For the men: how many times can you go in a row?

[John1980]

I was discussing masturbation with a few friends of mine and I was suprised to hear that few of them ever gave themselves more than one orgasm when they masturbated.

Myself I like to go for 2 or 3 most of the times, and a few more if I'm all excited or haven't done it in a long time. I even did 11 once, though none of my friend believed that. Every orgasm with no more than 5minutes in between. I can usually pull off the second within a minute after the first one.

I don't work out on a regular basis, and my stamina isn't that great either, but from what I have read I think what i can do is a little above the average (correct me if i'm wrong). So that's why i'm interested in knowing what is "normal" for you guys.

 

[huskie]

Above avg or not...... I'm not sure??

I'm thirty five. I jack off about three times the other night in say under an hour.
I don't know if thats good, bad or what?

 

[lilpriss]

WHOA! GUYS GUYS GUYS....

Is there a competetion that I dont' know about? And wow huskie... frustrated were we? I don't know about guys masturbating... I will keep up wiht this thread just to see what is said...

 

[huskie]

WHOA! GUYS GUYS GUYS....

Is there a competetion that I dont' know about? And wow huskie... frustrated were we? I don't know about guys masturbating... I will keep up wiht this thread just to see what is said...

It's not an every day thing. I took his question as "if given the opportunity, how many times could you". Hell, if my wife wanted me to I'd find a way to fuck her all day.... if thats what she wanted.

 

[kentp69]

I think your above average....

I typically masturbate everyday and sometimes I do satisfy myself twice with about 15 minutes in between. On occassion I will come home and masturbate myself and then have sex with my wife later that evening, It tends to put me into a better mood for the evening. She has not grasp the concept of a little stress relief.

 

[John1980]

WHOA! GUYS GUYS GUYS....

Is there a competetion that I dont' know about? And wow huskie... frustrated were we? I don't know about guys masturbating... I will keep up wiht this thread just to see what is said...

hehe, no not a competition at all. I'm just really curious about this because I have only asked a few friends, and I can't really find out anything more without asking complete strangers. Which i wouldn't dare to do anywhere but here

So all feedback is appreciated

 

[Pdxmwm]

Other things on my mind

Several years ago, a friend of mine introduced me to Tantra, and some of the underlying physical techniques. After a lot of practice (fun practice), I finally was able to separate orgasm and ejaculation. Yes, it’s possible for a man to climax without ejaculating; however, I haven’t been able to go the other way, i.e. ejaculation without climax. By suppressing ejaculation, I’m able to climax several times during a single coupling (can’t tell you how many, I have other things on my mind at the time).

Thank goodness I learned this earlier in life, now when I “shoot my wad”, I’m out of commission for several hours. I guess that’s what happens when you creep up on the sunny side of 60.

 

[coolr]

the original post, needs to clarify weather u mean having an orgasm or ejaculating, like the above person said it is possible to have multiple orgasms w/out ejaculating for men. whenever i masturbate, takes me a good 45 minutes to an hour to get me to the point where i'll ejaculate, but i usually have several small orgasms until that time, i've never wanted to masturbate for longer than that cause it's just a waste of time to me lol, masturbating for a couple hours...... hmmmm i think i'd find something better to do, but during sex if i need anytime at all between times that i cum it's about 5 minutes, and yes ppl have told me this is abnormal including my doctor =/

 

[John1980]

Im talking about orgasms with ejaculation. I've never experienced it without so i can't relate to that. It seems stamina and the ability to go on and then shoot again varies a lot from what i've read so far.

 

[coolr]

i'll say this just because, but from what i've heard about 3-6 times (a big gap) seems to be the norm

 

[Timeus]

Tantric-hope it's true

Several years ago, a friend of mine introduced me to Tantra, and some of the underlying physical techniques. After a lot of practice (fun practice), I finally was able to separate orgasm and ejaculation. Yes, it’s possible for a man to climax without ejaculating; however, I haven’t been able to go the other way, i.e. ejaculation without climax. By suppressing ejaculation, I’m able to climax several times during a single coupling (can’t tell you how many, I have other things on my mind at the time).

Thank goodness I learned this earlier in life, now when I “shoot my wad”, I’m out of commission for several hours. I guess that’s what happens when you creep up on the sunny side of 60.

So let us know more!
I've read about those PC exercises and I can clench as many times as you like--up to 200. But I've never been able to avoid ejaculating with a climax. Maybe it's because I'm a screamer and groaner.

A lot of books say climax and ejaculation are different and non-simultaneous, but with as much phenomenology as I can muster, it seems absolutely simultaneous with me, sometimes ejaculation going a little longer.
So anyway, what's the secret?
T.

 

[lilpriss]

Huskie, I just read my last post... I sounded pretty harsh, forgive me...

I know the original question was asking about guys but I usually orgasm about twice when I orgasm... sometimes more....


So I can relate if it is frustration ... totally

 

[Pdxmwm]

Re: Tantric-hope it's true

So let us know more!
I've read about those PC exercises and I can clench as many times as you like--up to 200. But I've never been able to avoid ejaculating with a climax. Maybe it's because I'm a screamer and groaner.

