For the Ladies...esp Fem Dommes

[cyber707]

Hey all, im looking for any ideas you have for dominating a willing male. my boyfriend is doing the whole 40 days 40 nights of abstinence so on day 41 we've booked a little cottage for a day of...

nayways, he is very willing to be my sub, but iv no idea how to go about this. being assertive isnt the problem. im just not all that creative, so im extending an invitation to you. any and all ideas are welcome, esp for things i can make him do, punishment, ways for him to worship me ect, also iv got a real kink for humiliation but iv never done it so i really need sum help here!

i look forward to all your suggestions. and dont worry he wont read any of the posts even though its his account, coz he has such a weakness 4 lit that he cant log on without cumming

 

[AlphaSheWolf]

Forty days and forty nights with NO experience?
Sure is going to be long....I would suggest getting a good chastity cage to begin with that will work for the both of you - your lifestyles. There are so many out there to choose from, I'm not even going to start. I just know what I prefer and won't push a certain style or brand onto you.

 

[Dread_Pirate_Roberts]

Maybe you should research what it means to be a good Dom/Domme here on the older threads, you can get a lot of ideas. There is a lot to learn to make sure both of you have a good time, and that you are not going to do anything that your partner may not appreciate. I understand that you are looking more for a fantasy night than a lifestyle but you do need to talk to your partner first. You need an agreed safe word in case you go too far and your partner becomes uncomfortable. You have to find out what he would really like to happen. Does he want to be humiliated, hurt, talked down to, lead around by a leash, or just told what to do? All of this has to be dealt with before you can even start to think of a scenario to act out.
Good luck and stay safe,
Dread.

 

[myinnerslut]

40 days and 40 nights!?!? i envy his willpower. the worst non physical punishment my Sir has evr given me was a full 2 weeks without cumming, and that was HARD!!! but i digress...


since this is supposed to be fun for both of you, try to find out what he means when he says hes willing to be your sub. is he looking for pain? humiliation? to serve? take whatever it is that he means when he says he wants t o obe submissive and include it in your weekend of as for creative domme ideas, check out some of the stories in the BDSM section of lit to start your brainstorming. be safe and have fun

 

[cyber707]

Thanx all for your replies

they're very insightful! my boyfrined and i have been talking bout it every night. he is so desperate for it, its unbelievable! he confessed that the main reason that he wants me to dominate him is that he feels his pleasure will be much greater in my capable hands coz after 40 days and 40 nights, he'll be humpming the walls and it'll be all over in 2ticks.

also his other reasons are that he is very assertive and he is the kinda guy that gets what he wants, not by force, but more by persuasion, he is really too suave for his own good. anyways the thought of not being in control is exciting and he feels safe coz it's me.

he also reckons that im too willing to please and i need to make him work for it, i need to make him appreciate how good his getting it and i need to definately realise just how much power and control i have over him, regardless of his love for me, but purely as a beautiful woman. (you can see how he is making all this sound all too tempting

anyways at the risk of freaking me out he says he'd like to be humiliated, punished, chastized, a little bit of pain (some spanking), definately servitude, he ran me thru a scenario just to help me get an idea.

first he wants me to make him strip naked in the centre of the room, then at my leisure inspect him, make him pose, or expose himself in manners that may seem embarrassing coz he has put on a bit of winter weight. so im guessing he wants to be humbled.

then he suggested i give him a lap dance to get him all worked up, really hot & bothered...at which point he'll be gagging for sum action.

then i should stop all stimulation and make him please me for the next few hours in a very selfish way. the way i know him he'll want to be eating my pussy all day long!

neways he also wants me to push his boundaries...make him do things he ordinarily wouldn't. im thinking of some anal play...making him finger himself infront of me and his hardon will be a dead give away of him enjoy it, so im thinkn of making him feel gay. coz he is quite the alpha male, camping hiking fishing type, so it'll really fuck with his mind. then im thinkn of using my dildo on him. (thoughts please)

anyways when iv exausted all my domineering ideas, il give him the cum of a lifetime, using just my hands and mouth! and then il just hold him and let him suckle me...to make him feel wanted and warm+fuzzy. coz apparently thats essential in dom/sub play you need to counter it at the end...is this true?

our safeword is "peanut butter cheese cake"

please do gimme your feedback and more ideas will be welcomed. esp for humiliation and for servitude.

