Forced Feminization/Sissification

I found a lot of these posts very interesting. I guess a lot of it is what state of mind/role you want to play is at in the moment.

For me, I find men in women’s underwear very sexy - all of it - bras, panties, nighties, lace and especially satin or silk. I could play with another man without any mention of “sissy” or humiliation - we could both wear it or just one of us.

On the other hand, emasculation and humiliation do turn me on. Being “forced” to wear panties and/or a bra could be humiliating in an sph, not manly enough sissy boy way. I do like verbal teasing but also saying it back to a dominant man or woman that I’m a sissy panty boy would really add to the humiliation-maybe having to describe the feeling and material and how adorable I feel while we’re at it. I’m not really turned on by a total transformation and being called a girl though so no wigs and makeup although a little lipstick would be ok if applied by my partner.

I believe I’m bisexual, so I do have some femdom fantasies - mostly just being put in panties, shown off to friends, wearing a maids outfit and serving at a party for their entertainment.

There’s quite a bit here but I guess most revolves around humiliation. I will say that I don’t think wearing women’s clothing is a humiliation in itself, I think it’s more having your masculinity played with and not having a say in your underwear preference is taking away a choice.
 
Lots of great stories and ideas. My wife knows I have a bi side, but won't let me play with guys. I do have some skimpy men's underwear, she calls my panties, but she threw out all the ones that had lace. Too gay, I guess. I even once asked her to take me shopping for panties. I would love a little public humiliation. I want to be her gay husband when we are on vacation, allowing me to be out, but away from home. She will call me her faggot when I'm in my panties, but I am hoping one day she surprises me with a day of Femdom, dressing me up, or even turning me out as a sissy faggot.
 
My wife knows I have a bi side, but won't let me play with guys.... I am hoping one day she surprises me with a day of Femdom, dressing me up, or even turning me out as a sissy faggot.
I completely sympathize with your desires. Having said that, a word of caution (from sad experience): be very careful not to conflate your desires or fantasies with what she actually wants. Doing so can push things hard in exactly the opposite direction from what you want. Be patient, and never pushy.
 
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I completely sympathize with your desires. Having said that, a word of caution (from sad experience): be very careful not to conflate your desires or fantasies with what she actually wants. Doing so can push things hard in exactly the opposite direction from what you want. Be patient, and never pushy.
Wise words my friend. Experience is a masterful teacher.
 
That would be hot in front of a mirror
Mirrors can be very hot. We have one on our door, my wife will suction a dildo to it dress me up and peg me. Last time she was very overpowering and had me presses against the mirror with the dildo down my throat gaging pegging me hard. Totally ruined my stockings where my knees rubbed through.
 
Mirrors can be very hot. We have one on our door, my wife will suction a dildo to it dress me up and peg me. Last time she was very overpowering and had me presses against the mirror with the dildo down my throat gaging pegging me hard. Totally ruined my stockings where my knees rubbed through.
Um, that sounds insanely erotic...
 
I wasn’t sure if I should start the discussion here or in the BDSM section so I hope this is ok here.

First, is Feminization and Sissification the same thing? And secondly, do they both typically fall under Femdom?
I believe these are mostly part of humiliation/emasculation kinks but there are many different ways these can be played out. It wasn’t until recently that I learned that a lot of women don’t like this as being dressed in women’s clothing should not be embarrassing or humiliating. I totally agree there, but at the same time, can’t help but have this kink.

I’ve never experienced it, but my fantasies are cliche:
Wife/girlfriend is tired of macho husband/boyfriend who needs to be punished-forced into bra and panties and made to wear them daily under his men’s clothes, gets teased verbally and physically (pat on the butt in public to remind him he wears the panties-you wear the pants and are in charge) and verbally by calling him a little panty boy or sissy) he may protest but obviously he likes the humiliation. If wife has kinky friends he may be required to show his panties and bra when asked-male and female friends allowed to tease. No wigs or make up (and I’ll get to this shortly). This sounds more like a porn story and these things really don’t happen (or do they?)

The next one would be serving as French maid for a group of dominant women or men (or both) - again wearing no wig or make up but dressed in a very short satin maids dress with petticoat and ruffled satin panties being objectified and teased. Spankings for getting something wrong, a pinch on my bottom when I bend over a little and the panties peek out, having to curtsy and be a good little maid. There could possibly be other maids serving as well but we’d all be dressed similar.

The last one is just getting caught trying on lingerie or panties which leads to a dress up session.

The fantasies don’t end in sex but just humiliation/embarrassment and emasculation. I also am not interested in passing for a woman which is why wigs and makeup do nothing for me. A little lipstick being applied might be erotic but it’s not necessary.

These are typically straight male fetishes - I may be bi but am mostly attracted to men so I’m not sure why femdom is of any interest. I have an underwear fetish which is mostly anything silk and satin - it just so happens that most underwear made out of that material happens to be panties so that might be part of it. I love the look of panties/lingerie on men - forget the fantasies and I still like the look. Most gay men seem to want nothing to do with anything lingerie and panty related and I can understand that.

So I guess my question is, has anyone ever experienced these fantasies and if so did it live up to your expectations-were you really “forced” or was it just role play? Did you wear panties but not really want to?
I think its hot.....
 
The silk feels sooo good. Just love to run my hands over it. I get a sweet arousal when my hands are enjoying it. Lace looks so feminine that I can tolerate it if the softness is is less than I’d like.
agreed...silk feels so good on the equipment...
 
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