Forced swallowing

[rosco rathbone]

I was going to post this on oral servitude, but it's better for this thread

[via Deep Throat Tech]

http://www.badongo.com/vid/1180891

 

[CutieMouse]

Contempt isn't the right word for it. Not for me, anyway.

Casual sex is more like a game. Fine sport! A conquest thing. The more difficult the challenge, the sweeter the victory.

"I don't like to swallow" translates in my head as a challenge, plain and simple. My immediate first thought has always been: "Ohhh, but I bet I can get her to do it."

My M.O. differs from the OP's, because I see no victory in grabbing and forcing the head. Of course, there's a time and place in which physical force is extremely hot. But in conquest terms, there's really nothing sweeter than the swallow she forces herself to take.

I never thought these words would come out of my mouth, but on some level I must have a guy brain.

 

[graceanne]

Contempt isn't the right word for it. Not for me, anyway.

Casual sex is more like a game. Fine sport! A conquest thing. The more difficult the challenge, the sweeter the victory.

"I don't like to swallow" translates in my head as a challenge, plain and simple. My immediate first thought has always been: "Ohhh, but I bet I can get her to do it."

So the issue is that 'i don't like to' isn't clear. If they don't want to they need to be more specific and say 'i do not swallow', so that it's clear it's a hard limit as opposed to a soft limit?

But in conquest terms, there's really nothing sweeter than the swallow she forces herself to take.

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hot

 

[JMohegan]

So the issue is that 'i don't like to' isn't clear. If they don't want to they need to be more specific and say 'i do not swallow', so that it's clear it's a hard limit as opposed to a soft limit?

No, I'd say it's pretty freakin' obvious that a woman saying: "I don't like to swallow" is really giving a shorthand version of: "I'm giving you fair warning ahead of time, just so you won't take this personally or get upset about it when it happens. You should know that I don't like to swallow, so I won't be swallowing at the conclusion of this blowjob."

As I said in my post to CM about parsing words and technicalities, if I had to put money on the outcome of grabbed head/forced swallow with relatively unknown female or casual sex partner who had just made the "I don't like to swallow" comment, I'd put money on Biatchinfire's response at the end of post 20. Hell pissed, fuck you I'm outta here. And rightfully so.

 

[JMohegan]

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hot

Yes. It is.

 

[YourCaptor]

Snowball.

Ha ha

In high school I had a music teacher who would use snowballing in exchange for bullshiting.

"Are you snowballing me? Stop snowballing me!"

 

[Netzach]

I never thought these words would come out of my mouth, but on some level I must have a guy brain.

This is where I don't.

If I want conquest like that I can go hop onto the GB and get in an argument and win it. Or go blow up some pixellated bad guys. Or go for a run.

If I'm meeting some girl and I want in her pants and she's expressing reluctance about pussy or something I have a million better girls to do. All "I don't like to swallow" tells me is that I'm really wasting time if it's a big deal to me. And my pretend cock at this point, but you can switch in any behavior you want.

 

[neci]

just fucking cum already

my thoughts on swallowing.

just fucking swallow it already.
have you ever been left hanging on the edge of a great orgasm,
just because your lover didn't want to get wet?
it is the most frustrating thing in the world.
the last thing i want right before i cum is for the person to just stop
pull back
and say, "okay! finish off!"
WHAT THE FUCK!
besides, it's common courtesy.
like saying hello to the old ladies at church.
you may think, damn, i am going to be here all afternoon once she starts talking about aunt edna.
but you still do it.
i don't want you pulling away at the last second, so why should i?
really.
besides,
i honestly don't care where i'm cum on or in.
just as long as i get to lick it up.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Swallow or go home.

 

[HarlotMinx]

So Primalex, what if the sub in question enjoys playing with their food a little before eating it? Is their like a half life on cum to where it's sexual appeal becomes neutralized? Personally I've always been a messy eater.

 

[Netzach]

So Primalex, what if the sub in question enjoys playing with their food a little before eating it? Is their like a half life on cum to where it's sexual appeal becomes neutralized? Personally I've always been a messy eater.

Nastiness, collect $200!

 

[Puman]

So Primalex, what if the sub in question enjoys playing with their food a little before eating it? Is their like a half life on cum to where it's sexual appeal becomes neutralized? Personally I've always been a messy eater.

Hau! Eikhona mama!

 

[Primalex]

So Primalex, what if the sub in question enjoys playing with their food a little before eating it?

Then they should use a different sentence.

 

[HarlotMinx]

Nastiness, collect $200!

Yay! Did I win the game? I don't know what to say... it's always seemed like a waste of good cum/juices to just wash it off or swallow. Nothing says appreciation like enjoying it to the full extent. I mean sure, it'll get swallowed eventually... or maybe just worn.

 

[subish2009]

my thoughts on swallowing.

just fucking swallow it already.
have you ever been left hanging on the edge of a great orgasm,
just because your lover didn't want to get wet?
it is the most frustrating thing in the world.
the last thing i want right before i cum is for the person to just stop
pull back
and say, "okay! finish off!"
WHAT THE FUCK!
besides, it's common courtesy.
like saying hello to the old ladies at church.
you may think, damn, i am going to be here all afternoon once she starts talking about aunt edna.
but you still do it.
i don't want you pulling away at the last second, so why should i?
really.
besides,
i honestly don't care where i'm cum on or in.
just as long as i get to lick it up.

I tend to agree with this, though I'm too much of a wimp to word it so strongly.

I don't understand...why even start if you're not going to finish? And furthermore, for me at least, practice makes perfect...I didn't always love it.