Much love

 

[Still Falling]

they're very insightful! my boyfrined and i have been talking bout it every night. he is so desperate for it, its unbelievable! he confessed that the main reason that he wants me to dominate him is that he feels his pleasure will be much greater in my capable hands coz after 40 days and 40 nights, he'll be humpming the walls and it'll be all over in 2ticks.

also his other reasons are that he is very assertive and he is the kinda guy that gets what he wants, not by force, but more by persuasion, he is really too suave for his own good. anyways the thought of not being in control is exciting and he feels safe coz it's me.

he also reckons that im too willing to please and i need to make him work for it, i need to make him appreciate how good his getting it and i need to definately realise just how much power and control i have over him, regardless of his love for me, but purely as a beautiful woman. (you can see how he is making all this sound all too tempting

anyways at the risk of freaking me out he says he'd like to be humiliated, punished, chastized, a little bit of pain (some spanking), definately servitude, he ran me thru a scenario just to help me get an idea.

first he wants me to make him strip naked in the centre of the room, then at my leisure inspect him, make him pose, or expose himself in manners that may seem embarrassing coz he has put on a bit of winter weight. so im guessing he wants to be humbled.

then he suggested i give him a lap dance to get him all worked up, really hot & bothered...at which point he'll be gagging for sum action.

then i should stop all stimulation and make him please me for the next few hours in a very selfish way. the way i know him he'll want to be eating my pussy all day long!

neways he also wants me to push his boundaries...make him do things he ordinarily wouldn't. im thinking of some anal play...making him finger himself infront of me and his hardon will be a dead give away of him enjoy it, so im thinkn of making him feel gay. coz he is quite the alpha male, camping hiking fishing type, so it'll really fuck with his mind. then im thinkn of using my dildo on him. (thoughts please)

anyways when iv exausted all my domineering ideas, il give him the cum of a lifetime, using just my hands and mouth! and then il just hold him and let him suckle me...to make him feel wanted and warm+fuzzy. coz apparently thats essential in dom/sub play you need to counter it at the end...is this true?

our safeword is "peanut butter cheese cake"

please do gimme your feedback and more ideas will be welcomed. esp for humiliation and for servitude.

Much love

Hey, just a question? Certainly sounds like the two of you have a lot of fun planned - but for someone who wants to be dominated he certainly seems to be dictating a lot of the terms? Just an observation from what you have described above (not a criticism). So going with that you could focus on dominating him in ways that are solely on your terms. Test his limits of self control - by not letting him cum that weekend.

 

[onyxvixen]

I would refrain from sticking a dildo up his ass, that sort of thing takes a little working up to.

He clearly wants to be humiliated a little and verbally this can be very powerful. Say everything with absolute purpose, give him some criteria to meet before he comes into your presence as a Domme (shaved pubic hair, freshly showered, wearing something you particularly like or no shorts, whatever). You can also dress for the part which will make you feel more dominant and in control, like having a mask or persona to put on that has no bearing on the loving gf/wife you are 24/7.

Start things slowly and go at your pace, not his. Don't be spurred on by his excitement. As this is new for you both, make sure you get consent for new things as you go. If you're unsure whether he's happy doing something, check. Asking him to beg for it is always a good way to tell, he won't beg for something he's not happy to do. Have safewords and if you gag him have a sign he can use.

Flip through the BDSM section of the stories on here, they'll give you loads of ideas. Remember though that most people fantasise above and beyond what they can cope with in RL so start him fairly slow and work up gradually to the more hardcore stuff, monitoring his rections the whole way. As you'll discover, there's quite a responsibility in being a Domme.

Finally, make sure you debrief after the 'scene' and allow him to tell you what he enjoyed and what he didn't, how the submission made him feel. With subs I've played with the phrase "You are released." has been a good way to mark the end of the scene and allow you both to shift into your normal dynamic.

Have fun and feel free to PM me if you'd like.

Vixen

 

[myinnerslut]

Test his limits of self control - by not letting him cum that weekend.

::shudder:: your mean!

my Sir used that as a (very effective) threat, but i usually am only denied orgasm once or twice a scene, not often the entire thing and never an entire weekend. i dont know how i'd survive, especially after 40 days, without cumming without permission and landing myself in a heap of trouble.

