For the Women: Anal Stimulation During Intercourse

[Happy_Wife_Happy_Life]

Ladies, and I guess gentlemen in your experiences with women, do you enjoy anal stimulation during intercourse? And if so, do you also have anal sex?

So, my wife and I tried anal sex a long time ago and she wasn't a huge fan. Looking back maybe there were some things I should have done different. If we don't have anal sex again I will be just fine but I do enjoy playing with her anus during foreplay and/or sex. However, she is pretty reserved about it. Usually she will move my hand away but I often think of one time when she was on top riding me and I was rubbing my finger around her rosebud and even inserted a digit in. She was super into it and even voiced displeasure when my finger slipped out. But even since then she continues to act as if she doesn't like it. I've asked her how she feels when I'm fingering her pussy and put some pressure on her asshole and she just says "it's ok". This is a huge turn on for me and I feel like she likes it more than she wants to let on.

On a side note, she loves to play with my anus. She loves to insert a finger or toy and she gets incredibly wet when she does. I'm just not sure why she would be ok with playing with me but doesn't want me to play with her...
Thoughts?

 

[strongx]

I had a girlfriend who wasn't interested in anal, but encouraged me to put a finger in there while we had sex. Then one day she bought a small vibrator and from then on her favorite thing was to use that at the same time. It was my favorite thing, too.

Being in her pussy while the vibrator was in her butt was out of this world. The only concern was I had to concentrate hard not to cum almost immediately when she turned it on. But with diligent practice I was able to regain my normal control...

 

[Happy_Wife_Happy_Life]

I had a girlfriend who wasn't interested in anal, but encouraged me to put a finger in there while we had sex. Then one day she bought a small vibrator and from then on her favorite thing was to use that at the same time. It was my favorite thing, too.

Being in her pussy while the vibrator was in her butt was out of this world. The only concern was I had to concentrate hard not to cum almost immediately when she turned it on. But with diligent practice I was able to regain my normal control...

Wow, I know it would take me a while to build up a tolerance for that! Most times when I even get to play with her anus for a few seconds I lose control pretty quickly

 

[Alanija]

I enjoy it under the right circumstances. It does feel weirdly embarrassing to me so I wouldn't ask for it and would perhaps even resist it a bit due to that embarrassment, but at the same time I'd enjoy him doing it. Personally I like my partners to override my objections and push my boundaries but that might just be me... (unless of course I use a safeword which I don't think I've ever needed to use)

 

[Twitche]

I enjoy it under the right circumstances. It does feel weirdly embarrassing to me so I wouldn't ask for it and would perhaps even resist it a bit due to that embarrassment, but at the same time I'd enjoy him doing it. Personally I like my partners to override my objections and push my boundaries but that might just be me... (unless of course I use a safeword which I don't think I've ever needed to use)

I’m in the same boat. Decades ago, I enjoyed anal with my ex with no issue. Recently, I’ve been encouraging my husband to try. I’ve mostly been hesitant with him because embarrassment should things happen to get a little messy. He is a wonderful father and husband, but hands down would toss me a puking child or one that needed a change. He has a weak stomach, so I’m super sensitive to scaring him off. Lol. I began to initiate anal play in the shower, which he was very open to. Much to my happiness we’ve had full anal in the shower a few time, which I’m happy to report he very much enjoyed. I’ve got to work with getting him out of the shower now. time and patience.

To the OP, I think you need to communicate a lot with her. She needs to be in control, maybe she is afraid it will hurt? We had one failed anal attempt this weekend, I was way too horny and in too much of a rush. I was way past feeling relaxed. We just blew it off and went to plan “B”. You’ve got to be flexible. I like the recommendation of a vibrator, the smaller the better. Get her very used to it on the outside before inserting.

