foreplay for the evening fun starts when we get up in the morning. It get serious when I'm at the grocery shopping for a great dinner, fine wines, delicious and fresh foods, a salad, lovely fish or sweet island beef plus several ripe fruit selections and little desserts.
Then I cook and she watches. Yes, we're both nekkid as jaybirds in the kitchen, touching each other every now and then, passing between the sink or fridge or stove. I've got some fruit cut for appetizers and, maybe, some shrimp in a spicy sauce. She's getting warm when she starts to smell a little like those fresh shrimp. Me? When there is a little dew drop on the end of my pecker, swinging free as a chef should. She rubs butter on me every now and then.
Then we sit close while we have dinner with some good music in the background. Eventually she wants to know what i'm going to do 'with' her or 'to' her and I have to ask what she wants which takes about ten minutes to answer.
It's dessert time and we are squeezed togther on the couch, a sauterne in our glasses with cheese and fruit at the side plus little bites of chocolate tempered by sour-dough bread from San Francisco. She's playing with my pecker but i don't touch her. She takes a finger to the drop of dew and rubs it on her clit, inviting me to touch her there and I do, of course. Whatever she wants. The touch gets me harder.
The wine is gone and the smoke is gone and the fruit dish is on one hand while my dick is in her other hand as she leads me to the bedroom. We grab a quick shower with lots of soaping and slipping up and down against each other. Now I'm very hard, a little dizzy with desire as I dry her off slowly and she marches to the bed, throwing herself down on her back, legs spread and her head raised on a pillow so she can watch me snack on her precious little cooze.
After a few minutes she signals to move me over her so she can suck me while I'm licking clit and lips down there. She has already had one orgasm and tastes and smells of the ocean and all life itself. She is very careful to keep my stimulation easy and light. She wants me to cum inside her pussy, likes the feeling of the cum pushing through the dick, a harmonic tremor similar to that our Hawai`i volcano registers just before an eruption.
As I turn to her, she moves that pillow to her ass, raising her sweet pussy for a better reach and view. I enter her gently, slowly and come to a full stop when fully inside. She rotates her hips to feel me filling her. Her pussy is ballooned, ready to come again, and I feel her tenderest spots inside with the head of my dick, patting its way around like a blind man.
Then it begins, the sensations that are taking over. No more thinking. Just feeling. Very slowly out and even more slowly back in, riding high to give her clit all the attention it can stand. Her legs go around me and she moves to put me on my back. She wants to run this fuck and it's fine by me.
On top, she bends forward. She is pressing down on my hips, very tight on my dick, and begins to move. Slowly at first, she is moving to fast. It is the same as a hand-job from some heavenly angel, soft and hot and wet but also very tight, every nerve at play inside that squeezing twat. It doesn't last long, but long enough, as my entire body is rocked by her pleasures and I can feel the first little loss of consciousness as all control is gone. It's all dick and pussy now, down there and all around every bit of conscious glow. Faster and faster, a little bit rough, and she leans back to change the angle while she works up a cough, a trick she learned when still a young girl, squeezing me until there could be no other relief than the great cum that overwhelms me, the appreciation of that foreplay that Savannah wanted to know all about.
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That was excellent HawaiiBill. Your woman is lucky to have you... Keep it hot and hard darlin....
Savannah
That was excellent HawaiiBill. Your woman is lucky to have you... Keep it hot and hard darlin....
Savannah
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I might not always like to take a lot of time before I get off, but always at least 5 or 10 minutes. The thing with me is, I don't want it all to end just because I came once, I prefer that foreplay goes on and we both cum more than once. And I usually try to get her off before my first of the night.
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All men....
Are not as you purport us to be. Many of us love foreplay, and some of us even love the after-play. What, are all your lovers under 20?
Are not as you purport us to be. Many of us love foreplay, and some of us even love the after-play. What, are all your lovers under 20?
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its all relative my friends...
in the case that if you plan on having AMAZING 3 hour sex the fore play will last a lot longer than if you are having a quicky, say before work or something. but i`d have to say on average that AT LEAST 20 minutes. and for the previous poster, i am 20 and i am inlove with foreplay.
in the case that if you plan on having AMAZING 3 hour sex the fore play will last a lot longer than if you are having a quicky, say before work or something. but i`d have to say on average that AT LEAST 20 minutes. and for the previous poster, i am 20 and i am inlove with foreplay.
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Foreplay is mislabled and misunderstood. Foreplay begins in the mind. It extends from there to the body. Foreplay is a form of art. It is nurturing. As young boys we are not raised to be in touch with out emotional side, we are not taught to nurture. Boys are told to "walk it off", "act like a man"...etc. The shame of that (and their are many), is that to be a true man, you must nurture...to be secure enough to revel in your emotions. I am not sure if this made any sense...but I had to try.
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LOL Darlin, been there and done that and you so right... Nope, my hubby is pushing 48 and he is one hell of a lover... I also know that not all men are slam bam thank you mam..
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Most excellent and I totally understood it all. I agree 100% that foreplay begins in the mind.. We have an open marriage and I meet many men online. They just can't understand that I need the mental stimulation as well as the physical stimulation. For me is getting to know someone first and the sexual attraction will follow closely behind.