A lot of books say climax and ejaculation are different and non-simultaneous, but with as much phenomenology as I can muster, it seems absolutely simultaneous with me, sometimes ejaculation going a little longer.
So anyway, what's the secret?
T.

Part of the material here is very similar to a posting of mine under “Stamina”; my apologies to any who object to the repetition.

Climax and Ejaculation are really different, though I must say, that by postponing ejaculation, my preliminary climaxes are minimal compared to what I feel when I finally let go. In fact, I have never felt any thing even close to what I experience after delaying ejaculation through 4 or more “mini” climaxes. I can still have a “normal” orgasm, complete with ejaculation, if I choose to. For instance when I’m alone, or when my partner and I just don’t have the energy for anything more.

The delayed orgasm is so strong, that I have to warn any new partner about what to expect. From all outward appearances, you would guess I’m having a stroke. The muscles in my shoulders, back, and legs cramp, my breathing and heart rate go way up, and my vision narrows to almost nothing, I could be in the middle of a hurricane, and wouldn’t know what was going on. The only thing I’m aware of is the person I’m making love with. I’ll use my last bit of self control, to delay the inevitable, trying to time my ejaculation and orgasm to be simultaneous with that of my partner.

After it finally comes, I’m very chilled, and start to shiver uncontrollably; as I start to relax, and return to earth, I need to hold and be held. My girlfriend and I save this activity for special times, knowing it will leave us both totally drained, but then it’s a wonderful way to drift off to sleep, while holding each other close.

So if you want to try it, pick up a copy of a book entitled How to Make Love All Night (and Drive a Woman Wild), by Barbara Keesling.
http://shop.barnesandnoble.com/book...17189151&brg=y

I’d suggest reading it cover to cover, then re-reading it together with your partner. There’s a whole series of very entertaining exercises you can do together.

The basic idea, is for you and your partner to become aware of the various levels of arousal you can feel, and then to try to extend each level for as long as possible. For instance, level one might be something akin to daydreaming about how beautiful your lover is. Level two could be when you are starting to get a bit warm. Level 3, and you have an erection. Each successive level takes you up a notch till at level 10, you can’t contain yourself any longer, and bang, you go over the cliff. The big difference is, that when you finally go over the cliff, you have a long, long, way to fall.

The same techniques work for both men and women, and that’s why it’s fun to have a partner, and practice these exercises on each other Yes, it’s much more fun to be caressing and playing with each other, then it is to be solo.

The exercises will have you playing yo-yo with your level of arousal. Early on you may go up to a level 3, then back to a level 2. The next time around, you go a bit higher, and then slip back a step or two. By now I think you get the idea. Believe me, it’s a lot of fun. You and your friend will get so hot, and want each other so much, that you’ll think you’re about to burst.

Besides running your emotions up and down, the exercises teach you how to hold back, when you think you can’t. These exercises include breath control, and muscle control, mostly your PC muscles.

I first became aware of these techniques while reading of Tantra. There is a very good introduction at www.tantra.org . This is also a fun site to explore with your lover, especially the “Yoni” and “Lingam” massage. Some of the material gets pretty involved with pseudo-religious concepts; take them for what you feel they’re worth, or move on to the physical techniques.


Good Luck, and have fun. As I mentioned earlier, I wish I had learned about this when I was 20.

 

[Nefarious]

Male multiple orgasm

Doubt the following if you will, but my last girlfriend and I know it's true. We discovered that when I pulled out of her pussy and pinched off the flow just prior to ejaculation, I could come in her mouth and remain hard enough to continue fucking, with no recovery period. One evening we repeated this 5 times in one hour, without me ever going soft. I have never studied Tantra, it's just something we stumbled upon, and it worked for us. Admittedly, subsequent ejaculations diminish in quantity, but the rigidity of the erection is unaffected. I was in my late 30's when we discovered this. Guys, try this and tell me if it works for you.

 

[Sex & Diamonds]

Re: Male multiple orgasm

Doubt the following if you will, but my last girlfriend and I know it's true. We discovered that when I pulled out of her pussy and pinched off the flow just prior to ejaculation, I could come in her mouth and remain hard enough to continue fucking, with no recovery period.

Just where excatly are you "pinching" ?

 

[coolr]

Re: Male multiple orgasm

Doubt the following if you will, but my last girlfriend and I know it's true. We discovered that when I pulled out of her pussy and pinched off the flow just prior to ejaculation, I could come in her mouth and remain hard enough to continue fucking, with no recovery period. One evening we repeated this 5 times in one hour, without me ever going soft. I have never studied Tantra, it's just something we stumbled upon, and it worked for us. Admittedly, subsequent ejaculations diminish in quantity, but the rigidity of the erection is unaffected. I was in my late 30's when we discovered this. Guys, try this and tell me if it works for you.

for any that might be doubting it, it's 100% true, i don't know if he knew this or not when he did it, but it's actually a technique, crude but effective, to prolong the time you're able to stay hard, which by the time it wears off ur usually restimulated. and you pinch at the base of the penis, i don't know how hard, but i'd guess fairly hard, i haven't done it, but have read it in MANY sex advice manuals and material of the type