 

[cyber707]

good points...

once again im learning tons here, i tank you all!

its true he does seem to be dictating, but he said those are just examples of how things can go, coz i told him il cum up with sumthing, but im quite innocent in this regard so he understands i need the scene set and sum ideas for me to wrap my mind around things, no offence to anyone, but previously i never thought any of this could ever be fun and it was always a huge taboo, but that silver tongued boyfriend of mine brought this up so tactfully. he's done like one/2 very innocent but bdsm typed things in our session in the past and iv enjoyed them all, and he's made the day seem more of a day for hot fun with this as just one of the scenes. poor booy doesnt know im creaming myself just thinkn bout making him my love slave for an entire day

shoo, maybe that was overshare... anyways i do intend denying him orgasm the enitre session, but we will end with one, coz i mean he's held out 40 days by then.

iv also been toying with the idea of tying him up, and then stimulating him member for about an hour, but never enough to make him come, perhaps with a feather, spanking it with a watch strap, putting rubber bands around his cock and balls. i also thought that even though it might not tie in with the whole domme thing. coz i dunno wots the policy for a slaves pleasure... but im a very reserved kinda girl and he is the only one that gets me all hot & kinky, so anyways im imagining he'll be cumming buckets after hours of stimulation and over a month of no release, so i thought of letting him cum in my mouth and alova my face, coz i saw a bukkake website last night and well, the thought of looking like a depraved slut really gets my juices going. just typing this already has me squirming in my seat.

anyways..focus! so wot do you guys think of watersports? my boyfriend is a really kinky downright filthy barstad so im sure he'll be into it coz everytime he goes down on me/when he's playing with my pussy he urges me on to cum alova his face/spray/shower him with my cum. now im not a gusher unfortunately and i know cum and pe are very different, but i think he'll be into it. so im thinking of having him kneel in the shower and peeing on him. then making him lick my pussy clean.

also should i take a pair of panties that iv creamed and gag him with it/let it hang around his neck, coz a few week ago i was giving him a handjob and he started smiffing my panties, i thought it was so perverted, but i really got off on it, so as you can see theres still a whole lot of kinky in me that i havent even discovered yet.

speaking of which, i want him to give me a long and lasting rimming but i wanna be as clean as possible. any advice? how effective is an enema kit?

umm..yeah ok i think il stop asking question now and give my gurus time to reply!

Much love+a suacy lick!

PS: iv got this burning sensation between my legs and iv never felt this intense urgency to cum, does lit usually have this effect on you?

 

[FurryFury]

40 days? I don't understand that sort of thing. I resent every minute I'm not getting some, voluntarily going days without is just not something I would ever want to do. I know some are into that. Good for them. Good luck with your man too.

Fury

 

[cyber707]

point to prove...

40 days is an eternity for me, but its even longer for him i imagine. neways i think he's trying to prove that he loves me not just for the sex and also that he's willing to punish himself for me, probly as an incentive for me to see just how willing he is to submit!

 

[FurryFury]

40 days is an eternity for me, but its even longer for him i imagine. neways i think he's trying to prove that he loves me not just for the sex and also that he's willing to punish himself for me, probly as an incentive for me to see just how willing he is to submit!

Anything over three days in an eternity for me. I wouldn't want to put up with 40. If I was with a guy who wanted me to take charge and he wanted to do 40 days, I'd take charge and say no way. LOL!

As I said, good luck to your and yours. I hope this does what you both want it to.

Fury

 

[onyxvixen]

once again im learning tons here, i tank you all!

its true he does seem to be dictating, but he said those are just examples of how things can go, coz i told him il cum up with sumthing, but im quite innocent in this regard so he understands i need the scene set and sum ideas for me to wrap my mind around things, no offence to anyone, but previously i never thought any of this could ever be fun and it was always a huge taboo, but that silver tongued boyfriend of mine brought this up so tactfully. he's done like one/2 very innocent but bdsm typed things in our session in the past and iv enjoyed them all, and he's made the day seem more of a day for hot fun with this as just one of the scenes. poor booy doesnt know im creaming myself just thinkn bout making him my love slave for an entire day

There's nothing wrong with letting him do the homework for you. You could tease him further by asking him to write down ways in which he would like to serve you - his fantasies. This will give you lots of ideas that you can use or not use as you wish. It'll also get him turned on writing them but of course he cannot have any release.

anyways..focus! so wot do you guys think of watersports? my boyfriend is a really kinky downright filthy barstad so im sure he'll be into it coz everytime he goes down on me/when he's playing with my pussy he urges me on to cum alova his face/spray/shower him with my cum. now im not a gusher unfortunately and i know cum and pe are very different, but i think he'll be into it. so im thinking of having him kneel in the shower and peeing on him. then making him lick my pussy clean.