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There is nothing I enjoy more than spending as much time as possible caressing and teasing each other.. Exploring each other's bodies and sending shivers down spines as we touch one another. I love to go down on my SO and tease her some more.. licking her body all over and allowing my fingers to explore her sex, giving her even more sensations as i continue to cover her with kisses..
However... This is very rarely the case with my SO. Some of you may have already seen my thread.. (https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=325401) but if not the basic story is that we are having some difficulties at the moment. As much as i try and make it a special night for for us both with lots of seduction, romancing and other special surprises i try, things never seem to get very far. "Foreplay" doesn't involve a lot. I still try and enjoy every inch of her body, kissing, touching, caressing and licking. I still try and spend as much time on it as she wishes, but once things get a bit more intense (me going down on her etc) she gets impatient, my cock gets a quick wank and then she expects penetration. When I ask why there is such a rush, she says she gets too wet and just wants sex. Our other problem is that she is very uptight and doesn't let herself go. She doesn't like how intense her O's can be and this gets to me quite a lot. As i've already said, I'm all for a big build up and paying a lot of attention to a woman, but it is almost impossible to do this. The other thing that bothers me is all this talk of women needing to be "warmed up." I totally agree, but us guys need some warming up too. I love to be teased and stroked until I am as hard as steel. On the odd occaisions my SO does pay a little more attention to me (very rarely this happens) we have the most fantastic sex and I even get to spend a little more time on her too.
This frustrates me a great deal and I wish there was some way to improve on things without being too blunt and upsetting her as I still love her dearly, I just long for a hotter, more passionate and more intense sex life.
There is nothing I enjoy more than spending as much time as possible caressing and teasing each other.. Exploring each other's bodies and sending shivers down spines as we touch one another. I love to go down on my SO and tease her some more.. licking her body all over and allowing my fingers to explore her sex, giving her even more sensations as i continue to cover her with kisses..
However... This is very rarely the case with my SO. Some of you may have already seen my thread.. (https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=325401) but if not the basic story is that we are having some difficulties at the moment. As much as i try and make it a special night for for us both with lots of seduction, romancing and other special surprises i try, things never seem to get very far. "Foreplay" doesn't involve a lot. I still try and enjoy every inch of her body, kissing, touching, caressing and licking. I still try and spend as much time on it as she wishes, but once things get a bit more intense (me going down on her etc) she gets impatient, my cock gets a quick wank and then she expects penetration. When I ask why there is such a rush, she says she gets too wet and just wants sex. Our other problem is that she is very uptight and doesn't let herself go. She doesn't like how intense her O's can be and this gets to me quite a lot. As i've already said, I'm all for a big build up and paying a lot of attention to a woman, but it is almost impossible to do this. The other thing that bothers me is all this talk of women needing to be "warmed up." I totally agree, but us guys need some warming up too. I love to be teased and stroked until I am as hard as steel. On the odd occaisions my SO does pay a little more attention to me (very rarely this happens) we have the most fantastic sex and I even get to spend a little more time on her too.
This frustrates me a great deal and I wish there was some way to improve on things without being too blunt and upsetting her as I still love her dearly, I just long for a hotter, more passionate and more intense sex life.
It has been said before on this thread, but foe me foreplay starts long before you start stripping off clothes.
The words, touches, caresses during the day, or when you first meet all lead into and create that environment where there is sexual and erotic tension between both participants.
I would not be prepared to put a hard time on foreplay as everything is situational depedent. (Hey sometimes you just tear each others clothes off and can't wait, or one I like - is being in the kitchen after work chatting, she bends over the bench, flip the skirt up, either move panties aside or take them off and slide right on in - just great at times).
One of my all time favourite foreplay times with an SO was a huge build-up in tension between us, then while she watched sex and the city I ate her out for the entire program. It was for her a continuous series of little orgasms.
The words, touches, caresses during the day, or when you first meet all lead into and create that environment where there is sexual and erotic tension between both participants.
I would not be prepared to put a hard time on foreplay as everything is situational depedent. (Hey sometimes you just tear each others clothes off and can't wait, or one I like - is being in the kitchen after work chatting, she bends over the bench, flip the skirt up, either move panties aside or take them off and slide right on in - just great at times).
One of my all time favourite foreplay times with an SO was a huge build-up in tension between us, then while she watched sex and the city I ate her out for the entire program. It was for her a continuous series of little orgasms.
