Erozetta
Erotically Inclined
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- Feb 23, 2024
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The reason I didn't name names is the same reason I struggle with interacting on social media. I never know when it's okay to call attention to others and when I shouldn't. Unless someone explicitly tells me they are okay with being named or praised publicly, I struggle to do that because it's a thing that I don't like for myself. It makes me uncomfortable to put a spotlight on people who may or may not want that spotlight on them.
I second guessed myself for listing a story and author in the other thread. It made me extremely uncomfortable and I almost deleted my post, but he heart reacted to the post, so I was more comfortable giving details of why I chose that story. Most of the authors I would spotlight aren't all that active here currently and I would feel very uncomfortable drawing attention to them without knowing they are 100% okay with it.
I don't give detailed reviews of authors unless I've read the majority of their works and there are only two authors here I can say that about. Both are friends. I've spoken to each of them on the phone level of friendship. So it also feels awkward to name them knowing I'd only be doing so because I have a deeper knowledge of who they are and how they write due to how often we talk.
It's definitely a "me" issue.
I second guessed myself for listing a story and author in the other thread. It made me extremely uncomfortable and I almost deleted my post, but he heart reacted to the post, so I was more comfortable giving details of why I chose that story. Most of the authors I would spotlight aren't all that active here currently and I would feel very uncomfortable drawing attention to them without knowing they are 100% okay with it.
I don't give detailed reviews of authors unless I've read the majority of their works and there are only two authors here I can say that about. Both are friends. I've spoken to each of them on the phone level of friendship. So it also feels awkward to name them knowing I'd only be doing so because I have a deeper knowledge of who they are and how they write due to how often we talk.
It's definitely a "me" issue.