He'll either be into it or he won't. There's no hygiene issue with very fresh urine and if it really isn't something he feels able to do, allow him to say so.

speaking of which, i want him to give me a long and lasting rimming but i wanna be as clean as possible. any advice? how effective is an enema kit?

They're pretty effective but can make you feel a little strange. I find it's best to use one a little while beforehand because it will make you want to use the toilet and they do take a while to get the hang of. If he's as kinky as you say you might be able to persuade him to assist you with it.

PS: iv got this burning sensation between my legs and iv never felt this intense urgency to cum, does lit usually have this effect on you?

I assume you are free to masturbate during his period of abstinence? If so I suggest masturbating in front of him on occasion - just to make him squirm

 

[FurryFury]

<snip>I assume you are free to masturbate during his period of abstinence? If so I suggest masturbating in front of him on occasion - just to make him squirm

Oh I LIKE that bit of advice!



Fury

 

[cyber707]

Thats so strange...

"I assume you are free to masturbate during his period of abstinence? If so I suggest masturbating in front of him on occasion - just to make him squirm "

i must be getting the hang of all this dom play, coz last night i sat him in a chair facing the foot of the bed, and he'd had a long day at work so i gave him a neck and shoulder massage, then a head massage +every so often id press his head against my boobs and id hear him sigh+just sink into it. all the while we were talking, arb things, you know how the day was, ect.

neways i then whispered in his ear that massaging his big manly shoulders while listening to his deep voice was really getting me hot, so i blind folded him with his tie+told him to hold still. i then fetched more ties and tied him to the chair, hands+feet. then o slipped on a babydoll, luckily i was wearing my black lacy panties so that work well with the babdoll. neways i took off his blindfold and the look in his eyes was priceless, i could see every cell in his body wanting me. neways i teased him a bit telling him how silly it was that he's holding out, coz iv got needs+i really needed a good fucking!

then i slipped of my soaking wet panty and put it over his head, letting it hang around his neck, coz i knew the smell of my hot pussy would drive him wild. neways he was playing it cool, pretending like he could hold out the rest of the 40days, theres about two weeks left. so i told him i couldnt, i then straddled the chair and lifted one leg so that i could get my pussy in his face, Fuck! the way he made me squirm was unbelievable! i didnt let nim make me cum tho, i got off, dropped to my knees and sucked his cock for all i was worth, i knew he wouldnt last long so i had to stop, even tho i was sooo fucking hungry for it, i had never felt such an urgency to suck a cock in my entire life! i then moved to the bed, took out my dildo and fucked myself to 3 mind blowing orgasms! i then got him to suck it clean, which was all he could take, this ordeal lasted over 2 hours, so by the time i was done, he begged me to fuck him/suck him/even just stroke him, nething to cum...teasingly i reminded him that it was his idea to neglect my needs so im gonna neglect his, i then put his blindfold back on and got 2jugs of water. the first was warm+and soapy and i used it to "clean my saliva" off his cock, which he thought was an excellent excuse to give him a handjob, but just as he was geting into it, i gave him an icecold rinse!

Haha...im an evil genuis

 

[cyber707]

extensive research...

There's nothing wrong with letting him do the homework for you. You could tease him further by asking him to write down ways in which he would like to serve you - his fantasies. This will give you lots of ideas that you can use or not use as you wish. It'll also get him turned on writing them but of course he cannot have any release.

we have discussed his various fantasies extensively over the past few weeks+they become increasingly graphic because of his desperate state. but iv noticed that theres a pattern in his fantasies, its either, a teacher, or nurse, or boss, or dom, but they all involve him being the submissive student, patient, employee, sub, etc.

the other thing is that he's got a huge thing for older women, he loves them, practically as much if not more than the bikini models in mags. he's constantly surfing milf sites. so i thought of role playing an older woman, but i generally look quite young. netips on how to be a more convincing older woman? also any more ideas would be welcome for this scenario.

