Foreplay Anyone??????

How long should foreplay last?

  • Less than 5 Minutes

    Votes: 2 0.4%
  • 5 to 10 Minutes

    Votes: 13 2.5%
  • 10 to 20 Minutes

    Votes: 81 15.5%
  • 20 Minutes or Longer

    Votes: 425 81.6%

  • Total voters
    521

miss-savannah

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Question to all you men and women out there. Well mostly men. What is the deal? Many of you talk the talk, but when it comes to the deed, you can't wait to get on and get off. Honestly, do any of you pay attention when us ladies give you the inside information on what we need to get off? I am curious to see what your answers are about this topic. So let me hear it all....................
 
I am not sure about the details of your particular situation. But I can honestly say that My wife and I never go anyfarther than foreplay untill she has climaxed at least once. Truth be told, that is my favorite part. To kneel and worship at the delictable alter of my wifes womanhood. To know that I am honored enough to be chosen to give her the pleasure that she desires... :rolleyes: Omg I sound sappy. Anyway you get the idea.
 
Foreplay

well i for one like it to last
I start with give her a back rub and then working to the legs
and then well you get the point ?? yes
I like to take my time when it come to sex (most of the time )
some times she will do the same or some times she will surprice me someing new
 
Lionblade said:
:rolleyes: Omg I sound sappy. Anyway you get the idea.


Darlin, you are far from sappy.. LOL My hubby and I always have more than 20 minutes of foreplay. Its those younger men that seem to not understand that us women need to be very warmed up.

Thanks for your input

Savannah
 
I would certainly like to know who voted for the 5 to 10 minutes. Now I realize that you can have very intense I need it now sex, but as a general rule, surely 5 -10 is not long enough
 
If a man plans to have his world rocked, be better do lots of attention to his woman. Foreplay is the only way. Many ways are full body massages, bubble bathes, or just lots of kisses and hugs and then lots and lots of full body kisses. Love to please orally. I love for the woman I am with to have a few climaxes before I am taken care of. That is the only way to do it.
 
foreplay??

Heck my EX thought that shaking my shoulder to wake me up was the foreplay, or was it the head nod and wink followed with the every popular question " ya wanna?" nod and wink again.
OH and on really really good ones i got a nipple twister just 'caue he read that woman like to have thier "titties played wif".

sad but oh so true. please also note that he is now the EX
 
hmmm

I like foreplay ..I like sex ..so whats after foreplay..intercourse?
Sex is foreplay intercourse is a small part of sex.

If people are still thinking that sex is intercourse then we are living in the 50's

1 hr + sometimes if you are really hot and been thinking about sex (not intercourse) all day 3 minutes

I
 
Re: hmmm

tonyp said:

If people are still thinking that sex is intercourse then we are living in the 50's


Darlin, you have no idea how many people that think making love is kissing and then sticking it in..

I figure if it's gonna be like tha I might as well be getting paid for it and they are definately not going to be able to afford it.. :D
 
I too have to vote for more than 20 minutes. Anything less is slam-bam-thank you ma'am. You can sometimes make the foreplay last for the better part of an afternoon; anticipation is what helps bring everything to a head.

Wanted to see your page, but I don't have a cybercheck id.:rose:
 
yup its all about the foreplay. although I have to admit that some times urgency demands less than 20 ;)
SL
 
miss-savannah said:
Darlin, you are far from sappy.. LOL My hubby and I always have more than 20 minutes of foreplay. Its those younger men that seem to not understand that us women need to be very warmed up.

Thanks for your input

Savannah

Lol. You do realize how old I am ? or were you refering to younger than I?
I thank you for the response though. I seldom recieve feedback on this forum.
 
There are so many different answers to your question, of course!

But in my experience, the first essential ingredient to exceptional sex is intelligence. Really smart women are always sexier than those who are less smart.

The second ingredient is creativity. Foreplay doesn't start in the bedroom when it is time to figure out which spot to lick first.....it starts with the creation of a scence in the minds of two people....long in advance of the event.

Try this.....darling, I've made reservations at a wonderful restaurant for tomorrow. It's dark and very romantic and so popular on Fridays and Saturdays with celebrating couples....but during the week it is full of business people with expense accounts drinking expensive wine. Except that Wednesday we'll be there too.

I will be so proud and turned on when you walk into the room, and I can see eyes of every man follow you to your table. You sit down to join me, and I notice that you are wearing all that I have requested. A short black dress.....formal from a distance, but cut far too low to be considered a business dress. A thin leather collar instead of a necklace, and shoes with heels far too high to be practical. We kiss....not just as a greeting, but as a first taste of all that will come tonight.


OK....got the idea?

More importantly....like the idea?

xx (posted as requsted, darling!)
 
Foreplay?