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Well Ms Savannah being of an age, like yourself, where we probably have a little, or alot, more expierence than many here lets see if we can educate...lol
The word itself is misunderstood. Semantics being what they are maybe it should be called beforeplay! In my expierence the most erotic part of either sexes body is the brain. Turn on that organ and the possibilities are as endless as the universe. In order to do that one must have a love and appreciation for the person that houses that organ. Kind of takes spontaniety out of the equation, although that certainly has a charm of its own, as well as anonymous sex, multiple partners etc...When dealing with foreplay I really think its about your partners pleasure not your own. Giving is in fact much better than receiving (IMHO)...and again it involves some degree of intimacy or knowledge of that person. Tastes as well as desires evolve in the course of a mature relationship. This all being said brings us to the only other factor...Time. Sometimes you may not have all the time you would like...schedules clash, families requirements, parenting and so much more all have a way of demanding more of our precious time...so foreplay isnt always what it could or should be. All this being said leaves us with an ideal...no distractions...no time constraints...and a true love and passion for the person we will share this most gifted act with. To wich I offer my ideal...make her feel like the lady she is...kind words, a gift to make her feel special (lingerie or something intimate...hell for that matter help her with dishes or laundry!) and a night with just you two (or more if thats your thing). Take a bath together, or shower, pamper her body, bubbles and wine and hold her in your arms. A warm towel to wrap her in when she is done...brush her hair...kiss her everywhere...a long sensual full body massage...fingers and hands...kisses following your hands... then her neck...her lips...her breasts and down the torso to her thighs and back up to her most intimate spot...take you time...listen to her moans and sighs...nothing more erotic in the world. Take your time...see to her pleasure first (2nd, 3rd...lol) and it will come back to you tenfold...
The word itself is misunderstood. Semantics being what they are maybe it should be called beforeplay! In my expierence the most erotic part of either sexes body is the brain. Turn on that organ and the possibilities are as endless as the universe. In order to do that one must have a love and appreciation for the person that houses that organ. Kind of takes spontaniety out of the equation, although that certainly has a charm of its own, as well as anonymous sex, multiple partners etc...When dealing with foreplay I really think its about your partners pleasure not your own. Giving is in fact much better than receiving (IMHO)...and again it involves some degree of intimacy or knowledge of that person. Tastes as well as desires evolve in the course of a mature relationship. This all being said brings us to the only other factor...Time. Sometimes you may not have all the time you would like...schedules clash, families requirements, parenting and so much more all have a way of demanding more of our precious time...so foreplay isnt always what it could or should be. All this being said leaves us with an ideal...no distractions...no time constraints...and a true love and passion for the person we will share this most gifted act with. To wich I offer my ideal...make her feel like the lady she is...kind words, a gift to make her feel special (lingerie or something intimate...hell for that matter help her with dishes or laundry!) and a night with just you two (or more if thats your thing). Take a bath together, or shower, pamper her body, bubbles and wine and hold her in your arms. A warm towel to wrap her in when she is done...brush her hair...kiss her everywhere...a long sensual full body massage...fingers and hands...kisses following your hands... then her neck...her lips...her breasts and down the torso to her thighs and back up to her most intimate spot...take you time...listen to her moans and sighs...nothing more erotic in the world. Take your time...see to her pleasure first (2nd, 3rd...lol) and it will come back to you tenfold...
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Oh How I remember days like that... *sigh* I have to admit that I am feeling a little neglected lately myself..... Yesterday we were on a way to a fund raising for a group called Friends of Retired Greyhounds.. We adopted our lovely Jane from them. Anyway, we stopped for lunch and as we were sitting there I told my husband that we really needed to have a date night.... (both us of work alot of hours and are usually falling asleep on the couch by 8:30) His reply to my date suggestion was -- well this could be our date ( meaning lunch) Lets just say that I was not in the least bit over joyed by that reaction...
So your reply reminded me of days gone by, way back when....
Thank you very much for your input, perhaps it will give some of the youngsters out there something to think about.
Savannah
So your reply reminded me of days gone by, way back when....
Thank you very much for your input, perhaps it will give some of the youngsters out there something to think about.
Savannah
MrFantasyMan said:To wich I offer my ideal...make her feel like the lady she is...kind words, a gift to make her feel special (lingerie or something intimate...hell for that matter help her with dishes or laundry!) and a night with just you two (or more if thats your thing). Take a bath together, or shower, pamper her body, bubbles and wine and hold her in your arms. A warm towel to wrap her in when she is done...brush her hair...kiss her everywhere...a long sensual full body massage...fingers and hands...kisses following your hands... then her neck...her lips...her breasts and down the torso to her thighs and back up to her most intimate spot...take you time...listen to her moans and sighs...nothing more erotic in the world. Take your time...see to her pleasure first (2nd, 3rd...lol) and it will come back to you tenfold...
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Foreplay
Thought I would bump this thread and see if anyone out there would like to give some input...
Thought I would bump this thread and see if anyone out there would like to give some input...
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miss-savannah said:
Actually.... foreplay can last all day... sexy note... cyber tease...
Walk by and brush up against his zipper area. I think that foreplay can be found at every turn and should be grabbed and utilized.
The foreplay of the naked type should be a moment to moment choice. Some times 20 minutes with mutual eating
...*giggles* but then their is the wild tear your clothes off fuck where foreplay isn't always necessary... Hmmm. Let me tell you that I for one love to take my time, make her wetter, hotter, utterly aroused and climax not less than once before I ever enter her. This is as a general rule mind you.
There are times when we both just want to FUCK! You know how that is.
There are times when we both just want to FUCK! You know how that is.
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usmcordie said:
Yes, yes I do.