Hot lovin...Me

 

[FurryFury]

"I assume you are free to masturbate during his period of abstinence? If so I suggest masturbating in front of him on occasion - just to make him squirm "

i must be getting the hang of all this dom play, coz last night i sat him in a chair facing the foot of the bed, and he'd had a long day at work so i gave him a neck and shoulder massage, then a head massage +every so often id press his head against my boobs and id hear him sigh+just sink into it. all the while we were talking, arb things, you know how the day was, ect.

neways i then whispered in his ear that massaging his big manly shoulders while listening to his deep voice was really getting me hot, so i blind folded him with his tie+told him to hold still. i then fetched more ties and tied him to the chair, hands+feet. then o slipped on a babydoll, luckily i was wearing my black lacy panties so that work well with the babdoll. neways i took off his blindfold and the look in his eyes was priceless, i could see every cell in his body wanting me. neways i teased him a bit telling him how silly it was that he's holding out, coz iv got needs+i really needed a good fucking!

then i slipped of my soaking wet panty and put it over his head, letting it hang around his neck, coz i knew the smell of my hot pussy would drive him wild. neways he was playing it cool, pretending like he could hold out the rest of the 40days, theres about two weeks left. so i told him i couldnt, i then straddled the chair and lifted one leg so that i could get my pussy in his face, Fuck! the way he made me squirm was unbelievable! i didnt let nim make me cum tho, i got off, dropped to my knees and sucked his cock for all i was worth, i knew he wouldnt last long so i had to stop, even tho i was sooo fucking hungry for it, i had never felt such an urgency to suck a cock in my entire life! i then moved to the bed, took out my dildo and fucked myself to 3 mind blowing orgasms! i then got him to suck it clean, which was all he could take, this ordeal lasted over 2 hours, so by the time i was done, he begged me to fuck him/suck him/even just stroke him, nething to cum...teasingly i reminded him that it was his idea to neglect my needs so im gonna neglect his, i then put his blindfold back on and got 2jugs of water. the first was warm+and soapy and i used it to "clean my saliva" off his cock, which he thought was an excellent excuse to give him a handjob, but just as he was geting into it, i gave him an icecold rinse!

Haha...im an evil genuis

Sounds like a good time was had! I'm tempted to say by all because let's face it, he asked for it so he is probably quite pleased too!

*smiles*

Good for you!

Fury

 

[cyber707]

Getting Hotter

Sounds like a good time was had! I'm tempted to say by all because let's face it, he asked for it so he is probably quite pleased too!

Good for you!

Fury

oh it was excellent! the look on his face throughout the night was priceless. but i have to admit, this whole 40days business is really getting on my nerves! im dying to just get a good fuck. im telling you he has been surprisingly resiliant. but we'll see how it goes. iv decided that everynight for the next two weeks till our big day, im gonna make him wear my paties around his neck while we sleep. it really gets me hot knowing that he likes to smell my pussy+knowing that he cant do anything about it is even better.

wot other things can i do to create even more sexual tension over the next two weeks, i do plan to masterbate infront of him alot more and il be walking around the house with no undies and micro minis, offering him very generous glances whenever i feel to tease him.

iv also considered spanking him everynight for the next two weeks for neglecting my needs and then have him eat me till im satisfied. and i think im gonna have him finger my ass, coz he's been wanting to for a very long time. it'll really drive him to the edge.

iv reached a point where i want him so bad i really actually dont care if he doesnt last the full 40 days, i just want him to lose all control and have his way with me, i dunno wots gotten into me coz previously i wouldve been terrified by setting a sex starved man loose on me, but now i just want him to rape me+fuck me till im sore!

from a dom point of view is this even considered? to all female dom's how do you let your male subs please you?

Hot luvin...

 

[kat_42]

40 days is more or less standard fare here. Supposedly, I get released once a week, if I can manage to avoid mis-behaving for 7 days. 30 days punishment is not uncommon. After three weeks, my orgasm isn't as wonderful a release as one might think. It can actually hurt, in my experience. My semen can get a kind of *cottage cheese* (thats what we call it) texture to it, and its not at all pleasant. On the other hand, it does give me strong motivation to do my chores BEFORE She gets home. Goddess has read up on prostrate milking, and I have no desire to find out why.......