After more than 30 years of marriage to the same wonderful women, she's taught me that foreplay begins much earlier in the day. It can be a special hug in the morning, I love U before going to work, a phone call or email during the day to say I can't stand being away from you. When I get home helping with the meal and cleanup says I love you. We never rush to the bedroom or whichever room or place we're going to make love (we don't have sex, we make love).
Good conversation after dinner shows you care. Once we're ready for the bedroom her needs and desires come before my own. In the early years of our marriage she seldom had multiple orgasms but now 5 or 6 are not uncommon. She's become my personal vixen. She loves for me to snuggle and then explore her body. I always end up between her gorgeous legs enjoying the nectar from her honey pot. After her second orgasm she'll usually roll me over and begin to lick and kiss me from head to toe. When she stops at my penis it's all I can do not to explode immediately. She'll always straddle my face while sucking on my penis, so that I can lick more honey from her. I love this position because she's a squirter and I know what I'm about to enjoy with her on top. She also likes to be on top when she mounts me. This is good for another orgasm. She then likes for me to get on top and we both cum together. And men, don't fall asleep as soon as you're done. The women like for you to suggle and hold them for a while.
 
Trawna said:
20 minutes, Ms JJ? I'd just be getting started in 20 minutes!

I should hope you wouldn't be anywhere near ready by then Hun, I did vote 'over' 20 minutes.

Little dirty snippet time then... I once let two guys play about with me at a party... if you count the dirty dancing and arse groping on the dance floor as foreplay... which I do, cos it excites me... as well as the time it took them to get me undressed and into a kinky threesome in secret later... The foreplay lasted 2 hours, chuckle!! My knickers were soaked with honey as though I'd pissed my pants by the time they got round to taking them off to have me.
 
Lionblade said:
Lol. You do realize how old I am ? or were you refering to younger than I?
I thank you for the response though. I seldom recieve feedback on this forum.


I Guess that was my blunder, as I am old enough to be your mom. LOL You must be one of those exceptions to the rule darlin. Bully for you
 
Mysteryjj said:
I should hope you wouldn't be anywhere near ready by then Hun, I did vote 'over' 20 minutes.

Little dirty snippet time then... I once let two guys play about with me at a party... if you count the dirty dancing and arse groping on the dance floor as foreplay... which I do, cos it excites me... as well as the time it took them to get me undressed and into a kinky threesome in secret later... The foreplay lasted 2 hours, chuckle!! My knickers were soaked with honey as though I'd pissed my pants by the time they got round to taking them off to have me.

Love to suck your sopping panties right off you, then get into some serious foreplay, roleplay and fuckplay.
 
Mysteryjj said:
I should hope you wouldn't be anywhere near ready by then Hun, I did vote 'over' 20 minutes.

Little dirty snippet time then... I once let two guys play about with me at a party... if you count the dirty dancing and arse groping on the dance floor as foreplay... which I do, cos it excites me... as well as the time it took them to get me undressed and into a kinky threesome in secret later... The foreplay lasted 2 hours, chuckle!! My knickers were soaked with honey as though I'd pissed my pants by the time they got round to taking them off to have me.


I love dirty dancing, touching, kissing nothing like that to make onces panties soaking wet. Of course if you happen to not be wearing any panties with that tight skirt, then it makes for easier access for a hot quickie..
 
miss-savannah said:
I love dirty dancing, touching, kissing nothing like that to make onces panties soaking wet. Of course if you happen to not be wearing any panties with that tight skirt, then it makes for easier access for a hot quickie..

Lovely pic Savannah hun... wouldn't say no to playing with that myself:devil: :p Oops!! More naughty revelations Janice:D

I can't go knicker'less my husband would want to know why:devil: Umm... hate to admit but neither of those guys at the party was my hubby... and I hope to shite he never finds literotica and reads this:eek:
 
Foreplay - all day

I think you have to wrok at foreplay... get wound up early, and keep it going..... if you're doin it right... the sex is fantastic!!
 
miss-savannah said:
Question to all you men and women out there. Well mostly men. What is the deal? Many of you talk the talk, but when it comes to the deed, you can't wait to get on and get off. Honestly, do any of you pay attention when us ladies give you the inside information on what we need to get off? I am curious to see what your answers are about this topic. So let me hear it all....................

God, I love hours of fore play... :D Being a sensualist I derive incredible excitement from providing my female partner with extreme pleasure. I can't fathom any guy not wanting to drive his female lover straight up a wall. I love feeling her body trembling and listening to her moans. Making wetter than she has ever been in her life. God, why wouldn't you want that to happen every time. I have found that a lover is more than willing to reciprocate when caught up in the passion and pleasure. Now I ask you who doesn't want a lover like that...:eek:

Jaded1, Ct :devil:
 
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foreplay starts with anticipation

This okay lets get it on, time for sex attitude just does not work. Building tension and excitment, the anticipation of what is to come always gets better results in my opinion. By the time you get down to slowly stripping off layers of clothes and then touching each other the motors are turned on and revving. Then the excitment is built higher with a long exploration of each other(s), maybe more than 2 of you. Penetration is only a small part. Also I like to continue after ejaculation with continued "foreplay", bringing my partner to multipule "o's" is always better and more satisfying to us both. :cool:
 
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