 

[EricaIsFun]

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[Happy_Wife_Happy_Life]

I’m in the same boat. Decades ago, I enjoyed anal with my ex with no issue. Recently, I’ve been encouraging my husband to try. I’ve mostly been hesitant with him because embarrassment should things happen to get a little messy. He is a wonderful father and husband, but hands down would toss me a puking child or one that needed a change. He has a weak stomach, so I’m super sensitive to scaring him off. Lol. I began to initiate anal play in the shower, which he was very open to. Much to my happiness we’ve had full anal in the shower a few time, which I’m happy to report he very much enjoyed. I’ve got to work with getting him out of the shower now. time and patience.

To the OP, I think you need to communicate a lot with her. She needs to be in control, maybe she is afraid it will hurt? We had one failed anal attempt this weekend, I was way too horny and in too much of a rush. I was way past feeling relaxed. We just blew it off and went to plan “B”. You’ve got to be flexible. I like the recommendation of a vibrator, the smaller the better. Get her very used to it on the outside before inserting.

Thanks for the reply! I really am fine with not having anal sex but I do enjoy just playing using my fingers! We're still working on the communication thing when it comes to sex. She doesn't like to talk about it and is not very vocal. Basically, everything is a blind try. She says she's going to try and be more vocal though. We'll see

 

[Bigaug]

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[peesweetie]

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I’m in the same boat. Decades ago, I enjoyed anal with my ex with no issue. Recently, I’ve been encouraging my husband to try. I’ve mostly been hesitant with him because embarrassment should things happen to get a little messy. He is a wonderful father and husband, but hands down would toss me a puking child or one that needed a change. He has a weak stomach, so I’m super sensitive to scaring him off. Lol. I began to initiate anal play in the shower, which he was very open to. Much to my happiness we’ve had full anal in the shower a few time, which I’m happy to report he very much enjoyed. I’ve got to work with getting him out of the shower now. time and patience.

To the OP, I think you need to communicate a lot with her. She needs to be in control, maybe she is afraid it will hurt? We had one failed anal attempt this weekend, I was way too horny and in too much of a rush. I was way past feeling relaxed. We just blew it off and went to plan “B”. You’ve got to be flexible. I like the recommendation of a vibrator, the smaller the better. Get her very used to it on the outside before inserting.

I enjoy anal stimulation while anything is happening to my pussy. But nothing goes in unless I’ve not eaten for hours, gone through a full enema, and already warmed myself up. Shower anal is the ideal because I can pee during without him knowing and squirt when I cum. Trying to have anal without being able to push out is much less pleasant.

 

[Studly222]

I enjoy anal stimulation while anything is happening to my pussy. But nothing goes in unless I’ve not eaten for hours, gone through a full enema, and already warmed myself up. Shower anal is the ideal because I can pee during without him knowing and squirt when I cum. Trying to have anal without being able to push out is much less pleasant.

I love anal sex. It is too hard to find a lady who enjoys it. Would love to hear from you if you are female and into it

 

[chame1eon]

Yup dp is the best. Takes longer but much better than clit orgasms.

 

[FL30]

Lube, lots of lube

makes it so much easier and more enjoyable

 

[chame1eon]

Lube, lots of lube

makes it so much easier and more enjoyable

Could be why she doesn't like it. You should try coconut oil. It doesn't irritate you like scented lubes.

 

[Osculum]

It’s an occasional pleasure for us. Most of the time she’s not into it .... but when she wants anal stimulation, she REALLY wants it. And of course I’m happy to oblige.

 

[Just4AFriend]

Coconut oil?!

Check!

 

[anniebaby10]

Yup dp is the best. Takes longer but much better than clit orgasms.

An anal plug while being fucked is heavenly..

 

[chame1eon]

An anal plug while being fucked is heavenly..

Or a vibe with butt sex. The vibe makes it hard for him not to cum though.

 

[AnalLady]

I enjoy it under the right circumstances. It does feel weirdly embarrassing to me so I wouldn't ask for it and would perhaps even resist it a bit due to that embarrassment, but at the same time I'd enjoy him doing it. Personally I like my partners to override my objections and push my boundaries but that might just be me... (unless of course I use a safeword which I don't think I've ever needed to use)

Why should you have objections in the first place?