For You (oh yeah and you too)

[Luna_Wolf72]

Recently it has come to my attention that people have been questioning my ex, Trinique. Don't. Don't decide that you have the right to tell her, ask her ANYTHING about me. You have a question you fucking ask me. I am small, and I don't claim the title *Dominant* but that means NOTHING when it comes to me or mine. Whether she is (or was) my property was kept secret for a reason. Don't decide that you need to ask her a mother fucking thing. You don't. If you have an issue, you feel like you want to find out anything about me, ask me. Don't go behind my back like a bunch of sniveling pussies.

I am sure you know who this was meant for, I am NOT going to name names. I don't disrespect anyone on these boards and you are, without a doubt, going to give me the same respect I offer you. It's the same thing for Nala. Don't ask her shit about our relationship or lack thereof. If she wanted you to know, she would have told you. If she hadn't told you, she didn't want you to know.

I don't do board drama. THIS is my life. Stay the fuck out of it.

LUNA

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Recently it has come to my attention that people have been questioning my ex, Trinique. Don't. Don't decide that you have the right to tell her, ask her ANYTHING about me. You have a question you fucking ask me. I am small, and I don't claim the title *Dominant* but that means NOTHING when it comes to me or mine. Whether she is (or was) my property was kept secret for a reason. Don't decide that you need to ask her a mother fucking thing. You don't. If you have an issue, you feel like you want to find out anything about me, ask me. Don't go behind my back like a bunch of sniveling pussies.

I am sure you know who this was meant for, I am NOT going to name names. I don't disrespect anyone on these boards and you are, without a doubt, going to give me the same respect I offer you. It's the same thing for Nala. Don't ask her shit about our relationship or lack thereof. If she wanted you to know, she would have told you. If she hadn't told you, she didn't want you to know.

I don't do board drama. THIS is my life. Stay the fuck out of it.

LUNA

http://i183.photobucket.com/albums/x95/Sir_Winston54/Applause.gif http://i183.photobucket.com/albums/x95/Sir_Winston54/roses.jpg

No further comment necessary, I think.

 

[callinectes]

There have been several threads of this sort lately. Based on the responses to those threads the vast majority of the posters (self included) had no clue anything was or is or going on. I'm willing to bet the same is true in this instance. But now it has been announced to everyone and the really nosey people will pour over all of your posts trying to piece the puzzle together..so you have expanded your issue rather than trying to contain it.

I dont mean to sound bitchy and I am very sorry you are experiencing some unhappiness.

 

[HB1965]

Actually threads like this are good in some ways because they remind us that if you don't want anything known don't tell anyone. That's the best policy.

 

[Recidiva]

Yell at me some more, even if I don't deserve it.

 

[h_i_s]

Not me.
It wasn't me.
I dunno. .:*shrugs*:.

My kids seem to think any of those responses gain them unlimited immunity from all forms of guilt and/or punishment.

I enter this plea in my defense.

And on a serious note:
Luna, I hope that whoever is messing with your business learns the value of having been told "MYOB" (another favorite phrase often muttered from one kid to another here in this household).
If not, maybe they will at least just STFU.

Want me to beat them up?
Get permission from IYM for me, and I WILL.

 

[Netzach]

Jesus. Stupidity runs amok, huh?

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Want me to beat them up?
Get permission from IYM for me, and I WILL.

Some of them would probably enjoy that.

 

[h_i_s]

Some of them would probably enjoy that.

.:*snorts*:. Yeah I KNOW !! heheheeeeee

What's wrong with me enjoying myself some, hmm?
Slaves can have fun too.. when given permission.

Ya know?

 

[Chris_Xavier]

If you don't want people asking about your business then you shouldn't be online and conducting your affairs online in a public forum like this.

Additionally, haven't you learned from the recent spate of "I'm sorry threads, Isolated Blurt posts, and Dear X" threads that most of us don't care about seeing you air your laundry out for all to see?

If you have a problem with someone.. don't start a thread about it and say "I'm not naming names".. all that does is create useless "Lit drama" - you say you're a switch so show your Domme side (and the maturity that comes with side) and tell whomever you have a problem with "Hey.. we gotta talk" and conduct your business in the background (PM/IM/email) and let the rest of us have fun w/o seeing and smelling your dirty laundry.

 

[Chris_Xavier]

I don't do board drama. THIS is my life. Stay the fuck out of it.

LUNA

Btw.. by starting this thread.. you just did.

 

[h_i_s]

....... show your Domme side (and the maturity that comes with side)..........

Psst. Chris_Xavier?
That's not a trait which should be exclusive to being owned or displayed or mastered by one side or the other.

 

[h_i_s]

oops... thou art guilty of clicking the 'post the thingy button' far too hard for thee computer thingy


aka 'duplicate post'

 

[Chris_Xavier]

Psst. Chris_Xavier?
That's not a trait which should be exclusive to being owned or displayed or mastered by one side or the other.

Hush.. (but you're right.. I apologize to those subs who may have felt slighted)

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

If you don't want people asking about your business then you shouldn't be online and conducting your affairs online in a public forum like this.