 

[kat_42]

oh it was excellent! the look on his face throughout the night was priceless. but i have to admit, this whole 40days business is really getting on my nerves! im dying to just get a good fuck. im telling you he has been surprisingly resiliant. but we'll see how it goes. iv decided that everynight for the next two weeks till our big day, im gonna make him wear my paties around his neck while we sleep. it really gets me hot knowing that he likes to smell my pussy+knowing that he cant do anything about it is even better.

wot other things can i do to create even more sexual tension over the next two weeks, i do plan to masterbate infront of him alot more and il be walking around the house with no undies and micro minis, offering him very generous glances whenever i feel to tease him.

iv also considered spanking him everynight for the next two weeks for neglecting my needs and then have him eat me till im satisfied. and i think im gonna have him finger my ass, coz he's been wanting to for a very long time. it'll really drive him to the edge.

iv reached a point where i want him so bad i really actually dont care if he doesnt last the full 40 days, i just want him to lose all control and have his way with me, i dunno wots gotten into me coz previously i wouldve been terrified by setting a sex starved man loose on me, but now i just want him to rape me+fuck me till im sore!

from a dom point of view is this even considered? to all female dom's how do you let your male subs please you?

Hot luvin...

Goddess gets pleasured at Her...pleasure. She has no trouble at all telling me to use the strap-on, and no trouble at all punishing me if She can tell the difference. Its very exciting to me to make love to Her like this. It usually makes for some very yummy begging. *weg*

 

[MrCrave]

His Chastity Should Not be Yours

He's chaste for 40/40, not you. You want to fuck? Have him wear the big black strap-on and do you hard and fast.

Explain to him that if you don't cum x times per day now, he doesn't cum at the cabin.

Make him shave from nose to nads every day. For every hair you can find, you pull it out with a pair of tweezers. Or have him do the pulling.

Is the cabin isolated? Have him strip in the car and carry the bags inside naked.

Older women turn him on? Insist that he admit to at least one older woman that he's the happiest guy in the world since you took control of the relationship. And why should he have all the fun? If tall, muscular jocks turn you on, insist that he admit to at least one of them that he's the happiest guy in the world since you took control of the relationship. Of course, it doesn't count if you're not there to witness his confession.

Mention the name of one of his friends to him. Before he gets to the cabin, tell him he must write a 1,500 word story about you and the friend having hot sex. At the cabin, he must stand and read the story out loud to you, while naked and hard. If he loses his erection during the story...

At the cabin, take him into the woods, drop his pants, tie him to a tree, and spank his ass.

Take pictures of everything you do to him. Get him to consent that he'll enlarge your favorite/most humiliating pic, frame it, and hang it on your bathroom wall.

Before bed one night at the cabin, tell him that when you wake up in the morning, you'll want to thumb through the pages of Playgirl or a gay BDSM magazine. You don't care what he has to do to make it happen, but no mag, no cumming.

Didn't you say he has gained weight? Tell him that you heard a rumor that fat guys have small cocks. Judging by him, the rumor was true.

Go separately to a dance club. Dress to impress. Dance with all the guys that hit on you. Make him watch. Tell the guys that your name is Jenna and you'd love for them to call you at different times during the weekend. Give them your boyfriend's cell phone number. When they call, he must pretend to be you and have phone sex with them. Tell your boyfriend that he can cum as much as he wants, as long as he's on the phone.

 

[neonflux]

we have discussed his various fantasies extensively over the past few weeks+they become increasingly graphic because of his desperate state. but iv noticed that theres a pattern in his fantasies, its either, a teacher, or nurse, or boss, or dom, but they all involve him being the submissive student, patient, employee, sub, etc.

the other thing is that he's got a huge thing for older women, he loves them, practically as much if not more than the bikini models in mags. he's constantly surfing milf sites. so i thought of role playing an older woman, but i generally look quite young. netips on how to be a more convincing older woman? also any more ideas would be welcome for this scenario.

Hot lovin...Me

Hey cyber707, been reading the thread with interest but haven't posted until now because the advice has already been so good. Regarding age-related role-ply, a lot of it is in the mind, helped out by costumes, of course. Not only for you but for him.

What age is he in his fantasies? High school? Could he dress like a high school jock? Younger, as in jr. high? Think of something appropriate - either in dress or accessories and make him dress the part. If he doesn't have an age in mind, perhaps you can choose it for him based on your own desires.

