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[DrivingSouth]

When you are having sex with a man (without a condom), can you actually feel when he is cumming inside of you? I mean can you feel the ejaculate shooting out into you??

 

[Eilan]

No...

 

[WriterDom]

Had a woman tell me she could tell if I was about to cum from the swelling of my cock.

 

[lizaveta]

Nope.

 

[SweetErika]

Nope. There aren't enough nerve endings in the top 2/3 of the vagina to feel the ejaculate spurting out. Other things, like cock movement and the spread of additional fluid, can be felt, but it doesn't sound like that's what you're referring to.

The 'she came as soon as she felt the jet of hot cum deep inside her pussy' type of description isn't quite as bad as 'her screams of pain as his big cock tore her hymen immediately turned into moans of pleasure as she came,' and similar crap in a lot of stories, but it comes really close (and generally indicates the author is a virgin/incredibly inexperienced, terribly misinformed or doesn't know a damn thing about sex).

So, as a stickler for realism, I commend you on trying to get cozier with the facts, whether you're researching for a story or just trying to increase your general knowledge base.

 

[SweetErika]

Nope.

Whoa! Fancy seeing you around these here parts!

You've been missed.

 

[lizaveta]

Whoa! Fancy seeing you around these here parts!

You've been missed.

I've missed you, too! It's been a strange time in my life and I'm really glad to be back.

 

[KellysCrack]

When you are having sex with a man (without a condom), can you actually feel when he is cumming inside of you? I mean can you feel the ejaculate shooting out into you??

I wouldnt say that you would always feel the man cumming inside; however most times you can feel the cock become harder. Lets face it, it is really hard for a man to hide his orgasm. I can tell but then I have been married to mine for some time now so we have become very in tune...

 

[RandomAssGuy]

My ex wife always knew even when we used condoms.

 

[lizaveta]

My ex wife always knew even when we used condoms.

Oh I KNOW when he's coming. I just can't feel it splashing about.

 

[burkina]

I usually can, but its more about the *twitching* that goes on than the fluid, that you feel only a few seconds later

 

[infinity706]

Nope. There aren't enough nerve endings in the top 2/3 of the vagina to feel the ejaculate spurting out. Other things, like cock movement and the spread of additional fluid, can be felt, but it doesn't sound like that's what you're referring to.

The 'she came as soon as she felt the jet of hot cum deep inside her pussy' type of description isn't quite as bad as 'her screams of pain as his big cock tore her hymen immediately turned into moans of pleasure as she came,' and similar crap in a lot of stories, but it comes really close (and generally indicates the author is a virgin/incredibly inexperienced, terribly misinformed or doesn't know a damn thing about sex).

So, as a stickler for realism, I commend you on trying to get cozier with the facts, whether you're researching for a story or just trying to increase your general knowledge base.

Sure, it's not realistic, but it works ok for some kind of super stud story or you're wanting to use a bit of dramatic license for better storytelling. If, for example you have a heroine that is known to have unnatural sexual ability, it might be reasonable. Of course, simultaneous climax is possible despite not actually being able to feel the cum spurting. I certainly don't buy it happening on the first time, though. I've managed to pull it off exactly once in my entire sex history. I actually sort of like the jet of "hot cum line" better than "they came together" even though it's not factually accurate.

I could possibly see the hymen thing, though, if it was some virgin that was turned on to the point she was practically begging to cum. Afterall, some women can get off on a direct clit whipping when they're really turned on, and I doubt it would hurt that much more. I just don't see a virgin being that aroused that the quick burst of pain is going to push her over the edge. Now, maybe if she's a highly trained sub that just happens to be getting her first cock up her tight little cunt hole or something, there's a chance it could happen.

I guess it just depends on the context of the story whether you can get away with some things. You're right that there's a lot of unrealistic shit, in many stories, though.

 

[Derya]

I do

I feel when the male orgasms....and I sometimes feel the ejaculate as well but I think that's probably not really as it spurts forth more as it fills me and reaches all my skin. I definitely can feel the pulsating and muscle contractions of the penis as he's preparing to and does orgasm.

 

[RandomAssGuy]

What about if a guy is in a womans ass, just curious, but I guess it would be about the same.

Also, what if the guy was just barely inside the vagina? I hear theres a whoel lot more nerve endings towards the entrance. Just curious.

 

[KellysCrack]

What about if a guy is in a womans ass, just curious, but I guess it would be about the same.

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At that point in the game I am too over come with mine to be focused...(too many ooooo's) so I will blame my ignorance on lack of attention..

 

[Cattypuss]

I can tell but only from the twitching

 

[boutrosboutros]

I can tell but only from the twitching

Makes it sound like some kind of weird fit!

 

[simplegirl]

I feel his contractions, depending on how intense his orgasm is. But not the cum splashing/shooting out.

 

[sarahtalksdirty]

I don't think I can feel him actually ejaculating inside me but usually can tell he's getting close from a variety of other things (his breathing, rhythm, how deep he thrusts, what/how he grabs hold of your body).

Those last few thrusts after he's cum inside I think you can tell, even if your are very wet or well lubed there's a distinctly different feel.

The weird thing is I seem to be able to tell some time before my boyfriend does that he's going to cum when I'm giving a blowjob. Not exactly sure what it is, must be some sensation on my lips or tongue that gives me a clue.

When having sex doggystyle position I always think I can hear when he's getting close by the sound of his balls bouncing against my ass as he thrusts.

Maybe I'm just weird Think its mostly all the small details you pick up from knowing your sexual partner very well.

 

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[CWatson]

Hmm, you learn something new every day.

(I swear, we of the encockled persuasion need to start a thread or a wiki or something on "Stuff men think women do but actually they don't, as attested to by those women themselves." Then we can start a companionate wiki for "Stuff women think MEN do but actually they don't." Topic #1: housecleaning. )

 

[Cattypuss]

Makes it sound like some kind of weird fit!

Well isn't it?

 

[infinity706]

As for the anal thing, once you get past the sphincter, I can't feel anything at all other than pain with the exception of the prostate. Nevermind a cumshot, I can't even feel a finger stroking the walls. Unless I'm just weird, there's no sense of touch, pressure, or temperature at all.

 

[hisgypsy]

Hmm, you learn something new every day.

(I swear, we of the encockled persuasion need to start a thread or a wiki or something on "Stuff men think women do but actually they don't, as attested to by those women themselves." Then we can start a companionate wiki for "Stuff women think MEN do but actually they don't." Topic #1: housecleaning. )

No man has ever fooled me into thinking he does housecleaning!

Actually, not true...mine vacuums for me.

 

[hisgypsy]

And as far as being able to feel the ejaculate, I've never known a woman who did. Just before orgasm, a man's cock will swell, which produces a wonderful sensation. That's the only way I can tell, well...except for the faster breathing and moans.