Additionally, haven't you learned from the recent spate of "I'm sorry threads, Isolated Blurt posts, and Dear X" threads that most of us don't care about seeing you air your laundry out for all to see?

If you have a problem with someone.. don't start a thread about it and say "I'm not naming names".. all that does is create useless "Lit drama" - you say you're a switch so show your Domme side (and the maturity that comes with side) and tell whomever you have a problem with "Hey.. we gotta talk" and conduct your business in the background (PM/IM/email) and let the rest of us have fun w/o seeing and smelling your dirty laundry.

First off..there was a reason for the thread. I don't need to name names and seeing as you were one of the first people to respond with some mud slinging I would assume that you thought the thread was made for you. I didn't conduct either of these relationships on LIT. I met them here, but the relationships weren't conducted here. People rant and rave all the time, usually I sit back and don't indulge. What's the point? The problem is not that people are talking to my ex. The problem is that people are asking my ex questions about me.

Someone wants to know Trini for her sake,that's fine. Keep me the hell out of it. How hard is that?

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

I'd also like to add

that for some reason you feel like you have the right to question me, to tell me to act like a dominant, to not air my dirty laundry?? I didn't do any of that...but YOU did. So get a clue, people can say what they mean without trying to make board enemies. I am not going out of my way to piss anyone off..but Trini lives with me. Anything that gets said to her, gets repeated to me.

 

[Chris_Xavier]

that for some reason you feel like you have the right to question me, to tell me to act like a dominant, to not air my dirty laundry?? I didn't do any of that...but YOU did. So get a clue, people can say what they mean without trying to make board enemies. I am not going out of my way to piss anyone off..but Trini lives with me. Anything that gets said to her, gets repeated to me.

Fine.. I found that out last night.. and I also found out that the two you had a relationship ..

I DIDN'T KNOW ANY OF THAT BEFORE LAST NIGHT.

The ONLY fucking reason that you even appear on my radar screen because your potential relationship with Nala and the fact that she and I talk "business" (as in stuff that doesn't pertain to Lit).

I asked why you two (Trini and yourself) broke up.. I was told VERY politely by Trini that she didn't want to discuss it.. and that was it.. other than the fact the two of your cohabitate.

If that is messing in your business, then Luna, sweetie.. you have got a lot of people who meddle in your business everyday. People talk, you know.

My asking "why did the two of you break up" was my way of showing interest in Trini.. not you.

If you show up on my "radar" I consider you a blip on the screen that I don't even bother adjusting the verticle hold for.

If I was curious about you, I would have asked shit like "why does she have to work on the weekends?

Where in Md do you live?"

Who the fuck cares? I certainly don't -- I've lived without you in my life this long.. I think I can manage without having those questions answered and not have to go into psycho-therapy.

PS Have the courage to discuss this with me in PM or at least quit running invisible all the time.

 

[Chris_Xavier]

Oh yeah..

if you do care to discuss it.. PM me.. I adjusted my subscriptions and don't have this thread on my subscribed list.

 

[the captians wench]

because I'd rather just be done then keep going around in circles.

luna, ....

 

[FurryFury]

Luna,



I'm sorry you are having people mess in your business.

 

[Homburg]

Don't know whether to give you a to help you find a smile, or a baseball bat with which to help someone else find a BADLY needed attitude adjustment. Either way, I'd be happy with the outcome...

 

[Trinique_Fire]

I've been receiving PM's on Lit and notes on different messengers ever since the whole Luna/new subbie deal came into the light.

99% of the messages I received were bullshit. People made it a point to act like they were concerned or didn't know how I'd feel or if I needed anything. I didn't get it at first because I've never been the kind of popular on here where people just send me PM's if I'm missing for ten minutes or because my sig line is so fantabulous. But I was dumb enough even for a minute to believe that all the "concern" surrounding me was real.

Furthermore, not all of these people post on the BDSM forums. Most post elsewhere and just check out the other sections of the board here.

But here's in case those of you (and you know who you are) happen to read any of this thread:

I may not be Luna's any longer, but that doesn't mean I completely disregarded everything I learned from her. Stop trying to worm your way in.

If I don't feel like talking about my feelings, there's obviously a reason (or several) and you should just back off.

Despite the length of time that has passed, yeah, some things are still really fresh in my mind. I'm working on that, and all your little messages to me probing me for details don't help. In fact, they piss me off and upset me more than I'd like.

So one more time: back off.

 

[SubKekiLee]

To Luna and Trini
I am sorry it has gotten outta hand here.. I dont even know whats going on but from the bottom of my heart I am sorry you are all hurting..

If you need someone to just listen and not comment I am but a PM away..

Take care
SKL

 

[HottieMama]

i have not a clue in hell what's going on, but i wish you both much happiness.

 

[FurryFury]

I'm so sorry people are bugging you, Trinique_Fire. You don't deserve such treatment.



BTW, IMO, the thing about saying you are sorry, is that you are supposed to mean it and try damned hard to NOT do such things again. From this thread, I'm starting to see that some don't understand that.

That is irritating as hell to me.