 

[Nefarious]

Clarification on Pinching

Have you ever noticed that if, during orgasm, you squeeze the base of the penis, hard enough to prevent ejaculation, the penis spasms repeatedly? I was demonstrating this to my girlfriend, who was tripping on seeing what she normally only felt. After a few seconds of observing my penis throbbing in an attempt to finish ejaculation, she kindly placed her mouth over the head of it and released her grip, remarking about the larger than normal volume of the cumshot. We were pleasantly surprised to discover that the delay between the onset of orgasm and the release of the flow resulted in the ability to return to action immediately. Repeating the technique proved that it was not a fluke, and it became a regular part of our repertoir that we used when she was in a mood to be fucked hard, fast and repeatedly.

 

[The Gimp]

How many times isn't really a valid quesetion for me. With a few minutes of rest and suficcent motivation I can recover from cumming and continue within a few minutes, and when I do round two lasts considerably longer than round one. I can go five minutes, cum, and follow it up with an hour uninterupted if I really feel like it. On a rare occasion I'll do a double or even a triple take but its tiring and not much more fulfilling than just going once so more often than not I don't bother. Its much easier to do foreplay, oral play, and cum followed by deep sleep.

 

[cactiphile]

While masturbating I always cum at least three times in row,
within about a 5 minute span . I have come up to 10 times in a 30 minute space. Also I am talking about full ejac orgasms,
although theres not much left to pump when you get past the 5 or 6th.... If I continue stimulation I don't get soft in between.

With sex its harder (or softer as the case maybe) to keep
up the required stimulation, and about 3 times is maximum in
a row and its very hard work.

I used the PC exercises to help control my orgasms about 5 years ago and multiple orgasms seemed to be the result of this


c.

 

[Vinny]

Orgasms

I personally masterbate to get one good orgasm. However, when I have sex, my cock stays hard after cumming fpor a long time and I can usually go two more times in a row.

 

[lilpriss]

YOU GUYS ARE KILLING ME!

LOL I am intrigued... keep up the posts...

I thought guys msturbated for the release... I know I crack jokes all the time about how much more efficient my fingers are than actually having sex... I usually enjoy the orgasm more when with a partner... but I can bring myself off EVERY TIME...

I didn't even think about imroving your stamina.... GO BOYS GO!

 

[candysuttan]

my hubby can cum about 3 times a night but each time it gets longer apart so it last for hours....I'll never complain

 

[H'venlee]

Hmmm....

Ok...I need someone to teach this to my husband!!!! He's a one shot wonder then it's all about sleep! I actually was amazed when a man told he he could do it more than once!!!! Never knew that before.

Interesting what you can learn on the Web!

 

[Nefarious]

'Tag Team' Multiple Orgasms

In the mid '80s, I was a member of a MMF threesome that shared roughly 300 nights together. When we started, I was 23, my buddy was 33, and his wife was 27. After a rather intense session, he and I were congratulating each other for having come 3 times each that evening. She broached the subject of adding a third guy to the mix. My buddy spoke up with something to the effect of 'We gave you all the sex you could handle.' She lovingly corrected him, 'No, I gave you all the sex you guys could handle. I spent lots of time trying to get you guys hard enough to do me.' We had to admit that she was right, and we set about improving. Our tag team technique was the result.
He and I agreed to synchronize our actions so that she was never without a cock hard enough to give her the pounding she was after. When she was having her way with one of us, she and the lucky penetrator were busy sucking the cock of the guy on 'standby'. She would insure that the cock in her mouth was hard before she would start to concentrate on her orgasm. The lucky stiff would read her signs and time his release to be simultaneous with her climax. She would revel in her orgasm, and then when she felt the end of the ejaculatory spams, she would buck off the spent guy and recieve the reliever. The newly soft guy would then become the object of the oral attentions of the active copulators, and the fucking would begin anew.
Oh, how I love seconds! The obscene squishy sounds of REALLY wet sex are such a turn on! After polishing this technique for a few nights, she had to admit that she doubted that a third guy would improve things. One memorable evening, about 6 hours long, saw us 2 guys provide her with 7 simultaneous orgasms each! I felt I had an 8th ejaculation in me, but it would have been bad form to show up the host, so as she sucked her husband, I brought her to orgasm for her 15th time that night with my tongue. Yes, I cleaned up her pussy that had recieved 14 cumshots in one session.
When we were getting up the next morning, we looked out a bedroom window and noticed an entire pack's worth of cigarette butts on the ground. Someone had stood there for quite a while eavesdropping on us that night. We never did figure out the identity of the audio voyeur.

 

[Guest]

I guess I'm the oddball... Once I cum (by myself or not, doesn't matter) it's a good couple of hours (typically) before I can even get hard again. If I get off again, its got to be REALLY hot and heavy. It so happened that one time I got oral sex in the morning, and couldn't come again almost 12 hours later. Sometimes it hurts after the second time......