For those bi-curious guys seeking to fulfill their suck fantasy, would you do it at this time?

Beandip478

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We have on our hands everything from HIV to Covid to the monkeypox virus, which is particularly prevalent amongst gay and bisexual men. So, whether you simply meet the man whose cock you want to suck in your normal, every day life, or use a gay escort service, would you take the risk of fulfilling your suck fantasy at this time?
 
Truth in life, the things you say, they have put a damper on wanting to seek out cock to suck for the first time. Maybe with a recent blood test, with clean results, of course, Hmmm. Perhaps. Cuts down on the spontaneity, but, oh well.
 
MWM here. I've wanted to suck another man's cock for years, but STDs have always been the logic barrier I can't get over. Discretion would be a huge issue, but not as huge as bringing some kind of disease home. I've decided that if I am to ever experience giving a blowjob then it will have to be someone I already know, and hopefully I could steer the conversation in that direction. Somehow. Meeting someone online is just too random for me. Fantasies and imagination are safe, though, so pm's about how you might like to enjoy a first-time cocksucker are welcome. I've never fantasized about a man reciprocating, just me sucking him off.
 
MWM here. I've wanted to suck another man's cock for years, but STDs have always been the logic barrier I can't get over. Discretion would be a huge issue, but not as huge as bringing some kind of disease home. I've decided that if I am to ever experience giving a blowjob then it will have to be someone I already know, and hopefully I could steer the conversation in that direction. Somehow. Meeting someone online is just too random for me. Fantasies and imagination are safe, though, so pm's about how you might like to enjoy a first-time cocksucker are welcome. I've never fantasized about a man reciprocating, just me sucking him off.

Your post made me consider that maybe a solution could be found by simple socializing. The more people I meet, the more likely it is I will meet a gay or bisexual man, and maybe that man will be someone I can trust, health wise, and if I get really lucky he'll have a big cock. I was never good at socializing to begin with, preferring a small circle of good friends, and in the midst of what may soon be a fresh wave of pandemic due to the new Omicron variants, it ain't easy, although I'm double vaxxed and triple boosted.
 
The socializing idea seems like a good one. The better you get to know a potential partner, the better you can make an educated guess as to their health as well as their honesty.
For me though, as an older guy who wants it to happen so very badly, and depending on the circumstances, I probably would go ahead and risk it. I don’t want to wait around forever.
 
Rona (SARS CoV2) doesn’t scare me. I had it twice. It’s a cold. The other two are what scares me. Especially right now, since M/P is 99% in the G@y community. Explain that to the wife.

I’d hope if I was desperate and cursing anonymous. I would find a married bi man. Who isn’t into one hit wonders
 
I just discovered the absolute DREAM of a bi-weekly bi-sexual party, a few weeks ago, with everything from a 90 lb power-bottom twink to bi couples, to both MTF and FTM trans participants, depending on the party, but I can't make myself return, because of the risks involved. I want to curse the universe. Maybe, someday, I'll find a local friend with whom to cross some boundaries. As a result of that party, I've found venues to fill virtually every one of my bucket-list items, and there's too darned much risk to go through with it.
 
Rona (SARS CoV2) doesn’t scare me. I had it twice. It’s a cold. The other two are what scares me. Especially right now, since M/P is 99% in the G@y community. Explain that to the wife.

I’d hope if I was desperate and cursing anonymous. I would find a married bi man. Who isn’t into one hit wonders
I also want to find a married bi guy like myself. Married but no sex for almost 3 years. . STD'S really worry me.
 
Considering I'm a married man and the fun would be finding another married man, I feel the odds of either of us having an STD or STI are extremely low. I'd move forward logistically speaking but I wouldn't actually do that to my wife. I know it would crush her. "Yes, but no," is my answer here.
 
Considering I'm a married man and the fun would be finding another married man, I feel the odds of either of us having an STD or STI are extremely low. I'd move forward logistically speaking but I wouldn't actually do that to my wife. I know it would crush her. "Yes, but no," is my answer here.
Same spot here, Davion.

Go Blue!
 
I'm not a first timer, but the last time was a very long time ago that I sucked a cock. As much as I'd love to give head to someone, that is my over-riding concern, to not take health risks. I agree that a married man who is just as concerned is my best bet. I am divorced, so perhaps I am at a disadvantage, but as I don't really want reciprocation, the person I give a blowjob to has little to worry about. It's a matter of finding that careful guy.
 
I'm not a first timer, but the last time was a very long time ago that I sucked a cock. As much as I'd love to give head to someone, that is my over-riding concern, to not take health risks. I agree that a married man who is just as concerned is my best bet. I am divorced, so perhaps I am at a disadvantage, but as I don't really want reciprocation, the person I give a blowjob to has little to worry about. It's a matter of finding that careful guy.
There is never going to be a 'perfect' time to open up and explore your sexuality.
There's no point in indefinitely postponing that cocksucking moment until the stars are in the correct alignment.
You just have to go for it, and trust that things work out fine. When it comes to giving and receiving pleasure there is a generous margin for fumbling and imperfections...
 
Rona (SARS CoV2) doesn’t scare me. I had it twice. It’s a cold. The other two are what scares me. Especially right now, since M/P is 99% in the G@y community. Explain that to the wife.

I’d hope if I was desperate and cursing anonymous. I would find a married bi man. Who isn’t into one hit wonders
I’m down for that if you’re in the north central Texas area.
 
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