For you, if your hair is long enough, pull it back severely. Put on glasses, then the rest of the dress to play the specific part. Perhaps add a little grey streak with colored hairspray. Sounds like you already have imagination and that your communication with each other is good enough to come up with interesting scenarios.

Would love to get a report on what you come up with. (Pictures, perhaps neck down, would also be appreciated )

Have fun
Neon

 

[cyber707]

Very impressive...

He's chaste for 40/40, not you. You want to fuck? Have him wear the big black strap-on and do you hard and fast.

Explain to him that if you don't cum x times per day now, he doesn't cum at the cabin.

Make him shave from nose to nads every day. For every hair you can find, you pull it out with a pair of tweezers. Or have him do the pulling.

Is the cabin isolated? Have him strip in the car and carry the bags inside naked.

Older women turn him on? Insist that he admit to at least one older woman that he's the happiest guy in the world since you took control of the relationship. And why should he have all the fun? If tall, muscular jocks turn you on, insist that he admit to at least one of them that he's the happiest guy in the world since you took control of the relationship. Of course, it doesn't count if you're not there to witness his confession.

Mention the name of one of his friends to him. Before he gets to the cabin, tell him he must write a 1,500 word story about you and the friend having hot sex. At the cabin, he must stand and read the story out loud to you, while naked and hard. If he loses his erection during the story...

At the cabin, take him into the woods, drop his pants, tie him to a tree, and spank his ass.

Take pictures of everything you do to him. Get him to consent that he'll enlarge your favorite/most humiliating pic, frame it, and hang it on your bathroom wall.

Before bed one night at the cabin, tell him that when you wake up in the morning, you'll want to thumb through the pages of Playgirl or a gay BDSM magazine. You don't care what he has to do to make it happen, but no mag, no cumming.

Didn't you say he has gained weight? Tell him that you heard a rumor that fat guys have small cocks. Judging by him, the rumor was true.

Go separately to a dance club. Dress to impress. Dance with all the guys that hit on you. Make him watch. Tell the guys that your name is Jenna and you'd love for them to call you at different times during the weekend. Give them your boyfriend's cell phone number. When they call, he must pretend to be you and have phone sex with them. Tell your boyfriend that he can cum as much as he wants, as long as he's on the phone.

talk about getting those creative juices flowing...if i were with you right now, id give you a long rewarding blowjob for a job very well done! coz i definately want those juices flowing as well.

we've never previously used a strap-on, but iv been dying to get one so im gonna take you up on that+i love the idea of cumming x times a day! thats just brilliant, coz as tallented as his tongue and fingers are, im craving the feeling of a cock and a hard sweaty body pressed against me!

iv been calling out his best friends name during our sessions and its been such a mind fuck, the poor boy is being torn apart! iv also been teasing him bout the size of his cock after our sessions, coz once he goes flaccid after 2/3 hours, its not so easy to get back up,esp after a cold rinse, which i insist on. then i calling it my little "sour worm" (like those jelly sweetz), and telling him how adorable it is, and what a pity he isnt hung like his best friend, coz iv seen it and i actually do wish he'd fuck me with that monster.

i tell you all this power has seriously gone to my head and its sooo intoxicating, not to mention i feel like a dirty wanton slut, controlled by the cravings of my pussy. all this talking is making me soaking wet, im gonna find my love slave and have him eat me while i surf.... il be back soon!

Hot lovin...Me

 

[O'Mac]

Hey all, im looking for any ideas you have for dominating a willing male. my boyfriend is doing the whole 40 days 40 nights of abstinence so on day 41 we've booked a little cottage for a day of...

nayways, he is very willing to be my sub, but iv no idea how to go about this. being assertive isnt the problem. im just not all that creative, so im extending an invitation to you. any and all ideas are welcome, esp for things i can make him do, punishment, ways for him to worship me ect, also iv got a real kink for humiliation but iv never done it so i really need sum help here!

i look forward to all your suggestions. and dont worry he wont read any of the posts even though its his account, coz he has such a weakness 4 lit that he cant log on without cumming

I can barely manage 40 hours without nookie. Your boyfriend has a WILL OF IRON!!!

 

[cyber707]

I can barely manage 40 hours without nookie. Your boyfriend has a WILL OF IRON!!!

His dick feels that way too